So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "
Sometimes. |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "
In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite.  |
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This is one of our main gripes at the moment.
We receive a message that says just “hi”.
Think ok, maybe testing the waters so reply with a message after looking at their profile to try and make it relevant.
Get back “lol”
If you can’t hold a conversation or take the time to speak to us why on earth would we want to play with you.
As a single guy on here it’s kind of a win that you got a response at all I suppose though!
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?
In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite. "
Thanks, i reply to everyone as i like to think im polite i coukdnt tell you how many nessages i get from guys when it clearly states im straight but i still reply saying thanks but not for me surely that is much easier then replying one word everytime i reckon i could have a convo with them just would take me maybe 5 days to find out an answer to a simple question |
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"This is one of our main gripes at the moment.
We receive a message that says just “hi”.
Think ok, maybe testing the waters so reply with a message after looking at their profile to try and make it relevant.
Get back “lol”
If you can’t hold a conversation or take the time to speak to us why on earth would we want to play with you.
As a single guy on here it’s kind of a win that you got a response at all I suppose though!
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Haha from some of the threads i have seen, i guess yer i should be counting my lucky stars! |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "
im good at this when they bore me or not read profiles  |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?
im good at this when they bore me or not read profiles "
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"This is the main reason I don't message females anymore. The chat was non existant. Bland..boring and nothing back x"
Are you the male or female ? It is helpful if couples profiles let us know who is posting. |
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"This is the main reason I don't message females anymore. The chat was non existant. Bland..boring and nothing back x
Are you the male or female ? It is helpful if couples profiles let us know who is posting. "
Mrs. I put an x at the end x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?
In our experience a one word answer is an indication that they aren't interested but are replying to be polite. "
Exactly this!
We sometimes will reply as the message is a nice one and one we'd like to acknowledge but not encourage. A smily face or even a thumbs up we'll use without the follow up. Some may say, why even do that but like we said, it's a show of appreciation, nice words about pics for example. |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days? "
You forgot to mention that your initial message to the attractive fem was the usuaul "Fancy a shag?"
Her answer was one word "No"
You replied "blow job then darlin?"
"No" |
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By *eep.Man
over a year ago
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Oh I tink I misunderstood the point. One word responses in a conversation?
Stop asking closed questions that have 'yes' or 'no' or some other 'one word' option as the answer! |
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I’ve become quite conscious from the forums that a lot of men regard it as very rude for messages to be ignored. Therefore I might reply in order to be polite, but I’ll keep my reply as brief as possible in order to discourage conversation. So i’ll often answer messages monosyllabically by saying something like ‘thanks’ or ‘cool’ or ‘ok’. If we want to chat, then we’ll be a bit more forthcoming.
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"Oh I tink I misunderstood the point. One word responses in a conversation?
Stop asking closed questions that have 'yes' or 'no' or some other 'one word' option as the answer!"
Its questiins like .. hows your day going and i get back ok
Then its just one words from there onwards so i dont bother. |
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"So i get this quite abit, i find an attractive lady, type out a message and get a one word response... send another message and yet again one word response,how am i suppose to set up a meet with anyone who does this... does nobody actually strike up a convo these days?
You forgot to mention that your initial message to the attractive fem was the usuaul "Fancy a shag?"
Her answer was one word "No"
You replied "blow job then darlin?"
"No" "
I would nevet start a convo like that i have a bit more respect for people and myself. |
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"I’ve become quite conscious from the forums that a lot of men regard it as very rude for messages to be ignored. Therefore I might reply in order to be polite, but I’ll keep my reply as brief as possible in order to discourage conversation. So i’ll often answer messages monosyllabically by saying something like ‘thanks’ or ‘cool’ or ‘ok’. If we want to chat, then we’ll be a bit more forthcoming.
Mrs"
If that is the case why not spend another 10 seconds writing thank you but not for me? Why entice a response? |
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I think some people (including women) have poor conversation skills. Also in your last reply did you give them much ammunition to reply back to? Some replies can be wordy but still closed. The fire needs stoking from both sides. |
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"I think some people (including women) have poor conversation skills. Also in your last reply did you give them much ammunition to reply back to? Some replies can be wordy but still closed. The fire needs stoking from both sides."
I try to strike up conversation i need some sort of connection, im not asking advise from people what to say i get enough meets im all good on that front it was more of a rant of something that pisses me off and to see if anyone else feels the same way which by some of the comments on here they do. |
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