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over a year ago
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There are thousands of singles and couples looking for single women on this site.
But there are only three single women who would consider meeting a couple.
OK, maybe a few more than three, but you get the gist.
Good luck, though. It does happen! |
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us.  "
Because there are probably not many more than a handful on here who will meet a couple.
Some will be older than your age limit and others will be miles away from London.
The one or two that are left will probably need a bit more than five weeks to find you.
Some couples have been on here looking for the elusive Unicorn for five YEARS without success.
Back to the drawing board methinks. |
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us. "
Looking at your profile and pics I just cant imagine why you are finding it hard. Good luck x |
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us. "
What are you doing to find someone? 
Have you tried changing the area you look in? As in change your postcode as this can throw up a new geographical area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us.
2 words gold dust x good luck though x
Definitely! Thank you x"
Probably because you're just a couple of kids? |
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us.
2 words gold dust x good luck though x
Definitely! Thank you x
Probably because you're just a couple of kids?"
We are not kids. We are young yes, but we more mature than expected at our age due to our life’s. Obviously if people judge by the age then I could understand it, but we are full of surprises.
Thank you to everyone x |
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Like most couples here we have never found one either.
We have lived all over the world and the UK and we seek a special girlfriend for the lady while the man is away and a special threesome when all together.
Never have we met the unicorn.
We always keep searching and trying and will continue to do so.  |
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Personally I have nothing against couples at all! But I think some people - women especially are worried about feeling a little out numbered maybe.
I'd suggest a social meet first or chatting to you both separately first, that might help. I think people think they'd be up for it but then they start to get a little nervous and back out.
I think clubs might be your best bet, ateaat you can go and have a nice social evening if nothing else.
If you are ever round Manchester way let me know, we have lots of clubs and I'd be more than happy to have a drink with you guys and go to a club. |
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Well having played as a single and a couple, you may wish to having the lady meet other ladies by herself first. Don't rush things and then see if your playmate wants a threesome. I have certainly managed ffm threesomes but the two ladies always introduced each other first. Remember it's rather intimidating to join a couple. |
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We have been on several swinging sites in the five years we have been in the scene. In that time we have not managed to meet one single female.
We have found many time wasters or fake profiles over time, but regardless on how we approach females, or allow them to control how we build up trust etc, we are still searching
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By (user no longer on site)
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Welcome to the world of Real life problems  .
Single guys struggle to meet,
Couples struggle to meet couples,
It seems like you guys are struggling to find a single girl to join You. I kmow it sucks but the reality is, we all struggle yo find what we desire. Nobody said it will be easy, you just have to persavier and see what happens  .
BEST of luck to you
Pete xx |
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I couldnt tell you why.some have more luck than others when looking and finding a single fem.
It took us some time to not only find a lady but one that was on our wave length, you have to.think about how it is for them, theres two of you and one of her, then even though you want a FFM do you really want it, being in a situation where theres just her and things suddenly hit the fan.
Jealousy....they have to feel 100% confident that it is what you.want, how strong is your relationship, is she going to be safe.
They have to consider all those things.
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"Why is it so hard to find a female that wants to meet up and see where it takes us. "
Don't worry about it. Seems women find it hard to meet men, men find it hard to meet women, couples find it hard to meet couples, etc etc etc... Keep trying and in sure you'll be rewarded.. Eventually... There are some real genuine people on here inbetween the dreamers and time wasters, especially for the likes of you guys x |
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There are thousands of couples who want a single woman to join them for a threesome - but relatively few single women who want to play with couples.
I don't know if this applies to you, but many women are put off from playing with couples because there can be a lot of rules and jealousy involved - you can't do this, you can't do that etc. Not many women want to be used as playthings.
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From my experience more often than not it's the male half of the couple who messages and I query the intention, is he expecting me to play with both or just her?
Sadly when questioned about it or asked to speak to the lady it suddenly turns into "just meet me then" no because that's not your dynamic, all the while the lady is silent. Or the man is pretending to be her. Badly.
Not saying it's like that for everyone, just from my own perspective. |
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