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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do expect to see face photos pretty early on as I like to know who I am talking too but if I ask I will always attach ours in that message.
Some people won't send theirs until they have seen yours to make sure they don't know you but as I see it everyone on here is on here for similar reasons |
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In what context? As an example anyone messaging us asking us to meet, we expect to see face pic. And that’s written on our profile.
If someone is randomly asking you for pics you have the right to decline,delete or block if you think it’s rude. |
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Some people won't send theirs until they have seen yours to make sure they don't know you but as I see it everyone on here is on here for similar reasons "
This ^^^
I have to be VERY careful because of my job but I'm happy to send face pics once I've established I don't know the person. |
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It clearly states on my profile I want a face pic. If I like what I see then I will send one back. If not I don't as we will not be meeting. My rules. If it bothers anyone then they can always block me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what context? As an example anyone messaging us asking us to meet, we expect to see face pic. And that’s written on our profile.
If someone is randomly asking you for pics you have the right to decline,delete or block if you think it’s rude. "
I always send a face pic when asking for a meet but what I can't abide are people that make the first contact and then ask. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep it simple have at least one face picture if you are serious about meeting up with anyone on here
If you don't have one don't message What's the point of the other person responsing back to you
You give the other person on grounds to do so |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on."
That seems to be the norm on here.
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"In what context? As an example anyone messaging us asking us to meet, we expect to see face pic. And that’s written on our profile.
If someone is randomly asking you for pics you have the right to decline,delete or block if you think it’s rude. I always send a face pic when asking for a meet but what I can't abide are people that make the first contact and then ask."
So it’s a useful filter then as it’s not the sort of person you want to meet. No point conversing just block. It’s okay to be choosy as a single guy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It clearly states on my profile I want a face pic. If I like what I see then I will send one back. If not I don't as we will not be meeting. My rules. If it bothers anyone then they can always block me. "
That's fair enough as they need to sell their selves to you and you make it clear from the start nothing wrong with that.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on."
What I don't understand is why men contact these profiles in the first place? I would never send a message to someone unless they piqued my interest with some public pictures, otherwise I wouldn't even bother opening their message  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In what context? As an example anyone messaging us asking us to meet, we expect to see face pic. And that’s written on our profile.
If someone is randomly asking you for pics you have the right to decline,delete or block if you think it’s rude. I always send a face pic when asking for a meet but what I can't abide are people that make the first contact and then ask.
So it’s a useful filter then as it’s not the sort of person you want to meet. No point conversing just block. It’s okay to be choosy as a single guy. "
Why wouldn't a single self respecting guy be choosey? |
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"In what context? As an example anyone messaging us asking us to meet, we expect to see face pic. And that’s written on our profile.
If someone is randomly asking you for pics you have the right to decline,delete or block if you think it’s rude. I always send a face pic when asking for a meet but what I can't abide are people that make the first contact and then ask.
So it’s a useful filter then as it’s not the sort of person you want to meet. No point conversing just block. It’s okay to be choosy as a single guy. Why wouldn't a single self respecting guy be choosey?"
No reason. They should be. But many don’t seem to be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on.
What I don't understand is why men contact these profiles in the first place? I would never send a message to someone unless they piqued my interest with some public pictures, otherwise I wouldn't even bother opening their message "
Their are lots of sexy ladies on here with great pics but poor profiles but also no pics and great profiles. Suppose it depends on the type of person you are as to what you want! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on.
What I don't understand is why men contact these profiles in the first place? I would never send a message to someone unless they piqued my interest with some public pictures, otherwise I wouldn't even bother opening their message "
She messaged me saying nice pics and profile and asked for a face pic. Us men don’t get many messages so it’s easier for us to open and read them all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I get a message from someone with a profile pic of a cock it gets deleted without opening.
I want to be excited by seeing a profile pic that’s interesting....
I’ll send face pics if someone sends theirs first...I won’t send it to people I know I’m not going to meet... |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on.
What I don't understand is why men contact these profiles in the first place? I would never send a message to someone unless they piqued my interest with some public pictures, otherwise I wouldn't even bother opening their message
She messaged me saying nice pics and profile and asked for a face pic. Us men don’t get many messages so it’s easier for us to open and read them all. "
Ok I can understand that and you were quite right in refusing to provide further pictures  |
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"There’s a lady near me without any public pics at all, not even an avatar one and she got shitty with me for not sending her a face pic. I politely pointed out that as she didn’t have any pics at all there was no way I was sending a face pic. She had the cheek to get a strop on.
What I don't understand is why men contact these profiles in the first place? I would never send a message to someone unless they piqued my interest with some public pictures, otherwise I wouldn't even bother opening their message
She messaged me saying nice pics and profile and asked for a face pic. Us men don’t get many messages so it’s easier for us to open and read them all. "
Was probably a bloke pretending to be a woman.I've had a spate of those recently |
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"Don't entertain them. If they are asking they should show theirs first. If not, move on. Thats what I tell them and end up blocked lol"
But, if you aren't interested in people like that then why do you care if your blocked? They did you a favour, right? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't entertain them. If they are asking they should show theirs first. If not, move on. Thats what I tell them and end up blocked lol
But, if you aren't interested in people like that then why do you care if your blocked? They did you a favour, right?"
I don't care it amuses me how shallow they are |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't entertain them. If they are asking they should show theirs first. If not, move on. Thats what I tell them and end up blocked lol
But, if you aren't interested in people like that then why do you care if your blocked? They did you a favour, right?"
Who cares if they block. You probably will never meet them anyways. I tend to block those who insist as I'd not be meeting them unless they showed their face pic first if they were insisting on one.
I have rarely sent a face pic...Only happens on kik or whatsapp and by that time a good connection has already been established and we're meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't send first messages any more (except in relation to forum posts).
I reply to messages, then eventually get round to the profile and pics.
They are not the be all and end all for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just people being people. There's all sorts. Some will or won't do stuff you do or don't like! And it will or won't happen a lot depending on whether you are or aren't bothered much by it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone contacts me first, then I expect them to send one first.
If there's no attraction then I don't bother sending one back as there no point as I know it won't be going any further. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down. "
probably a guy.
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By *ida8780Couple
over a year ago
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We ask for face pics if we receive the first initial message. We send back if we like the look of the couple. If we first message we would send if one is asked for. Can’t say fairer than that as far as we are concerned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down. probably a guy. "
Just what I was thinking too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down. probably a guy.
Just what I was thinking too."
I don’t think so, not if the pics of her tits and fanny are anything to go by anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down. "
Seems like you attract a type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve just had it again, single lady messaged me saying I’m near you fancy a chat, “yes, that would be nice” I replied, she had no pics at all on show but asked for a face pic in her second message. I told her I do have one but I’d rather see some of her pics first as I have plenty on display, she sent some body pics and I replied with “thanks for the pics, very nice but you’re not for me, good luck” I got back “hahaha whatever you cunt” and was blocked. What is the point of carrying on like that, I’m always polite when letting people down.
Seems like you attract a type "
Brilliant, thanks. Nah, it’s only happened a couple of times, most ladies I speak to are lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's because body off Baywatch face off crimewatch
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Actually I only saw her body, I’d never put a girl down but all I said was that she wasn’t for me, no point lying is there but I only ever say it in a nice way. Plenty turn me down but I don’t go calling them cunts because of it. |
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