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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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After our meet last night with a single guy I've been wondering to myself what is it that makes you guys want to meet a couple. I've never really thought of it from the other blokes perspective so all thoughts would be welcome. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Have only met one couple as a solo guy and my reason for meeting them was because their profile and dynamic was appealing, as was their sexuality and preferences, there was an obvious connection and chemistry through messaging etc - so much the same reasons as anyone else I'd meet really - and I've now met them twice (and hope to continue doing so) so all my instincts were correct  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Group play is definitely part of it. But meeting a couple is different to a party. On one level you get to share the intimacy that couple have and see there kinks. You can pick up on the looks they give each other. But on a totally different level it's responsibility free play. The women has her partner and you just get to have fun with them and when it's over you all go your separate ways. No difficult emotions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it's play and above all special friends.
I have a good number of friends I have met from swinging its nice to sit and chat and build slowly to the ultimate play..
As to what I get out of it ..I love the play watching and joining in.
I have had some fantastic opportunities if it be just straight sex or role play ..i thank all the couples on here who I have been lucky to play with and welcome others |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong.  "
Not in my case it's not - in fact that hasn't even occurred to me - I just see it as a mutually agreeable and satisfying experience to which I've been privileged enough to be invited, and on the occasions it's happened, to be treated as an equal part of the overall enjoyment for as long as it's lasted |
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong. "
That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong.
Not in my case it's not - in fact that hasn't even occurred to me - I just see it as a mutually agreeable and satisfying experience to which I've been privileged enough to be invited, and on the occasions it's happened, to be treated as an equal part of the overall enjoyment for as long as it's lasted "
i see at less you guys having better luck than me here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong.
That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know... "
oh ok |
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By *achoCouple
over a year ago
Gloucester |
We've wondered how single men in general cope in a club environment. It must be difficult for them. Also, we appreciate there are lots of male partners out there who love to see their wives / gf's being fucked by another man, but what about identifying those single guys who are bi - and who are rare ?? - and are happy to really enter into the spirit of a threesome with a couple ? Other than wearing a post-it note across the forehead, it's not initially obvious as to where the single guy's interest lies !! I guess that's where the art of making awkward conversation comes in and discovering who wants to do what with whom ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?"
This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"We've wondered how single men in general cope in a club environment. It must be difficult for them. Also, we appreciate there are lots of male partners out there who love to see their wives / gf's being fucked by another man, but what about identifying those single guys who are bi - and who are rare ?? - and are happy to really enter into the spirit of a threesome with a couple ? Other than wearing a post-it note across the forehead, it's not initially obvious as to where the single guy's interest lies !! I guess that's where the art of making awkward conversation comes in and discovering who wants to do what with whom !"
Well if it happens to be Bi Night at the club it's a fairly safe bet that he'll be interested in both of you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose "
Some will think that, but most will let it slip during messages so you don't need to meet them.
I agree that as long as everyone is happy and outwardly respectful then that's all that matters.  |
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Part of the thrill for me is knowing that I’m
Part of someone else’s fantasy, sharing someone’s wife or girlfriend and doubling (hopefully) her pleasure either with or in front of her partner.
With bi couples the main thrill is that the possibilities and scenarios are generally endless, especially with experienced couples completely at ease with their own kinks and pleasures.
But also because I’m a horny bastard with a filthy mind |
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?"
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled "
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it more the thrill in having sex with a man wife while he watches maybe i wrong.
That's exactly what it is for me, and it can be an even bigger thrill if he's not there - especially if he doesn't know...
oh OK beside that i am British but with a South African accent"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only met one. Was always a fantasy, not exactly sure why, I think it had something to do with a woman getting loads of pleasure and me being part of it. I loved it. |
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. "
I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s definitely the thrill of being invited into a couples most intimate moment, I have have fun with fuck buddy couples but it just isn’t the same thrill as a married couple.
I also get very turned on that the hubby is enjoying the experience as much as me, watching me fuck his wife and then all joining together is the most erotic things ever! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages "
i get that 24/7 no replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me there are quite a few things that truly turn me on.
Like the idea of trust, a couple bringing me into their bedroom and being part of their most intimate fantasies and secrets.
Seeing a lady totally let go of herself and her inhibitions and feeling that comfortable with me to allow herself to do that.
As well as the husband to feel comfortable enough also to surrender his wife to me for her pleasure. Or for me to join him and be right along side as we both pleasure his wife.
Do enjoy establishing a relationship versus one off's.
Just some of my thoughts on the subject. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages "
It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages
It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers.
Mrs"
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By *ranfondoMan
over a year ago
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I like playing with couples who want extra cock (gor whatever reason) moreso than just cuckold type arrangements... I enjoyed fuckng and pleasuring someone else's wife and assist in their fantasy fulfilment....I get pleasure from seeing the lady well satisfied |
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Quite a few reasons from both sides...as a couple we very occasionally seek a single man for a specific scenario, and we were lucky enough to find a true gem - who came to our recent party too.
For the man, maybe they just like variety? Might be a bi-dynamic? Cuckold or hot wife? Just like meeting couples generally as a different interaction?
As always it’s personal choice, and as long as everyone enjoys it, it’s all  |
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Well we’ve never done either but I would love to see my wife fucked by another not because I don’t love her or think less of her but because of the how intimate it would be and horny seeing the woman you love enjoying herself to the full!
And I’d imagine from the other side a husband and wife allowing you into there bed to share that moment would be amazing more than just sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
This is what my cynical mind thought also but reading through the replies it seems there's a lot more to it than that. Whatever their reasons if everyone's enjoying it then that's all that matters is suppose "
Single women meeting single guys isn’t swinging it’s just nsa sex .. couples have totally different dynamics . |
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By *n080971Man
over a year ago
Tower Bridge Rd |
So personally speaking i’ve had two types of couple meets. The first being in a club where I feel it’s all three of you thinking “That looks like fun” and enjoying each other.
The second is specifically about the couple. Mostly i’ve Been invited to someone’s home. You know this may be something they are really into, they may have though about it for ages, they may have never done it before. When you meet for the first time and chat, find out a little more what pushes their buttons, move on to more I really try to make sure it’s more me there for them, not the other way round. Ok, I know i’m going to enjoy myself but being part of their enjoyment / intimacy/ fantasy is really fun. |
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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago
Gosport |
For me, on the rare occassions I'm invited to join a couple, it is about enjoying seeing how it excites the both of them. I especially enjoy the company of couples who know what they want out of the meet and direct me for their pleasure. For me it is even better when it involves a couple with a bi male and a lady who enjoys directing the men playing together as well. |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
Seeing the pleasure it brings to them both and being allowed into thier most intimate moments.
Both together (hubby & wife)
A turn on to know he s there and watching us be it flirting, touching, kissing, having sex) and the naughty glint in her eye as she's knows he watching too..
Wife on own...
Can see the sexual tension on hubby's face when I pick her or he drops her off, knowing he's helped her to get ready..., hot wife's excitement as out as a single and doing the dating type role play.....and knowing when she returns her and hubby will have very intense sex and RE connection...
All of us
We all appreciate each other as good friends and know our boundaries....I'm never a threat to thier relationship and they have an incredible love for each other..... |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
There is so much fun to be had.
I love all kinds of play from the Mr watching me with his wife to a full on Mfm and even a bi mmf can be equally fun. Mainly down to how all three interact with each other. |
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages
It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers.
Mrs"
I completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like the fact you get the best of both worlds in one meet. You then experience the complete circle of pleasure rather than it just often being focused on the lady of the couple |
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By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago
Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire. |
For me the desire I have to meet couples is simple. I would love to be in a scenario where three people who found each other attractive had the opportunity to pleasure each other.
Everyone would be an equal in terms of expectations and fulfilment. Pefection. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages
It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers.
MrsI completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag"
Yep, you can't spitroast a woman on your own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because single women don't reply to messages so it's the next best thing?
That maybe the case for the general majority on here but higher up the food chain when genuine swingers are playing it’s more about the sexual dynamics and the lady being properly spoiled
Higher up the food chain?! Oh god yes the elitist genuine swingers do sex like 1000% better than other men. We should know this by now. I was referring to guys who are into the lifestyle rather than just looking for somewhere to put it and the point was that some properly enjoy the dynamics and are interested in meeting couples for other reasons than single ladies not replying to messages
It’s obvious from reading a lot of profiles that there are single guys who will accept a couple as the next best thing to a single lady. We’ve only made that mistake once. The guy in question was actually very popular with single ladies in Fab and just took a shine to me. The guy tried not to show it, but my husband sensed being surplus to requirements. We are more careful now and these days only meet guys who are swingers.
MrsI completely agree and while most guys enjoy both there’s definitely a different approach with couples as it should be about 2 combining to spoil the lady rather than just a shag"
I see it as women are very complex with many eroginous zones, and one man alone does not have enough hands, tongues or cocks. At least 2 men are required
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met a couple on several occasions and the male half and myself pleasure the wife ,she really enjoys my large cock and tells her husband how good it feels when I penetrate her and go deep and push on her cervix, he enjoys her telling him which makes all cum together it fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good question.....
For me at least, it's about a few things really. The trust they show in me, both on a personal level and to help enhance their sex lives is a huge factor.
The amount of trust they show in each other is another thing.
Nothing turns me on more than a woman who is wild with lust, and usually this is a woman who has the undivided sexual attention of more than one man.
The sexual tension between the two of them is charged to its highest point and to be brought into the equation charges me too.
The satisfaction of seeing her pleased and him pleased to please her.
The thought that when they fuck they will think about and talk about when I joined them.
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As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present.
However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present.
However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet. "
Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios |
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present.
However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet.
Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios "
You're the exception
We often meet guys as a couple initially and if Katie likes them we are happy for her to see them one to one.
We have never known a guy turn that down and said he preferred me there as well.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"As has been said, most guys on here are interested on having sex with women and will tolerate the male partner being present.
However, most will not say that as they know that if they do so it lessens their chances of a meet.
Personally I'd prefer it the (bi) male half of the couple was present if I met a couple but then bi MMF (or more) is one of my favourite play scenarios
You're the exception
We often meet guys as a couple initially and if Katie likes them we are happy for her to see them one to one.
We have never known a guy turn that down and said he preferred me there as well.
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More than happy to be the exception
Whilst I will happily meet one to one with anyone that wants to meet me that way - I personally as a bisexual man enjoy the dynamic that bi MMF (or more) allows for and certainly wouldn't be "tolerating" the presence of the male half of a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe its the fact a woman lets you into her personal space .......
way back in the day it used to be when i fall in love with him , or when i get to know him , or when hes met my parents , etc etc etc , i might sleep with him .
so
For me its just the love of sex and seeing a lady enjoy me or her and her partners cock works , its excitement for me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just a very horny scenario us 2 guys fucking his wife while he is watching and admiring.
The look on the husband as he see his wife enjoying herself is great although of course our main attention is focused on the lively lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of the things that draws me to couples is that I get to play with both. When i'm turned on I love experiencing all pleasure and love sharing that with men and women. Meeting a trusted couple to share that with is the ultimate goal |
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By *ug247Man
over a year ago
Near You |
"After our meet last night with a single guy I've been wondering to myself what is it that makes you guys want to meet a couple. I've never really thought of it from the other blokes perspective so all thoughts would be welcome."
Meeting a couple can be amazing. Seeing a women get totally pleasure by two guys is great.
The big thing I like is you can enjoy the company and the fun without the worry of you needing to move on together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me there are quite a few things that truly turn me on.
Like the idea of trust, a couple bringing me into their bedroom and being part of their most intimate fantasies and secrets.
Seeing a lady totally let go of herself and her inhibitions and feeling that comfortable with me to allow herself to do that.
As well as the husband to feel comfortable enough also to surrender his wife to me for her pleasure. Or for me to join him and be right along side as we both pleasure his wife.
Do enjoy establishing a relationship versus one off's.
Just some of my thoughts on the subject."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had the pleasure of playing with a handful of couples in the past, why do I do it? Because it's a lot of fun, if somethings not fun I tend not to pursue it.
My favourite couple happens to be an early 30's married couple, neither of them have ever been with anyone else so it was very exciting to be the 2nd man to ever have sex with the female half.
I'm not bi at all but in a MMF situation if a cock touches me or whatever I'm not fussed, I'm not turned on by men but I'm not disgusted by them either, it's just a nothing to me that is all part of a bigger picture that fortunately does turn me on alot (sharing a man's wife) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s because I’m bisexual, an exhibitionist and a voyeur and I get to enjoy all 3 elements with a couple.
To slowly devour a pussy and suck a nice cock while being watched and assisted is extremely horny.
Not for everyone, but how boring would the world be boring! |
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"After our meet last night with a single guy I've been wondering to myself what is it that makes you guys want to meet a couple. I've never really thought of it from the other blokes perspective so all thoughts would be welcome."
Cuckolding, dp and dvp |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love meeting couples! Much less pressure, everybody seems more secure, less likelihood of the woman getting clingy, more bodies to touch and play with too! |
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