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.is there any honest women out there that actually wants to be treated like a women
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over a year ago
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"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex"
looool I think the subject is total and utter crap lol doesn't make sense |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha
t you mean OP?"
No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that
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I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex"
I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special |
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"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha
t you mean OP?
No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that
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Really? How about we all like to be treated in different ways, just like men do.
If your ideal swinging scenario is meeting a woman for a meal and drinks before playing then go for it, but for other women that will be the last thing they want to do and that doesn’t mean they don’t want to be treated with any less respect.
On a personal level, I don’t drink, have a restricted diet and would rather spend that sort of time with a regular playmate or friends and family, not the bloke I’m about to fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex
I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special"
Wine and dine all you want, call it a shag, and it wouldnt be happening.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to be wined and dined by my partner. It doesn't happen often due to money restrictions but I don't mind.
When it comes to fab we are simply here for a bit of fun and sexual play. We aren't here to make friends or go for dinner and such. We have no qualms with being friendly and stuff, especially with people We have already met but going for dinner, coffee or drinks etc. With fab meets is not something we do. So being wined and dined on here is something we don't do and don't want to do.
It's not that I don't like being treated like a "woman" to assume not enjoying being treated like this makes you any less of a woman is beyond me and I don't see doing these as treating a lady as a woman but simply having a social.
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"Being treated like a woman here sometimes means being objectified, pigeonholed and used. Is that wha
t you mean OP?
No I mean made to feel special wined and dined yes this is a swingers site and we are on here for one reason but surely women like to be treated like that
Really? How about we all like to be treated in different ways, just like men do.
If your ideal swinging scenario is meeting a woman for a meal and drinks before playing then go for it, but for other women that will be the last thing they want to do and that doesn’t mean they don’t want to be treated with any less respect.
On a personal level, I don’t drink, have a restricted diet and would rather spend that sort of time with a regular playmate or friends and family, not the bloke I’m about to fuck."
100% this. I don’t want a date & this isn’t Tinder!! If I want to play with you, I want to play. If you’re my friend, I’ll spend time with you.
This is why club meets are so much easier!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If that was solely what I wanted then I’d be on a site where I’d swipe left/right, not on a site where I’m admitting I have an appetite for casual sex
I get that and yes we are here for one reason well it's a turn on for me to treat a women and make them feel special surely if you do when do have a shag it's that much better every one likes feeling special
Wine and dine all you want, call it a shag, and it wouldnt be happening.
Poppy"
AMEN!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone. |
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"I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone. "
...and there’s a whole work of other things in between. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love all the wining and dining and know that a lot of men here do too. Of course there are those who just want to hook up for nsa fun but that's the great thing about FAB , there's something for everyone. "
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"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja."
To be fair there's not a lot I wouldn't do for some tapas and a mediocre rioja |
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I think op you would be refering to the "Girlfriend experience" something past the instant gratification of a nsa meet?
You have to remember though that yes there will be women out there that appreciate this approach as there will also be ones who would run for the hills at the the thought of a meal with a stranger.
Just because you don't always get the answer you want doesn't mean you should stop looking for what works for you...but perhaps pay attention to your wording  |
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"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja."
This !!!! |
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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago
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"Surly lady's would like to be treated right
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I'm not so sure. I've met many a surly lady and every attempt to soften their demeanour has been met with a very curt reaction.
You're better off focusing on friendly, amiable ladies; you might have more success. Unless of course a challenge is your 'thing'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.
This !!!! "
I mean I would love some tapas brought for me, but I do completely agree with this. It creates pressure to carry out 'activities'... |
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"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.
This !!!!
I mean I would love some tapas brought for me, but I do completely agree with this. It creates pressure to carry out 'activities'..."
I am not dropping my kecks for a ritz cracker and a mouldy olive.... but I may for the right smile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't like being wined and dined before sex with new people. It can create the illusion that there's an obligation for me to 'deliver'. I'll fuck you if I want to fuck you, not because you bought some tapas and a mediocre Rioja.
To be fair there's not a lot I wouldn't do for some tapas and a mediocre rioja"
Maybe I should be 'wining and dining' you then...I have a list.. |
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