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Remove photos when message read.

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can't see the point in this option.If you really have such an interest in someone that your willing to send face pics why would you want them deleted the first time they are viewed ?

If you don't receive a reply after a while then you can delete them yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about. "

I can't imagine Mr wanting to see a pic of a guy that we are chatting to. It's like me being gutted about not seeing a picture of a car engine when buying a car x

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By *he incognito twoCouple over a year ago

near you

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about. "

Yes we agree very annoying when you go to show your partner and its gone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we arnt together when message is opened we just screen shot it just in case ..

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

Yep this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I screen shot face pics so I don't forget who I'm talking to and for safety if I meet them. If I don't end up meeting them they are deleted.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I screen shot face pics so I don't forget who I'm talking to and for safety if I meet them. If I don't end up meeting them they are deleted. "

Yeah I've done this. It's a pointless feature really....

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

"If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

Totally agree.

I’d rather not have my face pic circulated too widely.

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By *ucy83SOWoman over a year ago

Southampton

I actually love this option, I like that I have a little more control over my pics and I’m happy to resend if needed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

Totally agree.

I’d rather not have my face pic circulated too widely. "

Except when you sent me your face pic I downloaded it to my phone and have circulated it on other websites. I didn't. Because you didn't send me your pic. But it can be done.

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By *he incognito twoCouple over a year ago

near you

We have to say its to late .....if you send your Face Pic .....ITS OUT THERE to late so say you dont want it out there ......press send its to late to worry .......some people on here are so naive ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We have to say its to late .....if you send your Face Pic .....ITS OUT THERE to late so say you dont want it out there ......press send its to late to worry .......some people on here are so naive .."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about.

I can't imagine Mr wanting to see a pic of a guy that we are chatting to. It's like me being gutted about not seeing a picture of a car engine when buying a car x"

Surely you both want to see pictures of potential meets ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about.

I can't imagine Mr wanting to see a pic of a guy that we are chatting to. It's like me being gutted about not seeing a picture of a car engine when buying a car x

Surely you both want to see pictures of potential meets ?"

Mr is straight so he couldn't care less what a guy looks like x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

I agree with this aswell too much fake profiles on here and people messing you about i like to keep my identidy private until i know a social meet is 100% happening then i will send a face pic and yeah i still remove it after its been read

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By *agermeisterMan over a year ago

Leeds

But you can easily save them to your phone

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

On quite a few occasions we've had to request pics be resent if I've opened a message and have seen somebody wife might like, but when I go to show her, the pics have disappeared.

It's a pain but I respect the reasons why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about.

I can't imagine Mr wanting to see a pic of a guy that we are chatting to. It's like me being gutted about not seeing a picture of a car engine when buying a car x

Surely you both want to see pictures of potential meets ?

Mr is straight so he couldn't care less what a guy looks like x"

Don't quite understand what your man being straight has to do with it.

I'm straight but would still like to see a picture of the man who would like to shag my wife.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I've attached a face pic once I see that the message has been read I remove it.

This is because I prefer not to have my face pic 'out there'

Same as this for me.

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If I've got to the stage where I'm happy to send a pic I've usually got one off them first.

If we're chatting on kik I'll use photo bomb.

I'm not naive at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I find this annoying as a lot of the time I will open the message and hubby is not about I go to show him the photo and it's gone. I will ask for it again but seems like a lot faffing about.

I can't imagine Mr wanting to see a pic of a guy that we are chatting to. It's like me being gutted about not seeing a picture of a car engine when buying a car x

Surely you both want to see pictures of potential meets ?

Mr is straight so he couldn't care less what a guy looks like x

Don't quite understand what your man being straight has to do with it.

I'm straight but would still like to see a picture of the man who would like to shag my wife."

If I invite someone to my house who is going to fuck me Mr is happy if I'm happy x

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple over a year ago

Leeds

"If we arnt together when message is opened we just screen shot it just in case .."

If you're using a mobile you can also tap and hold on the photo. The option to download image pops up. That's the method we use.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If we arnt together when message is opened we just screen shot it just in case ..

If you're using a mobile you can also tap and hold on the photo. The option to download image pops up. That's the method we use."

Thanks I will have to remember that next time. But being able to do that makes the whole delete when read function pointless really

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

Like some others, I use the feature sometimes, especially if I'm not that certain that there's a match and to retain a little control over my pics.

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By *SophiexCouple over a year ago

Kilmarnock

What does it matter?

If members want to delete images after they have sent and that makes them feel like they have some control over their photos then surely that's the reason the website brought the feature in?

By the same token if others don't see the point of removing and they are comfortable having their images on any message without deletion then if that makes them comfortable.

For me we have been here 8 years and having images on this website doesn't concern us if it did we wouldn't have any on the profile either in public or private.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Like some others, I use the feature sometimes, especially if I'm not that certain that there's a match and to retain a little control over my pics. "

I'd be unhappy if fab removed this feature. Not everyone would think to screenshot immediately, so hopefully it gives me a degree of control and discretion

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By *he incognito twoCouple over a year ago

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"What does it matter?

If members want to delete images after they have sent and that makes them feel like they have some control over their photos then surely that's the reason the website brought the feature in?

By the same token if others don't see the point of removing and they are comfortable having their images on any message without deletion then if that makes them comfortable.

For me we have been here 8 years and having images on this website doesn't concern us if it did we wouldn't have any on the profile either in public or private."

The point is you have lost control as soon as you press send .....if you do not want your pictures to be collected scanned DO NOT POST ON THE INTERNET....as even pictures you view still stay in your cache and as people has already said you can save images ......when its out there its to late

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