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Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.
No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.
I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.
Any tips or is this quite common? |
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over a year ago
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"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.
No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.
I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.
Any tips or is this quite common? "
To be fair I've had a lot over the years and some were just plain awful, I doubt many would have popped a cork with those techniques.
To do something a little more personal, how often do you wank? Maybe you're somewhat desensitized? Maybe abstain for a few days beforehand. |
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"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.
No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.
I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.
Any tips or is this quite common? "
Would have said the same until recently! |
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over a year ago
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I am rarely able to cum with a bj. Only 2 ladies have ever managed it . Many have said they've no complaints but do any guys every tell them otherwise? They'd never get a repeat meet. There's far more fun than having a bj. For me it's just foreplay. |
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over a year ago
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i guess its how its done
some hold the cock and wank it so its not really a blow job
some only suck on the tip which can be sensitive and stop you
hands free is best , balls being massaged at the same time
and if possible treat it like a pussy , but gently , have a little hip movement.
but dont have to go to deep unless she likes it ..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same boat. Jealous of a few things. No cumming from bj and no deep throating. Just can't find anyone capable.
I don't even expect it anymore so all good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess I've been very lucky when it comes to girls or they have been very determined, they always make me cum , holding the balls kicking the tip and deep throating are the best ways for me , and hearing them moan makes me cum is a real turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m in the same boat. I’ve only cum a handful of times from a bj. Don’t get me wrong I do love them and it feels great but to me it is just part of foreplay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, can't relate, I orgasm everytime from head, it's simply incredible.
Perhaps I've just been lucky with the ladies that have done it? "
No, you're just very horny and have no control ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I very rarely cum from oral or hand work by a woman.... nothing to do with the skills of the lady either.... I've had a few amazing mouths around my cock. |
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Have I cum from blowjobs? Many times. All about the technique and variety during the act.
I find licking, flicking of the tongue, kissing the shaft, stroking with the hands, focusing on the tip, cupping my balls, all contribute to a great BJ session.
There was a time in my late teens and early twenties when I thought it was impossible for me to cum from BJ pinky until a slightly older woman showed me it can be done.
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over a year ago
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I've only had one woman make me cum from giving me a BJ, however my last FB got absolutely soaking wet just from giving them and she wasn't bad at giving them, considering I don't normally go out of my way to receive oral. |
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over a year ago
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Its a real problem for my girlfriend, i always tell her I can't cum during a bj, Then BOOMMMMMM shes got a mouth full of cream of sumyounguy,
The weird thing about it is that she falls for it every time. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"Men do it better. I’ve cum every time a guy has sucked me
Best are from guys.
Still hardy ever come from this alone "
I had rarely cum from a blowjob until I met a guy with a technique that made my toes curl and gave me wobbly legs! In about two minutes of him working on my cock I had a shuddering orgasm and he had a mouthful of jizz lol |
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"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.
No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.
I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.
Any tips or is this quite common? "
The only advice I could offer, would be to let your partner know when they are doing something that works for you, encourage them to keep touching that particular spot, and hopefully this will give you your desired result? I have only met one woman who could consistently bring me to orgasm by oral stimulation. It’s the same as not every guy can lick pussy ‘properly’  |
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Not many guys can bring me off from a blowjob, but when a guy has a great technique, i'll let him know he's doing the right thing and carry on doing it!  |
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over a year ago
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I think it’s all rubbish  every man I’ve ever been with says they can’t cum from a blow job and then do within seconds!! I think it’s their way of making a woman want to do it a prove she can do something no one else has managed, thus trying hard to make it perfect and giving the man exactly what he wanted. I don’t fall for it anymore |
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Only one women has ever made me cum just by blow job alone and the feeling inside her mouth was completely different from the others. Her tongue action was incredible. |
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"Like most other fellas I love a good blow job.
No matter who where when or how though, I've never ever cum from a blow job.
I'd absolutely love to and so jealous of those that describe how she swallowed, took a facial etc.
Your not alone I'm afraid fella....never been sucked to orgasm
Any tips or is this quite common? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't find men better than women but find I cum more from bj's with guys.. for me it's the kink of looking down and seeing another man sucking my cock, so horny!!
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"I've only ever had 1 person make me cum fromna bj, I always feel bad because every girl takes it as a reflection of their skill no matter if I was enjoying it or not"
When I realise I'm not going to cum from a bj, but the lady seems determined to keep going until I do cum, I'll just say something like "Mmmmmmm, I really need to fuck you now" and move on.......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Never had a problem cumming from a bj.
Guidance may help? Direct your partner what you like and flicks the switch.
I like them to take there time and play with it.
Teasing it ect.
Nothing like cumming in the mouth and her showing you what you have given her before she swallows and licks her lips.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like anything... some people dont get enough stimulation from it. Its rare that you really cant, ive met two guys now that despite my best efforts, cannot get there. Ir may be a mental block or perhaps overstimulation from hard masturbation.
Patience and "retraining" . I used to find it very difficult to orgasm lying on my back and still find it MUCH harder still in a face sitting scenario.
So...fool around, practice, find the best position and dont beat yourself up. The lady may need some reassurance too or conversely, accept that its the guy who has the blockage and to find a way of ceasing the activity without either person feeling bad. |
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I do come when Hillie gives me a BJ but she knows exactly where to put her tongue. I guess that's what becomes of being together for 30 years does. The average club gob-job whilst being most welcome and pleasant will tend not to send me over the edge. On the other hand Hillie will not cum with penetrative sex. She likes plenty of oral and expert fingers. That said she has no trouble in getting gentlemen to help out there lol.
I love watching wanking and joining in from time to time  |
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