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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’d like to think we are an attractive couple, we get told so at least, and we’re genuine, nice and respectful, non pushy and in no rush, but we can’t seem to attract a single female..lots of talk of course, but then the trail runs cold...any advice? We’re starting to think club play might be the best way x |
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"I’d like to think we are an attractive couple, we get told so at least, and we’re genuine, nice and respectful, non pushy and in no rush, but we can’t seem to attract a single female..lots of talk of course, but then the trail runs cold...any advice? We’re starting to think club play might be the best way x"
Try using a Hot pussy pic as bait  |
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"I’d like to think we are an attractive couple, we get told so at least, and we’re genuine, nice and respectful, non pushy and in no rush, but we can’t seem to attract a single female..lots of talk of course, but then the trail runs cold...any advice? We’re starting to think club play might be the best way x
Try using a Hot pussy pic as bait "
Lol....maybe they don’t like my pussy pics...maybe we need more dick pics up lol!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d like to think we are an attractive couple, we get told so at least, and we’re genuine, nice and respectful, non pushy and in no rush, but we can’t seem to attract a single female..lots of talk of course, but then the trail runs cold...any advice? We’re starting to think club play might be the best way x
Try using a Hot pussy pic as bait
Lol....maybe they don’t like my pussy pics...maybe we need more dick pics up lol!! "
haha Try it out for a week and see if it works  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Clubs deffo the way to go "
Thanks....yeah we’re beginning to think like that, it’s not that we’re lazy but it’s a lot of time and effort to keep chatting when nothing is coming from it (excuse the pun). Hopefully be visiting a club soon  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you want to meet genuine people into similar stuff that are real...no fake pics from 15 yrs ago defo best place to go!"
Thanks...yeah, we have encountered a lot of fake female profiles, makes you not want to bother anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things "
Who knows...trust me we’d like a veri of a nice lady lol just have to see what happens I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things
Who knows...trust me we’d like a veri of a nice lady lol just have to see what happens I guess "
But why? Is it a bucket list thing... or a box to tick?
Perhaps if you want to meet bi fems you need to make your profile more bi fem friendly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things
Who knows...trust me we’d like a veri of a nice lady lol just have to see what happens I guess
But why? Is it a bucket list thing... or a box to
tick?
Perhaps if you want to meet bi fems you need to make your profile more bi fem friendly "
It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, I state bi curious because I haven’t done it before and so I don’t know what happens next yet, I don’t know if it’s something I’d do more often or not so don’t want to state bi when I really don’t know as of yet...I think if people met us face to face we’d have more success, but not proving easy to get to that stage, time will tell I guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be blunt, your profile list of "demands" followed by the "Any institution ..." warning is not very welcoming.
I get the impression this is all about what YOU want,  But then I do not meet couples in MF+f meets anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be blunt, your profile list of "demands" followed by the "Any institution ..." warning is not very welcoming.
I get the impression this is all about what YOU want, But then I do not meet couples in MF+f meets anyway. "
When the site has as many fakes as it presently does then ‘demsnds’ need to be put in place, and ours are more than reasonable...Kik to prove genuine, no asking for solo meets, and a face pic. If people can’t do that then alarm bells ring. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Apparently "unicorn" isn't a liked term. They feel a bit used for experiment
I'd love to be a unicorn
Haha"
Unicorn is only used because they are very rare and possibly mythical creatures. Why should anyone object to that nickname? Who does not like it anyway?
As I see it, based on what i hear from the couples who approach me, they mostly want to meet the SBiF so the man can fuck another woman with his wife's approval and the wife can try out a bit of bi play. Not very appealing to me but I am sure some girls like the idea. |
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Talking as a woman who has been on both sides of the fence as a 'unicorn' and in a couple I can say clubs and parties are the way forward. We meet quite a few females as almost first introductions that way then go forward with them and meet them out of a club after.
I know as a single woman I felt safer in clubs and being honest wouldn't have met any couples on my own at a private meet first off.
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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago
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As a bi female I can say I wouldn’t meet you, sorry but your profile is not very welcoming and tells me nothing of what you’re interested in or what I should expect from meeting you, also as much of a nice ass as you have that’s all that’s shown in the majority of yore pics, a couple of body snaps may help show yourself better, your profile is you’re shop window, entice me to walk into your shop and look around because right now I’m going to the cafe next door |
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"Apparently "unicorn" isn't a liked term. They feel a bit used for experiment
I'd love to be a unicorn
Haha
Unicorn is only used because they are very rare and possibly mythical creatures. Why should anyone object to that nickname? Who does not like it anyway?
As I see it, based on what i hear from the couples who approach me, they mostly want to meet the SBiF so the man can fuck another woman with his wife's approval and the wife can try out a bit of bi play. Not very appealing to me but I am sure some girls like the idea. "
Personally I like double teaming women with my boyfriend or just having the ladies to myself but I'm just greedy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Talking as a woman who has been on both sides of the fence as a 'unicorn' and in a couple I can say clubs and parties are the way forward. We meet quite a few females as almost first introductions that way then go forward with them and meet them out of a club after.
I know as a single woman I felt safer in clubs and being honest wouldn't have met any couples on my own at a private meet first off.
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Thanks for the advise, yeah I fully understand the need to feel safe and I think that will be our approach from now on |
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"Apparently "unicorn" isn't a liked term. They feel a bit used for experiment
I'd love to be a unicorn
Haha
Unicorn is only used because they are very rare and possibly mythical creatures. Why should anyone object to that nickname? Who does not like it anyway?
As I see it, based on what i hear from the couples who approach me, they mostly want to meet the SBiF so the man can fuck another woman with his wife's approval and the wife can try out a bit of bi play. Not very appealing to me but I am sure some girls like the idea. "
type unicorn in forum search x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As you haven’t asked for profile advice I can’t say what I’d like to but my generalised advice would be along the lines of;
A profile looking for ‘unicorns’ should give an indication of why your target audience should consider you as interesting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a bi female I can say I wouldn’t meet you, sorry but your profile is not very welcoming and tells me nothing of what you’re interested in or what I should expect from meeting you, also as much of a nice ass as you have that’s all that’s shown in the majority of yore pics, a couple of body snaps may help show yourself better, your profile is you’re shop window, entice me to walk into your shop and look around because right now I’m going to the cafe next door "
I appreciate that but we do have more pics in private, as I say, we get lots of chat, they even sound very keen on meeting, and then nothing, I wonder if it’s because the single ladies are more than likely inundated, we struggle to keep up as a couple so I imagine the single ladies are spoilt for choice. I have previously had full body snaps up and had messages complimenting my figure followed by feelings of insecurity, which is a shame, as I a woman’s body attractive, and wouldn’t want someone to feel like that....I guess you just can’t win sometimes |
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"Apparently "unicorn" isn't a liked term. They feel a bit used for experiment
I'd love to be a unicorn
Haha
Unicorn is only used because they are very rare and possibly mythical creatures. Why should anyone object to that nickname? Who does not like it anyway?
As I see it, based on what i hear from the couples who approach me, they mostly want to meet the SBiF so the man can fuck another woman with his wife's approval and the wife can try out a bit of bi play. Not very appealing to me but I am sure some girls like the idea. "
what's wrong with that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d like to think we are an attractive couple, we get told so at least, and we’re genuine, nice and respectful, non pushy and in no rush, but we can’t seem to attract a single female..lots of talk of course, but then the trail runs cold...any advice? We’re starting to think club play might be the best way x"
I think your profile is very appealing tbh and your pictures, beautiful ...im not sure why the trail runs cold...but I guess single women on here are in high demand. I think a club may well be the way to go as also it must be quite daunting for a lady to meet effectively strangers for the 1st time...good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would definitely recommend a club. It’s a safe, fun, sexy environment and even if there’s no ‘action’ for you or no-one who floats your boat it’s fun to chat and get to know people. It’s somewhere us single gals feel safe and, unlike a lot of private parties, less like a commodity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would definitely recommend a club. It’s a safe, fun, sexy environment and even if there’s no ‘action’ for you or no-one who floats your boat it’s fun to chat and get to know people. It’s somewhere us single gals feel safe and, unlike a lot of private parties, less like a commodity. "
are there all shapes and sizes in the clubs? we are going for first time soon and I'm worried I'll be the only one who's bigger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would definitely recommend a club. It’s a safe, fun, sexy environment and even if there’s no ‘action’ for you or no-one who floats your boat it’s fun to chat and get to know people. It’s somewhere us single gals feel safe and, unlike a lot of private parties, less like a commodity.
are there all shapes and sizes in the clubs? we are going for first time soon and I'm worried I'll be the only one who's bigger "
Don’t be a dafty. Every club I’ve visited has all shapes, sizes, ages, colours you name it. If you’re a fun person who likes other fun people, you’ll be just fine. There are the odd one or two clubs or parties which insist on a stupid number of criteria and submission of full body pics to make sure you’re ‘beautiful’ enough - I avoid them like the plague.
I hope you go to a club soon and realise that we all have fear and paranoia but they’re generally musfounded.
My advice; go when there’s a themed party on, they tend to be busier and that helps with the nerves. HHx |
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Vote for clubs here too. It’s easier when you can gauge attraction all round and chat with both people face to face.
Maybe add a little about what you enjoy? Something that gives women an early indication as to if they are compatible or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would definitely recommend a club. It’s a safe, fun, sexy environment and even if there’s no ‘action’ for you or no-one who floats your boat it’s fun to chat and get to know people. It’s somewhere us single gals feel safe and, unlike a lot of private parties, less like a commodity.
are there all shapes and sizes in the clubs? we are going for first time soon and I'm worried I'll be the only one who's bigger
Don’t be a dafty. Every club I’ve visited has all shapes, sizes, ages, colours you name it. If you’re a fun person who likes other fun people, you’ll be just fine. There are the odd one or two clubs or parties which insist on a stupid number of criteria and submission of full body pics to make sure you’re ‘beautiful’ enough - I avoid them like the plague.
I hope you go to a club soon and realise that we all have fear and paranoia but they’re generally musfounded.
My advice; go when there’s a themed party on, they tend to be busier and that helps with the nerves. HHx "
thankyou so much I will just take a few deep breaths before I get my OH to push me through the door....either that or I'll just end up on A Weatherspoons instead lol x  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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I can only give my own personal views. I had you as a friend on here and honestly got tired of the constant statuses pretty much demanding a woman come entertain you.
Single bi fems aren't a commodity. Contrary to popular belief we havw feelings too and aren't there to be used when a couple is a bit bored or has something they require another individual for.
Try approaching people and chatting to them whether that be at a club or via fab. The couples I play with I'm friends with also and there is mutual understanding and respect which works far better imo.
Not everyone has that opinion however given what I've witnessed I'd say it plays a part in why you're struggling |
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Speaking as a bi fem that also previously had sucesssful couples profile meeting only bi fems we did the following
* had a balanced range of pics of both of us (remember she’s bi so like men and women)
* I lead the profile and did the majority of the chatting (men and women have quite obviously different ways of communicating especially on a site that’s related to sex)
* the profile was written in a way that was inviting to the lady showing her what we could offer her not what we want
* the main one that helped massively was I was willing to meet solo, socially and to play so the fem knew I was actually bi and this wasn’t something the male half wanted more than myself, because believe me there’s plenty of couples like that and its no fun for the bi fem being left to feel like she’s just a tick in the box or glorified sex toy just to help get a couple off.
One of the biggest challenges you’ll face in relation to meeting ladies via fab is the fact your only Bi curious, while all us bi ladies started out curious at some point, it will be a put off for most. Experimenting in clubs first may be the way forward for you for now until you’re more experienced . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things
Who knows...trust me we’d like a veri of a nice lady lol just have to see what happens I guess
But why? Is it a bucket list thing... or a box to
tick?
Perhaps if you want to meet bi fems you need to make your profile more bi fem friendly
It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, I state bi curious because I haven’t done it before and so I don’t know what happens next yet, I don’t know if it’s something I’d do more often or not so don’t want to state bi when I really don’t know as of yet...I think if people met us face to face we’d have more success, but not proving easy to get to that stage, time will tell I guess "
Maybe start with a couple with a bi female, that way you can do as much or as little as you like to see if you like it, we were the same took some patience but we love couples play just as much as ffm. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Perhaps its because you arent specifically looking for bi fems, or that you are not bi, or that your verifications are from men.. or could be any number of things
Who knows...trust me we’d like a veri of a nice lady lol just have to see what happens I guess
But why? Is it a bucket list thing... or a box to
tick?
Perhaps if you want to meet bi fems you need to make your profile more bi fem friendly
It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long time, I state bi curious because I haven’t done it before and so I don’t know what happens next yet, I don’t know if it’s something I’d do more often or not so don’t want to state bi when I really don’t know as of yet...I think if people met us face to face we’d have more success, but not proving easy to get to that stage, time will tell I guess
Maybe start with a couple with a bi female, that way you can do as much or as little as you like to see if you like it, we were the same took some patience but we love couples play just as much as ffm. "
Thanks for the advice...I think people on fab forget that we all have to start somewhere ...thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi guys
The fem here, we found that lady talking to lady worked for us.
And remember that they ate inudated with messages from guys and couples, so make your messages intetesting, funny and consistant without being pushy.
Happy hunting
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi guys
The fem here, we found that lady talking to lady worked for us.
And remember that they ate inudated with messages from guys and couples, so make your messages intetesting, funny and consistant without being pushy.
Happy hunting
Xx"
Thank you much appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Apparently "unicorn" isn't a liked term. They feel a bit used for experiment
I'd love to be a unicorn
Haha
Unicorn is only used because they are very rare and possibly mythical creatures. Why should anyone object to that nickname? Who does not like it anyway?
As I see it, based on what i hear from the couples who approach me, they mostly want to meet the SBiF so the man can fuck another woman with his wife's approval and the wife can try out a bit of bi play. Not very appealing to me but I am sure some girls like the idea. what's wrong with that? "
Nothing "wrong" just not my thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Having found ourselves in a similar position, we've read through this thread, and changed our profile content in the hope it changes our luck on the site.
Big thank you to those who've offered advice, hints and tips here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think you're both gorgeous. Perhaps they get a little self conscious? I know I'd be nervous to meet a couple of your standard.
I think a club would be a good way to go. You can go and have a few drinks and a social evening if nothing else but I'm sure it would lead to more. |
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"I think you're both gorgeous. Perhaps they get a little self conscious? I know I'd be nervous to meet a couple of your standard.
I think a club would be a good way to go. You can go and have a few drinks and a social evening if nothing else but I'm sure it would lead to more. "
Thank you...yeah we think that’s the way we will go, some of the above posts have been a bit ridiculous, we are far far from demanding and such things, thanks for the nice feedback x |
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"It is quite demanding to expect women to send you a face pic with their first message and have a group chat on kik before you meet. "
As far as being demanding we couldnt be any further away from it..its all about a attraction for us to make it work thats why we ask!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it also has a lot to do with the single person as opposed to the couple's. I think in their head it's a great idea, a hot fantasy but the closer it gets the get scared and start to back out which is when the messages start to drop. I think it's a confidence thing. Maybe they feel out nunbered or maybe if they haven't done it before nerves just gets the better of them!
It's a shame really as they could be onto something really good. I'd love to find a couple that I get on with both of them and then I'd get the best if both worlds...a man and women. Yum. |
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"As a bi female I can say I wouldn’t meet you, sorry but your profile is not very welcoming and tells me nothing of what you’re interested in or what I should expect from meeting you, also as much of a nice ass as you have that’s all that’s shown in the majority of yore pics, a couple of body snaps may help show yourself better, your profile is you’re shop window, entice me to walk into your shop and look around because right now I’m going to the cafe next door "
We have a variety of pics...not just one |
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"It is quite demanding to expect women to send you a face pic with their first message and have a group chat on kik before you meet.
As far as being demanding we couldnt be any further away from it..its all about a attraction for us to make it work thats why we ask!!!!"
I don't see anything wrong with that! I always want to see someone's face. As you say, attraction is really important and it shows they aren't fake. You aren't demanding at all. In fact I'd prefer to chat first. A group chat is a great idea because then I'd be able to get to know both of you and make sure everyone is happy going forward. |
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"I think it also has a lot to do with the single person as opposed to the couple's. I think in their head it's a great idea, a hot fantasy but the closer it gets the get scared and start to back out which is when the messages start to drop. I think it's a confidence thing. Maybe they feel out nunbered or maybe if they haven't done it before nerves just gets the better of them!
It's a shame really as they could be onto something really good. I'd love to find a couple that I get on with both of them and then I'd get the best if both worlds...a man and women. Yum. "
Thanks for the response...we did wonder that because we do get to chat to ladies, and they do seem keen, and then like you say, maybe nerves get the better of them, not sure I’d be brave enough as a single female lol...thanks again x |
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