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By *onguentastic OP   Man  over a year ago

Ballymoney

Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

What an odd thing to say.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There's attraction in all areas. Just like everyone has their kink.

I'm more into dad bod type of guys and not the male severely pumped up gym bunnies.

Everyone has their preference

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think the amount of threads in praise of fuller figured ladies implies that the women would.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire

From the results of many other forum posts on the topic the answer is YES DEFINITELY x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man  over a year ago

Bristol


"What an odd thing to say. "

I agree, almost offensive..

Room (npi) for all of us..

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman  over a year ago
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My Own Little World

Well this fatty has done alright.

But then almost all my meets have been in a club where they have seen my fat arse before coming over and asking if I fancied a fuck

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By *ackandLucyCouple  over a year ago

Chester

The amount of actual sex you'd end up with should be the same - it would just streamline the process of getting to the sex.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman  over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh yes

.. of course ... we are such lovley people .... next burning question

..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nah! Of course not...no one likes a fatty....

(That's sarcasm btw)

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester


"What an odd thing to say.

I agree, almost offensive..

Room (npi) for all of us.."

At a loss why this question was posted at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Certainly would love fuller figure women they have more to explore and enjoy. But yeah this seems a silly question

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think the amount of threads in praise of fuller figured ladies implies that the women would. "

I agree!!

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By *londieddWoman  over a year ago

fife


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one!

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman  over a year ago

crawley

As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size

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By *ilkynmyzzyCouple  over a year ago

Bridlington

Can't see that it would make any difference to us. We are open about it on our profile, both in our profile text and pictures and it hasn't stopped us getting offers.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

well I'm over weight and hasn't stopped meeting

so kind of a judgemental question op

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one!"

I think that's why he's asking.

I think its a good idea in theory, unfortunately people would just lie about their size.

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

The op is clearly coming from his point of view , that being a male .

We all know that women of any size will never struggle for a meet . I imagine it’s a different story for men .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, but it would mean a lot more rejection, by the non-fat people, before they gave up and tried on the fat ones instead.

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By *ooby birdWoman  over a year ago

North West

Odd question - but I'm doing ok so far

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The op is clearly coming from his point of view , that being a male .

We all know that women of any size will never struggle for a meet . I imagine it’s a different story for men ....."

I read it this way, too. He describes himself as large so you can see why he might ask.

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By *ickawitchCouple  over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I am fat and I have never struggled for meets - quite the opposite

I have never tried to fudge how I look because you can quite clearly see I am fat in my pics

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The op is clearly coming from his point of view , that being a male .

We all know that women of any size will never struggle for a meet . I imagine it’s a different story for men .....

I read it this way, too. He describes himself as large so you can see why he might ask."

I read it that way to! X

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford

I would then have to get a Sky remote that was small, to make my cock look big and another that was big to make my stomach look small.

It’s an administration nightmare

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By *onguentastic OP   Man  over a year ago

Ballymoney


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one!"

yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category

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By *onguentastic OP   Man  over a year ago

Ballymoney


"well I'm over weight and hasn't stopped meeting

so kind of a judgemental question op"

can i just say i am not being judgemental as i am overweight my self thats why i asked the question

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By *onguentastic OP   Man  over a year ago

Ballymoney


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!"

quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one! yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category "

It's very subjective. According to my BMI I am overweight by a stone or just over. I don't feel overweight nor do I think I particularly look it anymore. (I have lost 5 stone so I've been there)

Personally would I seek out overweight people? I can't say I would, but again, it would depend on so many circumstances.

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By *rincess peachWoman  over a year ago

shits creek

I would also like to say OP, that you don't look very overweight in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!"

Lol. The poor guy says he's fat... He's clearly wanting to know if he'll get laid if there was a body size search xx

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan  over a year ago

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"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

that will go for you then? as you say in your profile your a tubby one! yes would defo go for me thats why i asked the question i was just wondering if people would choose the overweight category "

If I was browsing profiles I would filter out Women who describe themselves as overweight and I'm sure a lot of Women who do the same for Men who describe themselves as slim,

I don't understand why fab has got this option in there search filters

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By *sGivesWoodWoman  over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm chunky but doing ok

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How bloody rude

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site! quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man "

As I thought ....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There’s nothing sexier than a women who’s body confident regardless of her figure!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

And you ask why women won't meet you!! Pmsl!!!

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By *ucy83SOWoman  over a year ago

Southampton

Why wouldn’t we?

I have on my profile I’m plus size, I have the large box ticked for body type and I have pics up...I don’t hide I’m plus size so why would I suddenly not get meets,

Am I missing something?

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By *hickennchipsWoman  over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"Why wouldn’t we?

I have on my profile I’m plus size, I have the large box ticked for body type and I have pics up...I don’t hide I’m plus size so why would I suddenly not get meets,

Am I missing something?"

You are gorgeous loving the term panda meets!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Folks i think you are getting the op wrong here. From what I see if there was an overweight body type would a man get meets he's not saying anything about bbw!I hope I'm correct in this!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Women would have NO problem

But I think men will struggle even more.

Just my opinion x

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By *ucy83SOWoman  over a year ago

Southampton


"Why wouldn’t we?

I have on my profile I’m plus size, I have the large box ticked for body type and I have pics up...I don’t hide I’m plus size so why would I suddenly not get meets,

Am I missing something?

You are gorgeous loving the term panda meets!

"

Thanks my lovely, you’re very kind....

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Folks i think you are getting the op wrong here. From what I see if there was an overweight body type would a man get meets he's not saying anything about bbw!I hope I'm correct in this! "

You are correct , he has said so .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would agree haven't seen any chubby chasers or big bear hunters looking men!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Probably more than any other body type

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How quick some are to jump on the defensive. Perfectly acceptable question I thought. I would use it to filter out the extremes at both ends of the scale.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!"

Errr! No actually. Some of us read it as a guy who describes himself as chubby asking an understandable question when you also read his status.

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

People love a bit of outrage on here at times eh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How quick some are to jump on the defensive. Perfectly acceptable question I thought. I would use it to filter out the extremes at both ends of the scale. "

It may impact the number of those making contact initially but don't think it would impact the number of meets necessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm very interested to see if any women will say they like bbm or curvy men!

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman  over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman  over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

My profile name says BBW so they already know my body shape and if more people actually read profiles they'd learn more about the people whose profiles they are looking at.

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By *dam1971Man  over a year ago

Bedford


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those."

You have a face? I have one too, wow - we have lots in common

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!"

He didn't say that

I am shallow, I would only meet people if I fancied them

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site! quite the opposite i am a fat person you are all reading it wrong i am talking from a mans point of view would it change things for a man "

It would still be the same answer for me, it is an odd question and my reasoning is, people fancy all shapes and sizes....so every shape and size would be in with a chance of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

From what I'm reading on this thread it is easier for people to attack instead of help! Look at what the op wrote and see if you can reassure him!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Why wouldn't they?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Attraction comes in all shapes, sizes, colour.

I don’t like particularly skinny women, but a lot men do.

If they had an ignorant or arrogant search, then some might people might get so lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Attraction comes in all shapes, sizes, colour.

I don’t like particularly skinny women, but a lot men do.

If they had an ignorant or arrogant search, then some might people might get so lucky. "

Not get so lucky*

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Big girls you are beautiful!! And so much fun . Love a girl with a fuller figure and confident with it

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Probably. I know I would; some guys don't care about body size and judge attractiveness by face instead. And I have one of those.

You have a face? I have one too, wow - we have lots in common "

I know, right. What are the chances?!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would say no that me just being point blank honest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Another one of those

(Fat people shouldn’t be on fab threads)

Some

Shallow people

On here and that’s what ruins the site!

"

Another one of those over sensitive posts that gets it all wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

What a ridiculously childish thing to say, I’ve never had a problem and I’m a big girl.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

What a ridiculously childish thing to say, I’ve never had a problem and I’m a big girl. "

Big girls have a different experience from big guys on here.

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

Fab faux outrage at its finest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It was obvious the guy was referring too himself, people are hard work on here at times. Everyone has their own type but suppose beggars can’t be choosers

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By *gentlovedayWoman  over a year ago

Tranmere


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "

I totally do this as well its sad but i assume they are taking the piss and can sometimes ignore

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester

According to government guidelines, I'm obese

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By *ollyGWoman  over a year ago

Southampton

I don't like slim guys, like something to cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes they're jolly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese "

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple  over a year ago

Cumbria

its the person not their body just because somebody thin doesn't mean they're gonna rock your world in bed.

but we are all looking for something different so it's a bit of a stupid question.

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight. "

Didn't say there was an and...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and... "

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

Anyway for the op , who asked a question and inadvertently caused all the outrage amongst the larger women ..... you don’t look vastly overweight , and I’m sure there are plenty of women who would meet you . Once you get that face to face meet it’s surprising how body size becomes less of an issue . Personality and humour shine through and it can be all good .

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By *sRedbbwWoman  over a year ago

Amwythig

Er yes! Most guys I meet seek me out as a larger woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

I think they would.

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese? "

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.

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By *sRedbbwWoman  over a year ago

Amwythig


"I'm very interested to see if any women will say they like bbm or curvy men! "

I like men of all shapes and sizes. Personality has a lot to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say."

What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't.

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By *arciocialWoman  over a year ago

Leicester


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.

What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't. "

I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.

What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't.

I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. "

*shrugs* yep. Exactly. But you don't need worry. We don't have to declare it yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "

Me too haha

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this....

1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone....

2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you....

i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness....

3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them!

i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!!

I am the best "one man gang" in the world....

its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this....

1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone....

2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you....

i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness....

3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them!

i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!!

I am the best "one man gang" in the world....

its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"

Now that’s a great post

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well said Fabio I couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this....

1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone....

2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you....

i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness....

3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them!

i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!!

I am the best "one man gang" in the world....

its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"

Everything in life depends on confidence. If you don’t have faith in yourself how can anyone else, common sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think it would make any difference. For me personally people can look on my profile and see I'm fat. I think all it would change is that I would get people that see fat as a fetish message me more.

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By *onguentastic OP   Man  over a year ago

Ballymoney

Thanks to those people who sent helpful messages and everyone else i apologise if i upset or offended you was not ment that way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don’t worry about the people who are agitated, can’t suit everyone mate and best of luck

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman  over a year ago

south yorkshire

I seriously doubt it would make a difference, all my five fbs prefer larger women. However having a status complaining women won't meet you won't be helped by forum posts like this.

You might not be sexually attracted to bigger women but a lot of men are. If it were introduced I doubt it would decrease the number of meets, if anything it would just make it easier to search for people you're attracted to. I take it you've never seen a BBQ night in a club? They are packed!

Ps...if you're hoping to attract a dominant lady you need to at least understand the basics!

Men are Dom, women are Domme.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Thanks to those people who sent helpful messages and everyone else i apologise if i upset or offended you was not ment that way "

Don't worry about it, you didn't say anything wrong. Hope you find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Yes of course they would.

However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Yes of course they would.

However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you. "

Why's that?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Thanks to those people who sent helpful messages and everyone else i apologise if i upset or offended you was not ment that way "

Fuck 'em! They live to jump on their white horses whilst totally missing the point of the op....

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Yes of course they would.

However if they read this post I doubt any women local to you, would want to meet you. "

Yeah why is that?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.

What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. So yeah. Just because you think you aren't doesn't mean you aren't.

I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. "

You don't look obese to me far from it infact.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"According to government guidelines, I'm obese

And....? I was until fairly recently. I feel much better after losing 2 stone but I acknowledge I'm still not a healthy weight.

Didn't say there was an and...

Oh I thought it might have relevance to the thread other than to tell all you were obese?

Well I thought it did, considering it's not just overweight it's obese, so I wouldn't get meets if we had to disclose our body size. i don't feel obese, I'm quite healthy with what I eat and exercise, but it's what the government say.

What does obese feel like? We'd only be as honest in disclosing our body size as we are with ourselves. You look similar to my body shape was and I was obese. "

Ouch

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo


"

I didn't say I wasn't, but I am happy with how I am. Also the government do it based on bmi, not body fat and muscle. "

You don't look obese

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By *abioMan  over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this....

1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone....

2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you....

i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness....

3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them!

i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!!

I am the best "one man gang" in the world....

its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!

Now that’s a great post "

thanks... we don't tend to agree on much, but i appriate that....

sometimes it just grates on me the amount of "oh woe is me" that goes on here...

you can sit back, complain, gripe about things... or you can do something about it and be proactive

no such thing as sympathy sex.... go out and make yourselves as attactive as you can.... no one knows you better than you so sell your selling points!!!

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

"

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It was obvious the guy was referring too himself, people are hard work on here at times. Everyone has their own type but suppose beggars can’t be choosers "

Not sure what you are saying there, comes across like you will fuck anyone whether you fancy them or not?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

God yes! I love curves xxxx

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight."

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’m a big lass, i manage to have loads of Fab fun.

I’m a fan of a more substantial man as well, big beardy chunky guys especially.

At the end of the day though regardless of size (of any bit of someone’s anatomy), if we don’t click and have a laugh it’s not going to go any further...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Some would get meets but I think most would get less meets than usual and people would also lie about their size just to appear in searches. I always assume that this is the reason there isn’t body search.

I dropped my body description from Athletic to Average and noticed a difference (even though I’m not really average, I just dont feel like I’m in full athletic mode currently).

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Don't you just look at pics OP?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m a big lass, i manage to have loads of Fab fun.

I’m a fan of a more substantial man as well, big beardy chunky guys especially.

At the end of the day though regardless of size (of any bit of someone’s anatomy), if we don’t click and have a laugh it’s not going to go any further..."

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By *adysilkCouple  over a year ago

birmingham


"Oh yes

.. of course ... we are such lovley people .... next burning question

.. "

yes BBW are beautiful people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh yes

.. of course ... we are such lovley people .... next burning question

.. yes BBW are beautiful people "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I really hope so. X

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple  over a year ago

Halifax

I think so op

Some women like bigger men too on here

Not everyone looks for or expects a supermodel.

Miss

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By *reedy_for_funCouple  over a year ago

My House


"There's attraction in all areas. Just like everyone has their kink.

I'm more into dad bod type of guys and not the male severely pumped up gym bunnies.

Everyone has their preference "

I bet you got even more swamped with messages than usual after this post didn't you

If size was an issue no one apart from the Ego Gym Bunnies would get meets on fabs.

As it is, there's certainly someone for everyone here on Fabs. I think personality matters more than how many times he/she's been to the gym this week.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Some would get meets but I think most would get less meets than usual and people would also lie about their size just to appear in searches. I always assume that this is the reason there isn’t body search.

I dropped my body description from Athletic to Average and noticed a difference (even though I’m not really average, I just dont feel like I’m in full athletic mode currently). "

Good point.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

"

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loving how most the posts have jumped in assuming he was talking about women ?

Personally i think there are enough filters to help narrow down a search without adding more.

Too many people already looking for their unicorn (which probably will never happen) than out having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not sure I'd use a body size/type search if there was one. Personality is more important to me than someone's size. I judge a person by reading their profile (yes I really do read them) and look at their pics, and if it doesn't spark my interest I move on. Plus as others have said a lot struggle with which 'label' they should wear including me.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"I'm not sure I'd use a body size/type search if there was one. Personality is more important to me than someone's size. I judge a person by reading their profile (yes I really do read them) and look at their pics, and if it doesn't spark my interest I move on. Plus as others have said a lot struggle with which 'label' they should wear including me."

You must be insane.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not sure I'd use a body size/type search if there was one. Personality is more important to me than someone's size. I judge a person by reading their profile (yes I really do read them) and look at their pics, and if it doesn't spark my interest I move on. Plus as others have said a lot struggle with which 'label' they should wear including me.

You must be insane. "

Damn! What gave me away?

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By *acavityMan  over a year ago

Redditch

Fat bloke here, who does OK on fab.

If we had a search filter for body size, we would soon have threads complaining about 'fab slim' profiles.

Personality and communication are more useful to get meets. For every one looking for gym fit, there is someone else looking for cuddly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "
larger people are harder to steal

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull

I'll let you into a secret if you don't tell anyone.

Whispers "people of all shapes and sizes have sex on fab"

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By *layfullsamMan  over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced larger people are harder to steal"

I've found it Better to roll them away

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem. "

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size.

People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size?

If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates "

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size.

People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size?

If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option."

A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is."

Obesity comes in different shapes and sizes too.

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"What an odd thing to say. "

Yes, it is. Swinging is successful for folk of all shapes and sizes. A brief look through fab would provide evidence for this and so would negate the need to ask.

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By *ranny Hunter 18210186Man  over a year ago

London Waterloo


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Overweight women, yes.

Overweight guys, no chance.

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is."

Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

Obesity comes in different shapes and sizes too. "

I said that in my original post I was called obese at 10 and a half stone

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am"

Obese and beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe more meets? In would like to be able to search for people who accept bigger women to save time messaging people who aren't interested

I did once had a meet with some one who told me they had never had a fat woman before so they wasn't sure if they would like it!

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By *ammers43Man  over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"What an odd thing to say. "

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am

Obese and beautiful. "

This is sounding more like star wars now OBW

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am

Obese and beautiful.

This is sounding more like star wars now OBW

"

..... you look like you've already moved to the dark side..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size.

People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size?

If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option.

A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height. "

That is not a problem because profiles already have height and body shape on them.

The only thing missing is size.

Too many see the negative instead of the positive that those who message you are more likely to be attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Technically I'm morbidly obese, I know it's bullshit but I do wonder how many women would see that and skip by as they'd assume I was fat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im a bit on the chunky side and have fucked some mighty fine specimens

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well considering we all have boils, rotted teeth and can barely put a sentence together I'd be surprised.

To be fair they'd need to bring their own fork lift and any dogging would need to take place in the back of a transit.

I prep is too much.

Saying that I think I do alright x

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By *dores blackmenWoman  over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

Off course we would,people do see our pics which makes it obvious or for real at clubs

So if you want to categorise me and others then ask fab to not just have 'large' as an option

I'm quite happy to tick the bbw box

Words like obese are not even used in porn, it's bbw/ssbbw which is a polite way of saying it

You can't start a category by saying 'slim' then end with 'obese that's just rude

Obese isn't an insult. It isn't rude. It's a medical term for being overweight.

Yes a nurse said I was obese at 10 and half stone when I was twenty so I've heard the term for 27 years, I know that fact

I'm actually morbidly obese now, in medical terms, I'm not at a medical centre here though, I'm in the swinging scene so I would rather be a bbw as it's more polite

I'd rather be athletic but I'm not that either. We are what we are. I'm not an ABM (average beautiful man) just to prop up my self esteem.

I'm not an average bbw either, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm just me, it's definitely not about self esteem, I prefer not to be called obese on a search, when it's athletic,slim,average, etc ending with obese it's not a word that is attractive, we are all here to attract playmates

Yes, but some like their playmates to be obese. Not curvy, not chubby. But obese. So call it what it is.

Just to please you I'm obese then I know I blooming am

Obese and beautiful.

This is sounding more like star wars now OBW

..... you look like you've already moved to the dark side.. "

I don't hide that either there is no hope for me now

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"I don't think anyone should fear a search based on mens waist size or women's dress size.

People who dont care wont use it. People who do care will. Surely we would all prefer to only have people looking at our profile who are happy with our size?

If we can have a search based on ethnicity surely we can have the size option.

A problem with that is people with the same dress or waist size look completely different because of body shape and height. "

Exactly!

My sister and I are the same size: 24 but looking at us she looks like an 18 at most. At 5ft 10 she's also 3" taller.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know what he is saying, it is more difficult for us guys that carry extra weight, but not impossible just takes a little effort and maybe a bit more time, i cant imagine the number of males on here who have all the attributes desired to attract ladies a little more easily so you have to plug away its not easy.

The ladies who are curvy or bbw dont struggle as much and thats not a dig its more likely fact through one reason or another, and fair play and good on them girl power haha, so you have to rely on a bit of personality and attraction just to start to chat then take it from there.

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By *omeo7xxxMan  over a year ago

London


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size "

Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size

Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! "

well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Shock and horrified

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By *omeo7xxxMan  over a year ago

London


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size

Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself "

Why would you think anyone is better then yourself... everyone has diffrent tastes so to speak, if you think your out of someones league then you may aswell be, never put yourself down and always raise the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Technically I'm morbidly obese, I know it's bullshit but I do wonder how many women would see that and skip by as they'd assume I was fat."

I'm at the halfway mark of being obese, on the nhs weight/height chart, and I look much fatter than you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Yes if it was a woman, not so much if it’s a man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

Yes they still would. All sorts do.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive met and had some great fun with bbw. They are more honest and receptive than some of the model tophy types.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Technically I'm morbidly obese, I know it's bullshit but I do wonder how many women would see that and skip by as they'd assume I was fat.

I'm at the halfway mark of being obese, on the nhs weight/height chart, and I look much fatter than you. "

I would be more than happy to have some playtime fun with you. Dont change a thing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "
i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise "

How come?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What an odd thing to say.

I agree, almost offensive..

Room (npi) for all of us.."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a bigger size girl i would be happy with that, as i would know thats exactly what guy searched for.

Sometimes when i get a message from "out of my league" guy, ill check with him 3 times if he is aware of my size

Never think anyone is out your league! Be confident in yourself, some may like you some may not but never think like that! well your right there but i think i outside most people league here even i working at it to better myself

Why would you think anyone is better then yourself... everyone has diffrent tastes so to speak, if you think your out of someones league then you may aswell be, never put yourself down and always raise the bar. "

i never put my self down since i lost a lot of weight in life i all happy go type of guy since moving back to the uk where i weight 24 stone now i weight 15 stone 9 pound which i lost in a year and a bit

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people "

How is the op rude in your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

I'm more into dad bod type of guys and not the male severely pumped up gym bunnies.

"

You're gonna need a bigger inbox!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people

How is the op rude in your opinion? "

I havnt said the op is rude

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Fairly self explanatory. It comes across rude and not many people would knowingly meet rude people

How is the op rude in your opinion? I havnt said the op is rude"

Ok, what did you mean when you said this then:

"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced "

i think ya overweight people would get more meets than some who were rude enough to assume otherwise" ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Exact as it reads. That ‘some’ assume otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well this fatty has done alright.

But then almost all my meets have been in a club where they have seen my fat arse before coming over and asking if I fancied a fuck "

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By *awty-discreetMan  over a year ago

Birmingham

Dadbod says hi xx ??

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan  over a year ago

salisbury


"Exact as it reads. That ‘some’ assume otherwise "

Oh! Sorry lol! I thought you were yet another person attacking the op!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Hi i seen a topic about body size search and i am just wondering would overweight people get meets if this was introduced

okay... speaking as a big unit i will say this....

1) mindset...... if you are defeated before you start then quite frankly you are no good to anyone....

2) negativity breads negativity... if you are down on yourself and fixate on your negatives, then when should others invest in you....

i'm probably as self deprecating as they come, i can take the mick out of me but no one else can!!!! don't mistake laughter for weakness....

3) if you don't think size is a positive for you, then play up some of your other positives...... we all have out own unique selling points, so bloody well use them!

i am the best "me" i can be.... and no one can be me better than me!!!

I am the best "one man gang" in the world....

its all attitude and mindsets..... if people don't wanna know me, why waste my energy.... and my energy is for positive people!!!"

Totally true, and if I may say so, you've been on my hotlist for months because of how your personality shines plus the fact I enjoy chunky guys

I'm another obese person, but body confident and don't waste my time on those who aren't attracted to larger women. No skin off my nose! We're all entitled to preferences.

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