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over a year ago
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Mrs Under was a naughty girl behind my back with a work colleague several years ago and confessed to everything recently.
At the time it happened we weren’t swingers and I was both shocked and angry - it nearly cost us our marriage.
However since then it has made our relationship the strongest it’s ever been and as a result we have started swinging and been to clubs a few times (although we haven’t been brave enough yet to take the plunge and play with others........YET!)
Anyway, until now neither of us have ever spoken about what she did and it was very much a case of being put to the back of our minds. That was until this weekend when I started quizzing her a bit more as to what she got up to with this guy, where they had sex and the chain of events that led up to it.
She was wary telling me at first at risk of stirring things up again, but eventually started telling me bits that got me amazingly turned on.
To cut a long story short, we had the best sex ever this weekend whilst she was whispering in my ear what her and this guy got up to and said she would happily tell me more whenever we found ourselves in ‘the heat of the moment’
So is this wrong? Should we have just left it in the past or would any other Fabbers have used this as a tool to take their sex life to the next level? |
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Gomez & I love hearing about what the other gets up to when we play separately - and your right, it makes for very hot sex while you’re telling each other the details!
But maybe leaving that one in the past might be better though, build new experiences that you can use instead ...? We wouldn’t tell each other about things we did in the past with exes for example - but then, it’s whatever it irks for you as a couple!
Not everyone gets that dynamic, but if it works for you, it’s totally hot & not at all wrong!!
Good luck guys! xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your feedback and yes, I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but it sure worked for us.
I’ve still got a lot of questions that I need her to answer!  |
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Glad it brought a silver lining at the end and made you both realise than ethical non-monogamy is the way to go.
The past is the past. We might be dead tomorrow. Don’t let it upset you for one more moment. Xx |
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"Glad it brought a silver lining at the end and made you both realise than ethical non-monogamy is the way to go.
The past is the past. We might be dead tomorrow. Don’t let it upset you for one more moment. Xx"
Bless you - that’s a lovely thing to say and very much appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Really turns me on when thewife tells me about her ex’s, it leads to amazing hot, hard sex  "
So glad it’s not just me. I was hoping I wasn’t some sort of freak! |
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over a year ago
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I love love love this... I like to interrogate every little detail! (Not sure ours classes as cheating as technically it's within the rules, but she does like to bend them!). |
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