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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst. |
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."
Swinging is superficial as far as I'm concerned and I don't really want it to be any different. I don't like it when people attach a deeper meaning to casual sexual encounters.
I can't comment on people who attend gyms because apart from a brief period when I had to go for a back problem I've never set foot in one. |
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"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find."
I wouldn't say I am a proper swinger as I am a single female. but I struggle to find people for group fun or more specific scenarios in my local... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.
When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?"
Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.
When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?
Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."
But you are only here for fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .
We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it ."
This!! |
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"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.
When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?
Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."
Well I have to say that I'm one of the superficial ones. I go for looks first. I'm here to have a good time, indulge a few fantasies and just enjoy things.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .
We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it .
This!!"
Really? People put "open minded" and a whole catalogue of things. More often then not, its a bunch of shit - they are as closed minded as a brick wall!
Usually the clubs its a different class of people, many avoid this site like the plague from my understanding.
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"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .
We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it ."
In a nutshell.
I think some expect to find the meaning of life here and take it waaaaaay too seriously, hence all the angst ridden posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It takes far too much effort. Far easier going out I find.
When you say superficial what do you mean? That people go for looks over personality?
Basically, yes. Swinging was much more "underground". I suppose like anything when it goes a little mainstream it gets "watered down"."
I can't have sex with someone I don't find physically attractive. |
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."
It's those bloody "millenials"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If swinging was anything other than superficial , we wouldn’t do it .
We only want like minded people to join us , those who see it for what it is . A bit of fun , nsa , and that’s it .
This!!
Really? People put "open minded" and a whole catalogue of things. More often then not, its a bunch of shit - they are as closed minded as a brick wall!
Usually the clubs its a different class of people, many avoid this site like the plague from my understanding.
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I avoid clubs like the plague. Does that mean I'm a different class to you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.
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You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.
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Was this comment in reply to mine? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.
You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them. "
AKA debauchery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well you don't really stand out to expect otherwise. I like the ones who stand out myself. The ones who want to sin, you know like piss in gods eye.
You're attracted to someone who is a filthy fuck. Other people are attracted to a person, not the sex acts they are willing to do for them.
AKA debauchery."
I like a bit of debauchery myself. It has to be with people I'm attracted to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Swinging is a fun pass time, not a way of life. Ibso Facto, it’s a tad superficial. If it stops being fun, stop doing it. If I find it’s no fun anymore, I will certainly put it down. But for now, it still puts a smile on my face, so I shall enjoy it’s superficial nonsense when my real life gives me time and space to do so if I want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."
It's not elite enough for you now? You don't like that it's come away from couples picking keys from a bowl, behind Chintz curtains, in suburban semis? |
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"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."
How are you defining superficial? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc.
How are you defining superficial?"
I think he means popular. |
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell"
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one."
I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike. |
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"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."
And the army, navy and prisoners... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.
I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike. "
Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That was more 90's early 2000's."
Your version of it maybe. You can't hang on to the past and stop progress. There are plenty of people having debauched sex nowadays. You may not be part of it, but that doesn't mean it isn't happening. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.
I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.
Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!"
You crossed a line there mate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.
I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.
Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!
You crossed a line there mate. "
And they are white! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst.
It's those bloody "millenials" "
Yeah us Millenials not fucking people we don’t find attractive.
Awful aren’t we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."
How often do you go to the gym? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By definition swinging is superficial, it's not love or romance,it's meant to be about sex, lust, and pleasure, enjoying the moment and thrill of meeting and pleasuring someone(s), you may never meet again, anyone looking for more is prob on the wrong site.  |
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"By definition swinging is superficial, it's not love or romance,it's meant to be about sex, lust, and pleasure, enjoying the moment and thrill of meeting and pleasuring someone(s), you may never meet again, anyone looking for more is prob on the wrong site. "
Spot on , well said  |
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst.
It's those bloody "millenials"
Yeah us Millenials not fucking people we don’t find attractive.
Awful aren’t we "
It was ment as a joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think it’s superficial just people like what they like, Its actually kicked my ass in gear!
time to loose my dad bod so I can join the “in shape” folk
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By (user no longer on site)
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"By definition swinging is superficial, it's not love or romance,it's meant to be about sex, lust, and pleasure, enjoying the moment and thrill of meeting and pleasuring someone(s), you may never meet again, anyone looking for more is prob on the wrong site. "
I think anyone looking for respect in any shape or form is probably on the wrong site.  |
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"I think your missing my point, it was not always so superficial. Society has just became more so.
Swinging was more underground, look at tattoos, everyone has them now once it was only Punks/Rockers etc."
ooops
You mean like tribal tattoos and certain clothing, it's all the uniform of the herd. A sign of the times maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My experience of swinging is that it is still very much about fun and debauchery. Don’t really know what the OP means by swinging being superficial, but there are definately people out there having filthy fun!
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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."
Order you cloth cap, comfy slippers and pipe now.
Your getting far too miserable and grumpy for your age. Another year or do you’ll be complaining the musics too loud and they don’t make songs like they used to |
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"When did swinging because so superficial? It used to be about fun and debauchery.
Now its almost like auctioning to a Spartan porno. Just show how superficial and Americanised the country has become in the last 10 years.
Many people who go to the Gym I have found to be arrogant wankers. People in the 20-30 age (generally) being the worst."
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"We move with the times. Girls wore ankle bracelets and couples had pampers grass.
Long gone are the keys in the bowl days.
That would be my idea of hell
Mine too. I wouldn't even consider it I know I'd get the least appealing one.
I'd get the Rab C Nesbitt lookalike.
Well that can't be any worse then those pink slippers!
You crossed a line there mate.
And they are white! "
Eeek! It's the new viral sensation to rival the black/blue or white/gold dress!!
I say they're pink |
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