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Dresscode for Men at Clubs
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all.
It might seem a silly question but what do guys wear when they are at a swingers club? obviously turning up smartly dress in trousers and a shirt but when u start to get to the fun and games, what is best to wear? is it simply be naked? or undies and a top? For gym fit guys naked and on show is easy, but for the more rounded (!) gent like myself walking around in the buff might not be a good thing.
Women are able to wear revealing sexy outfits or undies but not sure about the code for us guys.
Let me know your experience and thoughts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just own the body you have. Confidence is more attractive than the shape of your body. Plus in my experience there aren't that many 'gym fit' guys in clubs, so I wouldn't be too self conscious, no one is going to judge you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just own the body you have. Confidence is more attractive than the shape of your body. Plus in my experience there aren't that many 'gym fit' guys in clubs, so I wouldn't be too self conscious, no one is going to judge you. "
oh thanks for the reply and vote of confidence. I agree that confidence in your own body goes a long way. not saying I lack it but..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It will very much depend on the type of club so best to check it out with them. For us it's turn up, get naked, stay naked  "
oh thanks amd i can see why you getting naked would not be an issue. such a sexy and horny lady so all eyes on her for sure. love the amazing photos. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would be funny if the answer was glow in the dark condoms. But thats kind of childish  "
if they said that i would have to reply with 'I see your point' or more like my point! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Try a bi night. You could wear your nylons then  "
would be hot for sure but I wonder if that would turn most peopel off and be out of kilter with most others. loving your profile and photos by the way. very hot indeed. |
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OP it all depends on the club.
Some clubs require guests to dress down on arrival. In this case most men will wear their boxers and/or a towel.
Other clubs I've been to don't have this stipulation and most men stay clothed until they go to play. I have seen guys just in their boxers or completely in the buff but this isn't that common.
I would suggest picking your chosen club carefully and just go with whatever feels most comfortable - that way you won't feel self conscious. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wander about in my towel or boxers. You see some people wear a dressing gown sometimes which in my opinion doesn’t look that great. It’s not the most alluring garment on a man. "
I agree with that. dressing gowns for keeping warm at home lol. women can pull them off if they are the silky and sexy ones but not sure when can! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, thought about this myself when I think about applying to join a club (if they’d let me in that is, lol)
I don’t mind being naked or getting naked in front of anyone but shorts or a towel at the club I’ve been thinking of applying to?
Some I have chatted to who are members have said ‘no, don’t wear shorts’, just a towel is ok, but then I think about the practicalities of where do you keep the condom or loose cash etc. to buy a few drinks with (See.....  .... You can tell I’ve never ever been to a Club can’t you. Think I need a shove to start me of and see how I get on ) |
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By *east88Couple
over a year ago
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Honestly guys it's fine, I've a rotund tummy and you see all shapes and sizes in the clubs, I always wear boxers and a black vest or t shirt, others do too, some men wear just towels, lots wear boxers. It's what you feel comfortable in, my wife takes a bikini with her for the pool and me swimming shorts, sometimes she will go in fully naked, it's just what takes her fancy and how she is feeling.
It's a funny thing at the clubs because honestly the barriers are completely broken down and people are so nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it's a club with a hot tub then a towel is usually the way to go, but you probably don't want to have an old manky one.
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Hot tub or Towel? Or both. Eeewww no thank you, just thought of it makes me shudder |
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Hot tub or Towel? Or both. Eeewww no thank you, just thought of it makes me shudder
Does the thought of sex with a stranger make you shudder too?"
I think if you read it again he meant manky hot tub or manky towel. But I could be wrong ... |
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"It would be funny if the answer was glow in the dark condoms. But thats kind of childish
Lightsabre fight 
OP...just own it! Some of us prefer dad bod to gym fit
I think it could take off  "
I'd like to watch for a giggle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hot tub or Towel? Or both. Eeewww no thank you, just thought of it makes me shudder
Does the thought of sex with a stranger make you shudder too?"
No, lol. But a manky hot tub or towel isn’t too great to start for me. I prefer to start off clean......at least to start with, even if we start getting dirty straight away
Nothing wrong with ‘Shuddering’ for the right reasons though. I do enjoy a good Shudder or two... or three... or.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hot tub or Towel? Or both. Eeewww no thank you, just thought of it makes me shudder
Does the thought of sex with a stranger make you shudder too?
I think if you read it again he meant manky hot tub or manky towel. But I could be wrong ..."
Either isn’t great for me. Though I might have been responsible along with someone else for messing up a few private hot tubs
Anyway... we digress from the OPs original question. ‘What to wear in a club’
How should I dress when I’ve joined one? Decisions Decisions.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are worrying where to keep condoms, buy a joggers wristband with a zipped pocket. You can stash three or four condoms in one and wear it anywhere unless you go swimming underwater. "
Will have look at these. Thanks.
There have been the odd occasions where underwater activity has been know to enter into the fun. And very nice it is too when it happens |
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