I read off another thread that it took a guy 24 hours to recover after he came.
I thought that’s a long time to get hard again but everyone is different so who am I to judge.
My question is to guys, or anyone who have male partners, how long does it normally take you, or them to recover and go all over again?
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"I read off another thread that it took a guy 24 hours to recover after he came.
I thought that’s a long time to get hard again but everyone is different so who am I to judge.
My question is to guys, or anyone who have male partners, how long does it normally take you, or them to recover and go all over again?
Just a curious question "
It depends if I've left them collapsed in the bathroom or not    |
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"I read off another thread that it took a guy 24 hours to recover after he came.
I thought that’s a long time to get hard again but everyone is different so who am I to judge.
My question is to guys, or anyone who have male partners, how long does it normally take you, or them to recover and go all over again?
Just a curious question
It depends if I've left them collapsed in the bathroom or not "
Collapsed in the bathroom?  You must have superpowers down there 
But aww poor guy 
Has he been given the chance to redeem himself? |
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There will be many different answers to this question, because everyone is different, but 24 hours seems a little excessive in my experience.
One guy we've met came 5 times in one evening, over a period of about 4/5 hours.
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"I read off another thread that it took a guy 24 hours to recover after he came.
I thought that’s a long time to get hard again but everyone is different so who am I to judge.
My question is to guys, or anyone who have male partners, how long does it normally take you, or them to recover and go all over again?
Just a curious question
It depends if I've left them collapsed in the bathroom or not
Collapsed in the bathroom? You must have superpowers down there
But aww poor guy
Has he been given the chance to redeem himself? "
Not so far |
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For me it depends on the lady.
Sometimes I can't cum again or even get a second hard on. For others I just get hard but don't cum and for the truly special lady's, I can can get a second hard on, cum and be ready to go a third time. All within a couple of hours of play. |
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My recovery time is usually 30-60 mins and sometimes as little as 15 but even at that it can kill a mood. Besides viagra I'd be interested in knowing how to cut it down to 5-10min if it was possible |
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"For me it depends on the lady.
Sometimes I can't cum again or even get a second hard on. For others I just get hard but don't cum and for the truly special lady's, I can can get a second hard on, cum and be ready to go a third time. All within a couple of hours of play. "
Very similar, but i would say it depends on me as much as the lady.
There have been times (with the same girl) where ive cum and stayed hard - Given a bit of sensitive handling for a few minutes, i can carry on. Yet at other times its cum once and lose interest for for a few hours.
24 hours does seem like a long time though... |
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I think it very much depends on the mood and setting, sometimes I can cum 3 times in an hour, other times I can only cum once in an hour but can still get hard.
But on average I would say 2 times an hour for the first 2 hours and then maybe once every hour after that. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"My fella is a repeater so he can go again straight after cummin the first time round xx"
Some of the answers have really interested me as my (he) experience ever since I can remember has been about 15 minutes which I thought was the norm. As for going again straight after I have done that many times to. For me is about my mindset, if I'm thinking I 'need' to go again as she isn't wanting me to finish just now I've almost convinced myself it will happen, also there's a desentisation feel I g going on when in this mindset. Hmmm! |
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Depends on how turned on I am. I usually last about an hour so I'm not going to be cumming multiple times in an hour, but if I'm really turned on my the lass then I'll stay hard and not even lose any hardness. But if I'm semi turned on its about 5 minutes for me to get hard again, and if I'm just not into the way the girl was then I just go soft and no matter what she does she won't get me hard.
For me to repeat or have a tiny refraction period I need to be attracted to the girl and, the girl need to put her effort in as nothing turns me off faster than a lazy girl. |
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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago
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"My fella is a repeater so he can go again straight after cummin the first time round xx
Some of the answers have really interested me as my (he) experience ever since I can remember has been about 15 minutes which I thought was the norm. As for going again straight after I have done that many times to. For me is about my mindset, if I'm thinking I 'need' to go again as she isn't wanting me to finish just now I've almost convinced myself it will happen, also there's a desentisation feel I g going on when in this mindset. Hmmm!"
He has a very high sex drive like myself..but I agree, its to do with the mind set too xx |
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"I'm sure age is a big factor. Younger men are up for round 2 far quicker than older men. "
I'm older, and can still be ready for 'Round 2' quite quickly! Can usually cum twice within an hour to an hour-and-a-half, depending on who I'm with and what we're doing! |
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"The 'average' refractory period is 4 hours
I'm sure age is a big factor. Younger men are up for round 2 far quicker than older men. "
Want to bet on that |
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I had a previous partner who could only fuck once a day. After he had cum he was no longer interested in any play at all until the next day. Only once in about 8 years I had him in the morning and again the same evening. He was younger than me, in his 30's.
In contrast I've met a guy in his 50's who came 5 times over 3 hours. And a guy in his 60's who will fuck for 6 hours straight and go again in the morning. Once he came I only had to suck or start to gently wank him and he was instantly ready again.
Everyone is different. I'm not suggesting that's the norm for older guys but on previous experience its why I'll favour an older gent, given the choice. |
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It takes me much longer to recover now than in my 20s and early 30s.
I used to go to swingers parties and have sex 5 or 6 times, cumming for most of them. The situation was highly stimulating.
Near the end of one party I had cum a few times and thought I was spent. Then I watched one girl go round all the guys at the party in turn, sucking all of them and swallowing every load. Before I knew it she was round to me, I got rock hard again and delivered what she wanted.
I can't imagine achieving that these days (although I'd happily try!!) |
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Sometimes stay hard after I've cum and just carry on, other times it's 15 or 20 minutes, however in that time it doesn't mean I have to sit around waiting, there's plenty to be doing in the meantime. If the lady in question has an insatiable appetite then I'll make sure her want is sated in a myriad different ways. |
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I stayed hard after cumming on one occasion, I was gobsmacked at the time and very impressed with myself as it didn't stop the action and I just carried on.
Never been able to do it since, it's like a super power if a guy can do it...think I need more practice |
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over a year ago
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I've never found a norm so i can never guarantee what my cock will do on the day or night after his first performance. A matinee and an evening show isn't a problem. It's the in between or the after party where i might just be too knackered or i need that recovery time. He can get sore you know standing to attention for a long time which i why i love toys to help out in the interval ! |
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
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I used to be able to go pretty much straight away, and around 4 cums a session.... these days a session is usually 2 cums... a watery one first then after 20 mins to an hour the second one is a but thicker in constituency... obvs they more switched on with my play pal...the quicker the "reload" |
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I used to pretty much be able to go as many times as I want too. Now I’m a little older (34) I can still most certainly be ready to go again around 15-30 minutes times. I have to be in the mood though, certainly to go more than twice. Sometimes once I’ve finished I’m no longer interested in going again. Keeping it up has never been a problem to me, I’ve always got excited easy and still do! |
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"I read off another thread that it took a guy 24 hours to recover after he came.
I thought that’s a long time to get hard again but everyone is different so who am I to judge.
My question is to guys, or anyone who have male partners, how long does it normally take you, or them to recover and go all over again?
Just a curious question "
I guess it depends on the lady, and the situation, but I recently spent 4 hours in a hotel room with a Fab lady, and on that occasion I came 3 times with her  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It usually takes me at least a couple of hours before I can get hard again. My best record was a few years ago I fucked a lady friend three times in ten hours. |
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