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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Roxy and I was chatting the other night and it came up in conversation......
When did you or are you Bi? So Roxy has been dressing since her teens and has gone through the phases of guilt and getting rid of stuff then starting again, it wasn’t really till I along and fully embraced it that the whole “Roxy” took off.
Roxy knew from late teens she was Bi and as such persuded that and we still do when we meet. Bi/gay guys are a huge turn on for me so roxy is very lucky in that respect.
So.....are you Bi and always have been? Has dressing allowed you to be bi and indulge in that sexual practice? Are you straight and purely dress for sexual pleasure?
Just interested to hear views
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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i recall being caught messing around with my mum's clothes about the age of 7, and my dad telling me it was wrong blah blah. And if you don't stop, I'll tell your friends you are a poof.
Now, at the age of 7 I had a vague idea of what he meant, but my own sexuality meant nothing to me.
Obviously, it did not change me. But I think it succeeded in repressing me for a long, that being gay or trans was something to be ashamed of.
I married, had 3 kids, and divorced. It was only by my early 30s, really, that I found the wisdom to unlock whatever was locked up inside of me.
15 years later, I am the person you see today, someone who feels at long last they are freely expressing themselves.
Transgender gay male is perhaps the closest label for that.
My life may have turned out differently if the episode at 7 had been a constructive experience. But I am where I am, and I can only change what I do from this point on.
Hopefully this makes sense lol
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeh that all makes sense, Roxy got caught with her mums stuff in her early years and also Rox brought some of her own stuff in her early teens and that was found and had the same conversation you did.
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I’ve had a real thing for wearing stockings and tights literally as long as I can remember,and I’ve been dressing fully on and off for many years. I never even considered I could be bi as I’ve never found men attractive. Once I’d started dressing fully with make up and wig I started to venture out in the car and that’s when the fascination of meeting a man developed as I found myself fantasising what it would be like to suck a cock. Eventually I plucked up the courage to meet a good looking guy.He loved what he saw and I sucked his cock. Something I’ll never forget! I suddenly felt so girly and feminine knowing how sexy he thought I was and how much he wanted me,and I loved it!!! Here’s the weird thing,I only have any interest in all that as Shelley. Any other time nothing,but as soon as the urge comes over me to dress,I also want cock,and when I get it I love it. I guess I’m clearly bi because I love the sex and dressing but only when the 2 are together. Selectively bi maybe ? Lol who knows! Just for the record,I love women ALL the time no matter what I’m wearing xx |
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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago
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I was same with my mums stuff from an early age and it just progressed. In my early 20s I stopped for a short while I think 2 years then all of a sudden I was straight back into it and havnt stopped since. And that was through my marriage as well. |
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I’m in that teenager borrowed mum’s/sisters things camp. Too curious I think is the phrase, not bi-curious. Just a little petrol on the flames of puberty. Purely for myself and I was easier than girls.
Time rolls on and feeling good is always addictive.
Internet allows and fosters further curiosity.
Guys have always been easier than girls.
That’s got to be a fairly common path.
I’d say I soon came to the realisation I’m not bi-sexual. Guys in a room are just guys in room and I’d probably wish they weren’t there. Girls in a room, then I know I’ll get those involuntary eyebrow wiggles ...
I’m still playful, I can switch if it’s appropriate, as it’s quite nice to know you made “someone” orgasm, but my little fella stays in his thong. I can also be such an awful tease.
I’m sure this history and this attitude will have many label me bi, gay, sissy, faggot, weird, freak, whatever. Labels never fit people.
So anyway, have you seen naked guys? Doesn’t even raise a little quiver in my nether regions. Experience leaves me mostly with the thought “what do women see in these guys?” and “how the hell can anyone treat a girl like that!”
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over a year ago
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Like most TVs I started with my older sisters lingerie. She went 10 years older than me and she used to stand in front of the mirror putting her face on for work as I was preparing for school. In those days women wore full length slinky lacy slip with gorgeous Lace hems and were in a variety of colours Mmmmm. I tried them on and loved it right up to being married. I thought I would stop then as I was enjoying so much sex!!! After six months I confided in my wife that I loved rubbing against her when she wore nice lingerie and asked if I could wear a waist slip while we had sex. Kate was born then and almost 50 years later Kate is still with us in our very own ménage a trois. She has bought most of my clothes all our life and even puts out at nighttime the lingerie she wants me to wear the next day |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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"Like most TVs I started with my older sisters lingerie. She went 10 years older than me and she used to stand in front of the mirror putting her face on for work as I was preparing for school. In those days women wore full length slinky lacy slip with gorgeous Lace hems and were in a variety of colours Mmmmm. I tried them on and loved it right up to being married. I thought I would stop then as I was enjoying so much sex!!! After six months I confided in my wife that I loved rubbing against her when she wore nice lingerie and asked if I could wear a waist slip while we had sex. Kate was born then and almost 50 years later Kate is still with us in our very own ménage a trois. She has bought most of my clothes all our life and even puts out at nighttime the lingerie she wants me to wear the next day"
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Started dressing in mum's clothes about 9 year old..had a bit of messing around with male friends at an early age but never really thought about my sexuality,had girlfriends and still like an attractive girl but had a really bad breakup 20yrs ago and just lost the urge to bother dating women again.
Now when I dress I get a strong urge to be with a man,It makes me feel so feminine to be fucked by a man but if I come I totally lose the urge,so when I'm not dressed I don't look at men sexually at all.
Sometimes I dress almost constantly for months at a time and others not at all.
The urge seems stronger in the summertime but thats not always the case.
When I'm dressed I have NO interest in having my cock sucked or fucking anyone myself,I just want to be 100% female if I'm with a man.
Sometimes I'm happy just to be dressed and outside and I'm not that bothered about having sex as it will just be a random meet with someone that see's me as little more than an unpaid whore...which is a turn on sometimes...its all very confusing lol.
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Katie seems to have had the same start in life as other posters, early teens wearing mums and 2 older sisters clothes, undies, heels etc, when in male mode there is zero attraction to men and I have never had any idea what a good looking man looks like, strangely enough I’ve always been regarded as a mans man and have never even short of a girlfriend from the age of 16, it was always me when out with mates who got chatting to women and ended up going home with them, been asked by several Cpl’s over the years to wok with the cuck scenarios etc etc, however hen I see any woman in sexy undies I have always imagined me wearing them as well, my ex wife was ok with it she used to even borrow my undies and stockings if she had none clean then she had an affair with her boss got pregnant and black***** katie for a divorce by threatening to tell work, family & friends if I didn’t give her what she wanted. After her lots of girlfriends some i dresssed with m, some just hetro sex, then katie met a guy for the 1st time and it was amazing, didn’t fancy him just wanted him to use me as a woman gets taken, he obliged and then from there it was trying to be as feminine as possible when Katie wanted to play so that she would be as attractive to guys and therefore she would get taken a woman. When I’m katie all Male bits must be 100% outa bounds, I never let guys play with my cock only to be used as a woman, I’ve never had a gay guy hit on Katie, 95% say they are straight and married and a few have admitted they are bi. But I don’t see myself as bi, I suppose I’m a Gemini but a Male and female twin, when in male mode I only want women and when katie I’m happy to play with guys and their wives, the guys just for their cock as that makes katie feel feminine and I don’t actually find men attractive and the wives for their feminineness and lesbian style play.
Over the years I have gone through the guilt purges and also when new relationships start and thrown countless outfits away, must be 100 pairs of heels, hundreds of pairs of stockings and associated lingerie, but Katie keeps coming back and I know she will always be there whether it’s 1 day a month or 30 days. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kate will always be here. When I started dressing I didn't even know what an erection was and didn't know how to masturbate. I used to touch my cock through the panties until I got this wonderful feeling followed by GUILT. I vowed never to do it again!!! Then a few days later I had to do it again. When I had the school grounds talks about wanking I couldn't wait to get home and try it. Guess what? The climax was the same feeling as when I wore my sister's clothes. Now I had a new toy and it was free but I soon had the urge to dress and it's never left me. Fortunately having a great wife I never had to hide my clothes in holdalls in the garage etc. So I am able to wash my clothes keep them smelling nice and have my own lingerie drawers and I always sleep in a nightdress |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Since Roxy and I have got together we have both enjoyed the the life that Roxy brings to the party.
She is always totally smooth of body hair so it only requires a quick facial shave and good to go. We clothes shop together and generally when going out we wear matching lingerie, if it’s a night out then Roxy will wear stockings and suspenders under her jeans and I get to have a little feel of the straps when we are out.
I’m quite happy for Roxy to be part dressed for when we have an us session ie no wig or make up. For me it’s the whole feeling and look of a guy in lingerie.
I love the Bi scene but....the guys have to be in my eyes good looking and look after themselves. We don’t share lingerie as Roxy has her own stuff but we do pinch and borrow stockings depending on outfits.
Loving the insight to your lives thank you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i recall being caught messing around with my mum's clothes about the age of 7, and my dad telling me it was wrong blah blah. And if you don't stop, I'll tell your friends you are a poof.
Now, at the age of 7 I had a vague idea of what he meant, but my own sexuality meant nothing to me.
Obviously, it did not change me. But I think it succeeded in repressing me for a long, that being gay or trans was something to be ashamed of.
I married, had 3 kids, and divorced. It was only by my early 30s, really, that I found the wisdom to unlock whatever was locked up inside of me.
15 years later, I am the person you see today, someone who feels at long last they are freely expressing themselves.
Transgender gay male is perhaps the closest label for that.
My life may have turned out differently if the episode at 7 had been a constructive experience. But I am where I am, and I can only change what I do from this point on.
Hopefully this makes sense lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I first dressed up in my mothers clothes when I was around 11 and it lasted until my mid teens. No one said anything to me, but looking back my parents must have known.
A girl I went out with in my teens once got me to wear her lingerie, I really liked that, but she wasn't as keen.
Then I didn't dress up for a couple of decades, I still had the urge at the back of my mind but for over 20 years I never dressed up.
Fast forward to today, as I'm single I thought I would try again and I really enjoy dressing up. I've still not taken the next step of actually showing myself to someone in real life though.
I do look back and regret the years were I didn't dress though, especially when I had long hair! :x |
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Started dressing at an early age, about 10 or 11 but never really did anything about it.
Early teens I often wore knickers to school, as I couldn't get away with a bra as it would have been noticed.
Late teens I would wear more female underwear than male, but never thought of myself as bi at the time.
Not until my 30's did I actually give in and meet another TV for sex, I enjoyed it apart from the guilt afterwards.
As much as I enjoy sex with men, I don't find myself attracted to them. |
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For me it started very early in my life just flicking thro my mum's club books a seeing all the sexy underwhere and clothes then once left education and got a job and car I started to experiment could say started out as a HPW to what myvanwy is now the last year as been one he'll of a joyride for her where she's had her ups and downs but she is lookingforward to the future and what it can bring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't wish to belittle anyone's life style. However I have considered going for a makeover at Transformations, Euston. Then for a session at Sweet Wednesday. Would like to feel feminine occasionally and play with several men |
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I noticed when i was in my early twenties that i enjoyed the odd bit of dressing up for charity etc. By mid twenties i was enjoying dressing a little and i using online chatrooms occasionally but for normal chatting, but through there i met a lady who encouraged my dressing and suggested i go further... so i chatted with an older man and he offered to meet, let me dress and maybe give him a hand job...
Well, lets just say that once sitting in his car nicely tucked away from view... i felt his hard cock and proceeded to get my o and a levels on my first time lol. Guess i was a slut at heart and he went home a happy man  .
After that i played some more and another older admirer encouraged my dressing whilst i enjoyed my bi side... found i very much enjoyed sucking cock and later that getting fucked could be pleasurable too.
I'd say now i still prefer women, i don't have romantic feelings towards men and i'm not a fan of kissing. But i when dressed i do find a masculine man sexually interesting and love pleasuring them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seems like this might be cathartic, so here's me!
Like most I got caught and scolded by my dad at 5 or 6 wearing my mum's tights and heels. Shame and guilt made me stay away and had a long-term relationship as an adult, which eventually broke down (think I put myself under too much pressure to always try and please her and didn't get what I needed).
So here I am now. I've started dressing fully (makeup and wig) over the weekends and going out like this socially but have not had any sexual experiences since then also (it's a lifestyle not sexual).
In female mode though, I want to be passive and receiving I guess. Maybe being fucked by a woman with a strapon or a man, being watched and directed by a woman, are just ways of bridging the path to just being a trans female and I really only want to be buggered by a big cock! I honestly don't know.
In male mode, I don't ever look at men or think men are sexy. I do look at women, but mainly to see what they wear and how they wear it! Women are definitely sexy but don't get aroused looking.
I suspect there's a therapist out there that could put her children through university by working with me! Lol |
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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago
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I'm different from most. I find men attractive however I'm presenting but I do love feeling girly and being treated like one. I'm happy being played with but love cuddles and kisses too.
I started with my best friends sisters undies and tights. So did my friend.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I remember trying on a dress from a school dressing up box when I was about 5, and have had a strong desire to dress ever since.
Started buying clothes when I went to uni.
While in school i was always jealous of the girls uniforms, still love to dress as a schoolgirl, although the interest in spanking only started when I was a student.
For a time I was also into the idea of forced fem, think it may have been a way of avoiding the guilt.
Bisexuality and the idea of sucking cock came a lot later. |
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By *ayTVTV/TS
over a year ago
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Somewhat different for me....never had these feeling growing up, it was just one of those "lightbulb" moments.
A simple case of "why not?"
Then progressed for a while, did not bother whilst married and, even after a divorce, did not come back to it immediately but when I did the curiosity of bi-sexuality reared its head, so to speak, tried it, enjoyed it...simple
But cannot fancy a guy, simply doesn't do it, but another Tv...now that's another story! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me I dressed from my teens, but didn't discover I was Bi till my late twenties. I had (monogamous) girlfriends who liked that I cross dressed, but after a bad break up I decided to experiment. I found I loved cock too!! Never looked back. Though I would describe myself as sexually bisexual but emotionally straight. |
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My story echos a lot of what has been mentioned before. Curiosity at the age of 11 or 12 and getting hooked for it straight away.
Started with tights and progressed to dresses, heels and now here I am.
Sexuality it wasn't till late teens early twenties I started to "experiment" as Michelle. Thoroughly enjoyable experiences I must say.
However I only really enjoy the company of men when I'm Michelle so I guess that makes me Bi-Sexual. My little story |
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"Since Roxy and I have got together we have both enjoyed the the life that Roxy brings to the party.
She is always totally smooth of body hair so it only requires a quick facial shave and good to go. We clothes shop together and generally when going out we wear matching lingerie, if it’s a night out then Roxy will wear stockings and suspenders under her jeans and I get to have a little feel of the straps when we are out.
I’m quite happy for Roxy to be part dressed for when we have an us session ie no wig or make up. For me it’s the whole feeling and look of a guy in lingerie.
I love the Bi scene but....the guys have to be in my eyes good looking and look after themselves. We don’t share lingerie as Roxy has her own stuff but we do pinch and borrow stockings depending on outfits.
Loving the insight to your lives thank you
L "
Loved reading this! So similar to my own relationship with Abby. Unfortunately we seem to be a rare breed. We are discovering it’s difficult to find other couples like ourselves but live in hope. V x |
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"Don't wish to belittle anyone's life style. However I have considered going for a makeover at Transformations, Euston. Then for a session at Sweet Wednesday. Would like to feel feminine occasionally and play with several men"
From what I've heard, Transformation is a massive rip off.Just what I've heard.
there are websites for TV/CDs and admirers that carry adverts for dressing and makeover services. They may save you a bit of money,provide a more satisfavtory result and will be very discreet. |
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"Don't wish to belittle anyone's life style. However I have considered going for a makeover at Transformations, Euston. Then for a session at Sweet Wednesday. Would like to feel feminine occasionally and play with several men
From what I've heard, Transformation is a massive rip off.Just what I've heard.
there are websites for TV/CDs and admirers that carry adverts for dressing and makeover services. They may save you a bit of money,provide a more satisfavtory result and will be very discreet."
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