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over a year ago
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We got into swinging a decade ago and although not hardened swingers just dabbled with odd soft play, gg/F swap,cyber.
One of the best things we enjoy though is being members of fab and other swinging sites .
As we are not your club types we enjoy conversing and meeting other couples with our interests and going on these sites allows for that.
We find it a massive turn on knowing "couple" are like us lol and that we are not odd ones out .
When we meet couples for social we like the idea that both are on our wave length , We love to flirt in the knowledge they like us are turned on by the idea of getting naked with us , having a soft or full play basically they have desires only we and others know but not their friends . We like the idea we know what they do in private their likes dislikes and they know ours.
I as the hubby find it a massive turn on when a couple watch as i strip and play with the wife in front of them, show her off , and they do the same. seeing a guy watching standing there with hard cock knowing its hard because your wife has turned him on and his wife has turned you on, similar to the ladies being lovely and wet as they eye each other up for intimate play.
We sometimes look at long term couples and think do they indulge? does the hubby or wife ever fantasise but their partner will not entertain the idea?.
We just think we as a couple like the same things and love getting dirty and indulging in our secret fantasies and think as couple we are very lucky to find our kinky sole mate . lucky or can you encourage your partner to be on the same wave length ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can encourage your partner to explore their sexuality but I think they need to be on the same wavelength for that to happen rather than the other way round."
You can lead a horse to water... but you can’t make it empty the dishwasher |
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"You can encourage your partner to explore their sexuality but I think they need to be on the same wavelength for that to happen rather than the other way round.
You can lead a horse to water... but you can’t make it empty the dishwasher "
This is very true. They struggle with plates and hooves  |
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I think either you are on the same wavelength or not. Paul had been swinging for 20 years when I met him. He never tried to suggest I do it but was just open and honest about it. I had always been intrigued by the thought of it, so when I met Paul I felt it was the right time to explore it.
It took me months of talking it through with Paul before he would take me to a club. He wanted to ensure I was doing it for me and not just to please him. And for the past 3 years everything has been taken at my pace...and I love it!!
I’ve definitely found my soulmate
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Yes i think that's very true. Before married life i dabbled with two past partners , one was very much up for it the other although in the bedroom nothing was barred joining others was not and never going to be an option.
As also said important both are on same wavelength and just because i have I always allow wife to have final say on any meets if she says NO then No meet takes place . |
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