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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What a nerve a large percentage of the women have here, they themselves have no pics and state on their profile no pic no chat, why hasn’t that to work both ways? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a nerve a large percentage of the women have here, they themselves have no pics and state on their profile no pic no chat, why hasn’t that to work both ways? "
It maybe because they are not women at all, we find that some if not many are guys saying just they are women. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get you can write the forum how you choose but be like going on a blind date and her wearing a mask, surely if she can’t see me and I can’t see her at that point we are on a level playing field lol |
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"I choose not to have pubic pics but happy to share after we establish trust, I’d say that’s fairly reasonable "
And that’s your prerogative indeed. People will have to abide by your rules. You’re going to have to pull out some amazing tricks to entice the ladies in then. How you going to catch someone’s eye ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a nerve a large percentage of the women have here, they themselves have no pics and state on their profile no pic no chat, why hasn’t that to work both ways? "
Why do you think it doesn’t work both ways? It’s not like these profiles are saying they won’t send a pic in return if they are interested.
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over a year ago
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I know it limits my chances but it’s a risk I’ll take lol have did ok in the past but the women on here seem aloof, I think all the attention they get might be the partly responsible for that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What a nerve a large percentage of the women have here, they themselves have no pics and state on their profile no pic no chat, why hasn’t that to work both ways? "
What's your point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I choose not to have pubic pics but happy to share after we establish trust, I’d say that’s fairly reasonable "
You are well within your rights to do whatever you like. However, you must realise that you are a bit unusual for having the ability to select a potential sex partner without any visual stimuli whatsoever. Most people do need to know what someone looks like and as most guys are happy to share pics, there’s no real need to pursue a man who won’t.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get that but the way I perceive it is they want to see me instantly however I havnt saw them either so it’s a blind shout for us both "
Yes we expect to see someone instantly. This saves a lot of time. If we are interested we will send a pic in return or send them a friend invite which gives access to our face pics. If we send the first message, then we abide by our own rules and also send our face pics. This works well for us.
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"That’s a good point however I like a bit of banter and establishing a common ground before that comes, each to their own and debate is healthy."
So do you purposely target women’s accounts that reflect your own ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That’s a good point however I like a bit of banter and establishing a common ground before that comes, each to their own and debate is healthy."
We feel there is no point in having a bit of banter and establishing common ground with someone we don’t fancy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We sometimes get messages from guys saying ‘face pic available if interested’. That creates a problem. How do I know if I’m interested if I don’t know what he looks like?
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"We sometimes get messages from guys saying ‘face pic available if interested’. That creates a problem. How do I know if I’m interested if I don’t know what he looks like?
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This is what we think. If someone can’t make an effort on their profile then it’s not down to us to drag the info out message by message, that’s boring. |
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over a year ago
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"That’s a good point however I like a bit of banter and establishing a common ground before that comes, each to their own and debate is healthy."
What is the point of this if you later receive a pic and there’s no attraction.
Personally, say hi, if your profile is something that attracts me then I say hi back, you send photo, then I will if there’s an attraction. If both agree then banter away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone has to break the deadlock, if we think a profile is genuine we send a pic.. if they don't write back we've been rejected it's that simple... remove the pic move on. If they send one back and we like also great.. if not we politely decline and you've guessed it we move on... it's not rocket science |
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"Someone has to break the deadlock, if we think a profile is genuine we send a pic.. if they don't write back we've been rejected it's that simple... remove the pic move on. If they send one back and we like also great.. if not we politely decline and you've guessed it we move on... it's not rocket science "
But you’re like us, we have enough photos on our profile for people to make an initial judgement and without revealing who we are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know it limits my chances but it’s a risk I’ll take lol have did ok in the past but the women on here seem aloof, I think all the attention they get might be the partly responsible for that"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know it limits my chances but it’s a risk I’ll take lol have did ok in the past but the women on here seem aloof, I think all the attention they get might be the partly responsible for that"
We probably seem aloof because there is nothing on your profile to give us something to talk about; and no pics to attract attention. Whilst I understand completely about some not wanting to show face pics (I dont either) there's no excuse for no body shots |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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"What a nerve a large percentage of the women have here, they themselves have no pics and state on their profile no pic no chat, why hasn’t that to work both ways? "
It does work both ways if you insist. If I am contacted by a couple or single woman, then I will always request (and indeed require) face and body pics (if not available on their profile), before I enter into any proper conversation. Equally, I will not simply allow people to view my private pics until pics have been shared and conversation has been entered into.
As a single male it is your responsibility to ensure you are afforded equal respect/transparency...if you aren't, then walk away - simples! |
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"I know it limits my chances but it’s a risk I’ll take lol have did ok in the past but the women on here seem aloof, I think all the attention they get might be the partly responsible for that
We probably seem aloof because there is nothing on your profile to give us something to talk about; and no pics to attract attention. Whilst I understand completely about some not wanting to show face pics (I dont either) there's no excuse for no body shots"
Some of the hottest, nicest people I've met have no public pics.  |
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"That’s a good point however I like a bit of banter and establishing a common ground before that comes, each to their own and debate is healthy.
We feel there is no point in having a bit of banter and establishing common ground with someone we don’t fancy. "
We totally agree a picture first and foremost is important, if they are not to your desire whats the point in continuing under false pretence. Our opinion if we are allowing someone to join our personal space an attraction has to be mutual !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know it limits my chances but it’s a risk I’ll take lol have did ok in the past but the women on here seem aloof, I think all the attention they get might be the partly responsible for that
We probably seem aloof because there is nothing on your profile to give us something to talk about; and no pics to attract attention. Whilst I understand completely about some not wanting to show face pics (I dont either) there's no excuse for no body shots
Some of the hottest, nicest people I've met have no public pics.
I must admit the profile/ message I receive is the most important, pics less so"
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Are you really upset people dare to write their profiles how they choose? 
xxxx Suzi