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over a year ago
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Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...
So what do you class as soft swapping? |
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"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...
So what do you class as soft swapping?"
People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.
It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.
Cal x
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over a year ago
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"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...
So what do you class as soft swapping?
People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.
It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.
Cal x
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"Just curious really...we play full swap but there's so many couples on here that say strictly soft swap only...
So what do you class as soft swapping?
People's ideas of soft swap vary wildly, but most generally seems to mean NO penetration with each other's partners.
It's always best to ask people what their personal boundaries are.
Cal x
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We have had quite a few soft swap meets, which I must say we enjoyed immensely, but found different people have different boundaries. Most we found go as far as oral but no penetration, some only as far as kissing and fondling so it is always best to ask first. |
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"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing  So thought we'd ask people's opinions "
If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy. |
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"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions
If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy."
This is it... were more than happy to go with what other people want as long as their boundaries do not get crossed (been there before when meeting and one of them wasn't happy as the other went further than they would of liked them to  ) we was just curious as to what others classed as soft swapping X |
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Lobster-like cock?! If anyone has one of those they need to seek medical attention.
But, back on topic... soft for us would mean no penetration with the other couple but I definitely agree that this should all be discussed beforehand as everybody has different ideas and limitations.
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We keep kissing for us no mater what apart from girl girl
Then generally soft swap means no penetration but oral etc
As many say communication is the key and I think that is just in general with swinging, open discussion make sure everyone on the same page  |
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"Thanks everyone we prefer to play full swap and had the offer of soft swap with a couple but with no kissing So thought we'd ask people's opinions
If you don't want to play the way they like to there's no point meeting. Neither of you will be happy.
This is it... were more than happy to go with what other people want as long as their boundaries do not get crossed (been there before when meeting and one of them wasn't happy as the other went further than they would of liked them to ) we was just curious as to what others classed as soft swapping X"
Did you ask the couple what they considered soft swap? |
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