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Would you change yourself to please a sexual partner?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How far would you go to please a partner?
It’s something I’ve been wondering... over the years l can think of two female fwb who wanted me to change - one told me to shave off a beard I had at the time, and the other wanted me to wear her clothes in bed to get her turned on (not really something that turns me on at all).
Are you happy to change certain parts of yourself? Or do you see that as off limits? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would try and make myself more ugly? Men tend to find my stunning beauty, amazing wit and great intelligence intimidating... i am just a pussy Kat really... 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A small change in appearance wouldn't bother me. The wearing her clothes thing would just make me laugh, but I'd give it a whirl. If I fit into her clothes though, she's quite a big girl....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldnt change myself as a person to please anyone else. But id give different things a try, as long as they where morally agreeable and see what I thought. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would try and make myself more ugly? Men tend to find my stunning beauty, amazing wit and great intelligence intimidating... i am just a pussy Kat really...
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Lol ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Minor things I would. For example if a man likes a woman dressed in a certain way, I might well oblige. And things like whether or not I shave my pussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would probably never even considered swinging if Hunter hadn't introduced me to it. It's been a bit like opening Pandoras box 
I'd never change my beliefs or anything that makes me. But always open to exploring or consider suggestions |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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No.
Mrs N is who she was fundemantly as a teen and I'm who I am too, no way would I want her to change and neither would I have changed if she tried or asked. Non negotiable, accept each other as we are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day |
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"I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day"
So you find your brother’s wife’s gap quite sexy do you? Ooooh  . I always wondered if men checked out their brother’s women now you’ve confirmed it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not now. I was quite controlled by a previous partner and he would dictate how I had to be, who I could talk to. He would argue with me until I took on his beliefs and prediduces and I look back now and think gosh I was so unhappy. I would never change for someone again as it doesn't work in the long run |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and never will change, even if that means I never get anywhere on here, and I've never changed for a partner either, like I told my brother the other week, his wife had a slight gap in-between her front teeth when he met her, it's was ok then so why try get her to change it now, he realized I was right, I think a slight gap is quite sexy anyway, not that I told him that! It was surposedly a sign of sexual prowess back in the day
So you find your brother’s wife’s gap quite sexy do you? Ooooh . I always wondered if men checked out their brother’s women now you’ve confirmed it "
no not particularly, I always find it quite sexy on any good looking women, I think it's quite "cute" in away. My point to him was that if she looked like that when you met her then you have no right to ask her to change it now, and then I pointed out how she'd probably like to see his pregnant looking stomach go down Abit but has never asked. |
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