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Guy pics on couples profiles.

By *ackandLucy OP Couple over a year ago

Chester

Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple over a year ago

Halifax

Nope you're not wrong at all

If they are looking for a couple,there should be pics of both,but so many use the woman as bait I think.

If we get a message from a profile with no pics of Mr, we don't engage with them.It feels like I'm insignificant as a straight woman.

This is why we meet more at clubs and socials now,as so many dont show pics of Mr.

I get it of they are only looking for men or use clubs etc.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yah I find the same. I get a message to see of I'd like to play with the male half of a couple and when I go to look there may just one pic.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

We've always had pics of both of us up but there's probably less of me on there now than other guys we've met.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its easy to sort. We had our profile pic of just the female and it just attracted single males pretty much who obviously hadnt bothered to read the profile. Sigh.

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By *wo4FemCouple over a year ago

Birmingham

Our photos are pretty evenly split with some of myself, some of Mrs2 and some of both of us together.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't show hubby as much as we are only looking to meet straight single men, when I start talking to someone we may want to meet I will send face photos of both of us. When we were meeti_g couples the photos would be more even but we don't feel the need to show him if we are only looking for people for me to play with.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

If they want to meet us as a straight couple I need to see the guy. If I can't I'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I keep asking Dorian to takes pics of himself to put on the profile but typical man he doesn't listen and so far has been too lazy to do so.

~Mia

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I keep asking Dorian to takes pics of himself to put on the profile but typical man he doesn't listen and so far has been too lazy to do so.

~Mia"

You could take some of him

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By *airyfatmanMan over a year ago

by 'ere

When I first joined as a couple with my “playmate” we had pictures of both us but it was still mainly her that got all the attention and endless single “straight” men that just wanted her. We had the profile showing only single men IF bi so we could all play and still get the straight guys. Their response “I don’t care who sucks me off but I ain’t doing it back”

Anyway, gone off on a tangent.... my pics were practically ignored in favour of hers anyway

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?"
Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of these profiles are single men pretending to be a couple, they use pics of the 'partner' just to attract attention!

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

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We have a pretty even split of photos of both of us, XX alone and XY alone.

Hopefully they give an ok enough indication of what we're like without the obvious face pics (hopefully our body shots can entice people enough before we scare them off with our faces)

However, we agree that when a couples profile messages us or winks us and the male isn't represented, or is just a cock shot, we tend to pass them by. XX would like to see her side of the bargain too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?"

You're so right. We struggle to understand why so many men seem to hide behind their partner.

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

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"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?

You're so right. We struggle to understand why so many men seem to hide behind their partner."

So many times we look at profiles and I'm (XY) like 'I want that one', but XX is like 'but what the fuck would I be getting'

In all seriousness though, we want to meet people of similar appearance to us. So photos of us both will hopefully help others make that decision.

If we can't see photos of both, then there's no point, we're not going to beg to see photos of the guy. We'll just move on to a profile that shows us.

Besides, it would be a bit of a downer if all was going well until the photo of the guys were swapped and then it went quiet. You'd know exactly who to blame then.

At least our way, I can blame lack of interest due to XX, and she can blame it on me and we can both carry on in blissful ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a few of me(male) but no one has ever asked for more lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We used to when we were meeti_g couples and ladies but we are only looking for single guys now so no point in having pics of Clarence xx

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?"

You assume they want to join in , and that’s not always the case .

Many of our meets have occurred where I haven’t met the guy who plays with my wife .

So yes , you are wrong in this instance .

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By *G CoupleCouple over a year ago

kent

"Most of these profiles are single men pretending to be a couple, they use pics of the 'partner' just to attract attention!

Maybe some but wouldn’t say most

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I keep asking Dorian to takes pics of himself to put on the profile but typical man he doesn't listen and so far has been too lazy to do so.

~Mia

You could take some of him

I always forget aha. But alas we don't get to play much due to being on opposite shifts so fun is a rare occurrence for us. I must remember my phone next time we play.

~Mia

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

We can't have pics of me as I'm an important member of the cabinet and I don't need the adverse publicity. Not until we get this Brexit mess sorted.

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?"

Ah there you may be wrong....Mr M doesn't play other than with me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I dont blame them if they’re fat and butt ugly, we always ask for pics of both together and a few of the Mr as we are a full swap couple.

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By *estofbothCouple over a year ago

Cardiff

Our public profile pics are just an idea of what I look like.

The private gallery has a good split of both of us and whenever we send a message we attach pics of us both and then share the friends gallery pretty soon after.

People we are likely to play with get to see, the rest don’t matter really.

Seems to work for us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have some pictures of Mr on our public profile, but not as many as me, as we kind of took the view that most people aren’t interested in seeing loads of pictures of a middle aged man in various stages of undress.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have pics of us both but people often message a little unsure of which Rich is as we have pics up from some of our meets. But we're always happy to send a face pic when asked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have pics of us both but people often message a little unsure of which Rich is as we have pics up from some of our meets. But we're always happy to send a face pic when asked

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Ha ha. Yes ours is probably a bit confusing too as to which if the guys in our public pictures is my husband.

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By *ackandLucy OP Couple over a year ago

Chester

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

How many pictures of the male half would you like to see?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve found this to be true too. And how come whenever there are 29 pics of a female and zero male photos, it always turns out that only the male is available to meet?

Catfishing on a whole new level. It’s annoying. It happens a lot with “couples” on here (well the ones that have approached me at least).

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

"How many pictures of the male half would you like to see? "

We have often wondered this exact question

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are here as a couple but Cee never plays so don't see the need for his pics to be on profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

We think that your picture is more than adequate because it gives a fair representation which is all one could hope for. It's not the number of pictures that matter, it's whether they show sufficient detail or not.

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By *ackandLucy OP Couple over a year ago

Chester

"How many pictures of the male half would you like to see? "

I guess it depends what you're looking for - if belly size or hairyness is an issue, then you want a body shot; if asset size...

Personally, all we need is one body photo of each, then one face pic - then we meet and see what they really look like. That wouldn't work if you're looking long distance, of course.

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple over a year ago

coventry

We agree with this, we tried to make our fair, we just wish other couples would to sends us mad x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it’s fair to say that there will usually more female than male pics on a couples profile. However, I think most couples profiles, who are real and meet, will usually have at least one body representation of the male, unless they are a couple who only meet single men. Off the top of my head I can’t think of any of our swinging friends who don’t show the male at all, or only show his cock and nothing else. Whether it’s necessary to have so many pics of the female is a different matter.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If they want to meet us as a straight couple I need to see the guy. If I can't I'm not interested."

This

we get messaged by so many profiles with no pics of the male half

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker?"
We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it "

How can you say that? They're clearly both in the picture on their profile?

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

How can you say that? They're clearly both in the picture on their profile?"
Exactly what we said, apart from the profile pic, which you cant click and view as its thumb nail they dont have any other pics, never ever mentioned not being able to see them, was referring to them having no other pics thats all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

How can you say that? They're clearly both in the picture on their profile? Exactly what we said, apart from the profile pic, which you cant click and view as its thumb nail they dont have any other pics, never ever mentioned not being able to see them, was referring to them having no other pics thats all"

You can click and view it, it's on their profile!!

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why are there so few pics of the guy on most couple's profiles? They are expecting to join in, so surely the girls want to see more than just a cock? or am I wrong about that?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

Their profile pic is also in their public gallery, and so it's clickable and can be enlarged.

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I think it’s fair to say that there will usually more female than male pics on a couples profile. However, I think most couples profiles, who are real and meet, will usually have at least one body representation of the male, unless they are a couple who only meet single men. Off the top of my head I can’t think of any of our swinging friends who don’t show the male at all, or only show his cock and nothing else. Whether it’s necessary to have so many pics of the female is a different matter.

Mrs "

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

If profiles just genitalia then we won't interact on here. We have some of male torso pics etc and like to see the same on couples profiles. But so many couples profile have no male body pics (odd cock pic or him lying on sofa face down) makes it suspicious not physically pleasing to the eye if in hiding. We have more male pics in detail in friends but they've seen him by then lol xx

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By *londie8399Couple over a year ago

blackpool

I need to put a few more on of hubby it's not Evan but he does have some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

We would add that although you're probably nice people, your profile is exactly the type people are referring to in this thread. Your male seems to be hiding behind the profile.

Do you only meet single straight guys?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Mrs "

When the female is an exhibitionist then the more pics the better as far as P is concerned. How about we leave people to run their profiles as they see fit and just use your own preferences to what you want to see on a profile as an extra filter that's not actually a Fab supplied one.

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

" Its funny you saying that considering you dont have any pics apart from Profile pic..

Do you think we need any more pics? - we have face pics reserved for messages but other than that, we figured you can tell what kind of shape we're in from the profile pic. Or do dick and pussy picks make the deal breaker? We dont think you need any more or less pics.Just found it funny that you started a thread about lack of pics of men on profiles, Yet you have no pics full stop, We have pics in friends & Private of us both , Think there is a happy in between then no pics, or a dick & pussy pic, can hardly click on your profile pic and view it

We would add that although you're probably nice people, your profile is exactly the type people are referring to in this thread. Your male seems to be hiding behind the profile.

Do you only meet single straight guys?"
We have pics of male in friends only pics,and we not actually looking to meet any single males straight or not

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By *ackandLucy OP Couple over a year ago

Chester

Well, I don't want to start any flaming and I think you're right; that we don't really have enough pics up - it's a bit disappointing to scroll down and find a lack of eye-candy.

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By *otty69Couple over a year ago

bedford

"Well, I don't want to start any flaming and I think you're right; that we don't really have enough pics up - it's a bit disappointing to scroll down and find a lack of eye-candy."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being perfectly honest I (james) don't take many pictures of myself and Rose just lives taking naughty photos. Im not holding things back, I just don't have my pictures of myself. There are a few of me in the public photos and I've got a fair few in our friends photos of my face which we provide in private messages upon talking to people.

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