So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. |
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Without actually finding out from her, you'll never really know. Forget and move on.
I'm interested in seeing the other responses to this given the woman's role in this. |
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She could be a timewaster, has other stuff going on at home, has maybe been distracted by someone else, or changed her mind and doesn’t want to say.
There are many reasons OP. |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. "
It's really maddening when that happens isn't it! It's happened to us a couple of times, we've had the date and venue arranged and when it comes to time...nothing. |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. "
this is classic time wasters behaviour imafraid , if they go quiet on you then they have no intentions of meeting , its getting a bit too real for her now and best to move on
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I would just like to point out that anyone can back out of having sex with someone they are chatting to at any time. She probably just changed her mind, it's not a crime x |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. this is classic time wasters behaviour imafraid , if they go quiet on you then they have no intentions of meeting , its getting a bit too real for her now and best to move on "
I was going to say something similar. We think that a lot of people really love the idea but as soon as it comes to arranging fun it goes quiet. Happened to us a couple of weeks ago arranged for a guy to come over within 5 minutes he made an excuse and still has not read out response or spoke to us since. So annoying |
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over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off.
It's really maddening when that happens isn't it! It's happened to us a couple of times, we've had the date and venue arranged and when it comes to time...nothing. "
Had this myself of late, hence why I'm no longer looking to meet. I'm fed up with having my time wasted, I don't get much free time in the first place. |
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I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
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Clubs still attract some plonkers  |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
Clubs still attract some plonkers "
They've not attracted this plonker. Yet  |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
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This, minus the obligated part. Nobody should ever feel obligated on anything, but people who frequent clubs and socials are more likely to be serious in their intent. |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
Clubs still attract some plonkers "
I completely agree but the majority who take the trouble to attend are at least genuine and if you find someone is a plonker you can move on pretty quickly without wasting time exchanging messages |
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"A fab woman or a real woman?
Usual give away no veris or fake veris and straight away start with the sex questions
How can you tell a fake veri"
A bit of detective work usually.
Check out the person leaving the veri. It's usually obvious. |
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"A fab woman or a real woman?
Usual give away no veris or fake veris and straight away start with the sex questions
How can you tell a fake veri
A bit of detective work usually.
Check out the person leaving the veri. It's usually obvious."
I saw a cracker this week on a profile who had posted in the forum.
In his profile he had put 'knot' instead of not in his profile text. He had one verification and they had done the same thing! |
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some people get off on the prospect of meeting for sex , there pattern is easily spotted early on if u know what to look for , its sort of written between the lines |
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"A fab woman or a real woman?
Usual give away no veris or fake veris and straight away start with the sex questions
How can you tell a fake veri
A bit of detective work usually.
Check out the person leaving the veri. It's usually obvious.
I saw a cracker this week on a profile who had posted in the forum.
In his profile he had put 'knot' instead of not in his profile text. He had one verification and they had done the same thing!"
And therein lies the futility of judging Fabbers by veris. |
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"A fab woman or a real woman?
Usual give away no veris or fake veris and straight away start with the sex questions
How can you tell a fake veri
A bit of detective work usually.
Check out the person leaving the veri. It's usually obvious.
I saw a cracker this week on a profile who had posted in the forum.
In his profile he had put 'knot' instead of not in his profile text. He had one verification and they had done the same thing!
And therein lies the futility of judging Fabbers by veris."
dont fabbers judge everyone about everything tho ? |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
This, minus the obligated part. Nobody should ever feel obligated on anything, but people who frequent clubs and socials are more likely to be serious in their intent. "
 I'd avoid anyone who insinuated that I was 'obligated' to meet them!  |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. "
It's incredibly rude and childish to leave it like that. An adult would say she didn't want to meet you after all.
Lucky escape- at least you don't have to meet her now. |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. "
May be she is a "man" |
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"So spoke to women last week and got on great chatting. I asked if she liked what she saw etc which she replied very much so. We arranged to meet after the weekend ie this week. But now nothing, ignores my messages etc. Why can't people just be genuine I am. Pisses me off. "
Maybe he came? |
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"A fab woman or a real woman?
Usual give away no veris or fake veris and straight away start with the sex questions
How can you tell a fake veri
A bit of detective work usually.
Check out the person leaving the veri. It's usually obvious.
I saw a cracker this week on a profile who had posted in the forum.
In his profile he had put 'knot' instead of not in his profile text. He had one verification and they had done the same thing!
And therein lies the futility of judging Fabbers by veris."
Not really there’s a big difference between proper verifications and those joke ones when 2 faceless fake profiles verify each other |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
This, minus the obligated part. Nobody should ever feel obligated on anything, but people who frequent clubs and socials are more likely to be serious in their intent.
I'd avoid anyone who insinuated that I was 'obligated' to meet them! "
Thats not at all what was meant the point was that the genuine people who have actually met at a social or a club are more inclined to go through with a meet because there is more common ground and unlike the keyboard warriors on here have attended these gatherings with the intentions of not just chatting but actually meeting.It works as a natural filter |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
This, minus the obligated part. Nobody should ever feel obligated on anything, but people who frequent clubs and socials are more likely to be serious in their intent.
I'd avoid anyone who insinuated that I was 'obligated' to meet them!
Thats not at all what was meant the point was that the genuine people who have actually met at a social or a club are more inclined to go through with a meet because there is more common ground and unlike the keyboard warriors on here have attended these gatherings with the intentions of not just chatting but actually meeting.It works as a natural filter"
I see, good point. Probably that they've met in person and decided already if they like each other and want to meet again.  |
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"I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea but that’s why I only arrange meets with people I’ve met at clubs and socials at least you know they’re genuine swingers and both parties feel more obligated to keep the arrangement
This, minus the obligated part. Nobody should ever feel obligated on anything, but people who frequent clubs and socials are more likely to be serious in their intent.
I'd avoid anyone who insinuated that I was 'obligated' to meet them! "
Agreed |
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