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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This one is for the ladies really.
I'm still new here, how do I go about writing a short but reasonably good first message that would make you think " yes ok he sounds Ok to me, I'll chat with him and give it a go"....??
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Then you have a problem,cos its 50 times harder to pull in here than it is out there.
Make sure yo read the profile,yo fit wht they are looking for,then give a short initial message that responds to what they said,gives a sense of who you are and if possible includes some humour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Then you have a problem,cos its 50 times harder to pull in here than it is out there.
Make sure yo read the profile,yo fit wht they are looking for,then give a short initial message that responds to what they said,gives a sense of who you are and if possible includes some humour."
+1 totally agree. Most important thing read the profile first |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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I don't mean to sound cold, cruel, callous, or heartless ...... but I am so that's how this is going to come out.
If you need to be told what to say in order to make a first impression, what next? Will you be back in a couple of days asking what to say in reply to your first reply?
If its just the case that you know full well what to say but are perplexed at the lack of replies and assuming you must be doing something wrong, then that's an easy point to address - that's just how it is here - get used to it.
If you genuinely don't know what to say then I'm sorry to break this to you, but you are on the wrong site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well if you like the look and sound of someone after reading their profile, perhaps just write and tell them what has interested you. Maybe there was something in their profile that was interesting and you could mention that, maybe a pic they have is interesting.
I for instance, would say to you, I really like your pictures because I like the shadow of your cock across your thigh. It doesnt always have to be crafted and well thought out  |
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"Make sure yo read the profile,yo fit wht they are looking for,then give a short initial message that responds to what they said..."
Spend your time smartly. If all a profile says is "Up for anything" or "Will fill in later", ask yourself if it's really a serious contender.
Sometimes verifications can give an insight into the people that get to be met. You can then see if you fit the bill. You might also see that who people meet and who they say they are looking for are two different things, in which case modify your approach accordingly. |
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