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Kissing when swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know a few couples aren't into this but for me its a big part of the sexy flirting and build up and I'd find it difficult not to!

Thoughts....

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By *wansfeetCouple over a year ago

Guisborough

We both like to kiss with our swing partners, it's a build up to sex. I'm not sure I understand the viewpoint of not kissing someone i'm going to have sex with. It's sexy, intimate, gets me in the mood for more.

I'd be put off swinging with someone if they States that they don't kiss, as its a big deal for me.

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yep....thats where I am with it too!

the temptation to kiss would be too much for me !

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By *uddy and hollyCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

Holly loves kissing think if there was no kissing she would not play

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Holly loves kissing think if there was no kissing she would not play "

was going to look at Holly but I seem to be blocked?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must for me, it's the place where great sex starts. If there's no kissing, it would be difficult for me to let myself go and enjoy the experience completely, I'd have to keep stopping myself from doing what feels natural.

V x

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

I specifically mention that I won't meet those who are not happy to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well theres a definite consensus here !! x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's a newbie thing, like holding on to something reserved for the couple, rules change as barriers get more relaxed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

maybe......I just get lost in the moment.....no way could I not kiss x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple over a year ago

Chester

Kissing all the way for us - full mingle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Holly loves kissing think if there was no kissing she would not play

was going to look at Holly but I seem to be blocked?!"

Definitely no kissing there then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Holly loves kissing think if there was no kissing she would not play

was going to look at Holly but I seem to be blocked?!

Definitely no kissing there then! "

doesnt seem that way!

I cant see you two either!!

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By *hingy2Woman over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I know a few couples aren't into this but for me its a big part of the sexy flirting and build up and I'd find it difficult not to!

Thoughts...."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When me and my hubby decided on an open marriage, I went for a social with a man that I still play with frequently. Social went fine, then in the car I ended up sucking his dick! We didn’t kiss, and we still haven’t! Other men I do kiss - it’s kind of a running joke that we have fucked and haven’t kissed. Usually when he’s coming over I’m on my knees ready, or bent over waiting.

I actually got the giggles when the second man I met with kissed me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing

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By *xycpl699Couple over a year ago

kilmarnock

yes we love kissing all part of the fun. hollie

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"yes we love kissing all part of the fun. hollie "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If no kissing, then no play. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is where the first connection is made, if they don't kiss good then it is pretty much a giver that sex won't be good either.

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By *azza80Woman over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

Thing with kissing when swinging is that some people find it too personal and more intimate than play itself as it can unwanted build feelings up.. This is not us by the way, we love kissing

Mazza xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

it is personal and intimate....but then so is pussy licking, cock sucking and penetration

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love kissing sex would just not feel the same without it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love it. Watching the other person kids somebody else is such a huge turn on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love kissing, it wouldn’t feel right without it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've only had one guy refuse to kiss.

Just made me think of pretty woman and that isn't a good place to be on a meet!

Kissing is a must.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We love it. Watching the other person kids somebody else is such a huge turn on "

agreed !

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By *azza80Woman over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

"it is personal and intimate....but then so is pussy licking, cock sucking and penetration

Yea I kno lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s kissing or no play for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is an absolute must for me, it's the place where great sex starts. If there's no kissing, it would be difficult for me to let myself go and enjoy the experience completely, I'd have to keep stopping myself from doing what feels natural.

V x"

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I just can't get into the zone without kissing, the right kiss is my on switch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We both prefer kissing, would seem odd without it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone who wouldn't kiss. Massive deal breaker for me, I love it just as much as sex so refuse to go without

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I just can't get into the zone without kissing, the right kiss is my on switch."

I get that....the right kiss.....and Im instantly hard

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By *appytrailmanMan over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing is 100% for me I love it....also get turned on by a good kiss!

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By *ammy lynWoman over a year ago

Stoke-on-trent

"Kissing is 100% for me I love it....also get turned on by a good kiss!

I feel exactly the same and if my fella is around watching me kissing gives him an instant hard on X

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By *orkie321bWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

I can understand why some people, especially couples, choose not to kiss on a meet.

Kissing is a definite must for me and I wouldn't meet anyone who didn't kiss.

Nothing gets me more hot and bothered than a good old snog

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kissing is 100% for me I love it....also get turned on by a good kiss!

I feel exactly the same and if my fella is around watching me kissing gives him an instant hard on X "

love that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I lovee it! and the occasional lip bite!

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By *inkycouplespainCouple over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Kissing is mandatory for us.

D&K

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love a good snog, you can tell a lot about someone on that first kiss! I personally wouldn’t meet anyone who didn’t want to kiss.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its imperative! It doesn't work without it. not for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would not meet anyone who does not kiss. Normally a good kisser is good at sex as well. It all the follow on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love it, it really turns me on and gets me excited... to be honest I can't imagine sex without it. Luckily all my meets have been prolific kissers. Just thinking about it gets me horny.

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By *tuartsCelloCouple over a year ago

Bristol

Kissing all the way here

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By *quarianwhisperMan over a year ago

Berkshire

Kissing is a must

The connection it creates and chemistry is big part for good fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love it.

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

I've only played with a couple of couples where kissing wasn't allowed or wanted... ....with the first, it wasn't allowed because it was something they 'kept for themselves'...

....with the second, as a cuckold couple it simply wasn't important - on my first visit when I went to kiss her she turned away, and he later told me it wasn't something she liked, so at subsequent meetings, I didn't try again...

....but the majority of woman - whether playing as a coupe or not - do seem to prefer and want it. Happy to say I'm told I'm a good kisser!

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Totally respect those who keep kissing for themselves but for me I'd find it very difficult to play with those that didn't kiss, as kissing is guaranteed to turn me on very quickly and sets the mood perfectly for what is to follow as well as being the perfect accompaniment to the main course.

Have also been lucky enough to play with bi couples where both kiss and that is extremely hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us kissing is a prerequisite to get us both aroused enough for sex. It's also a good indicator to tell how well we would get on with any play partners. Generally, the more passionate the kiss, the more fun we have.

Fuzz

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By *ullBodiedVixenWoman over a year ago

Sawtry

Love long hot kissing, if truth be told its one of my weaknesses. Its all part of it. I don’t understand the ‘wont kiss but happy to lick everything else’ thinking tbh

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By *r missCouple over a year ago

south wales

"I think it's a newbie thing, like holding on to something reserved for the couple, rules change as barriers get more relaxed x"

Correct. Our first meet we didn’t want to kiss or full swap. We soon realised our mistake and the next meet we had kissing and full swap and it was one of the horniest fucks ever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m easy. (No pun intended)

Prob less likely to kiss in a club though

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

I love kissing!

It's very intimate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a conversation with my long term partner about joining him and one of his male friends. He was happy for me to do everything with the friend, that we do, but said he doesn't want him to kiss me. He said he doesn't like the idea of seeing me kiss another man.

I don't know how I would feel about him kissing another woman, but would take her feelings into consideration; as I don't like sex without kissing. I don't think it would be fair on her to remove something that makes the sex so much more enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually think I like kissing more than sex. I couldn't imagine meeting someone who didn't kiss. It's something I could never compromise on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's fucking awesome!!!!

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By * and M lookingCouple over a year ago

Worcester

Kissing makes it feel more personal.

No kissing = no sex.

If you can’t kiss then pretty much guarantee you won’t be any good when it comes to sex.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We love kissing xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand that some people want to keep certain things to themselves which is fine.

If we honest its unlikely we would meet with anyone that did not kiss as we love it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kissing makes it feel more personal.

No kissing = no sex.

If you can’t kiss then pretty much guarantee you won’t be any good when it comes to sex.

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing makes it feel more personal.

No kissing = no sex.

If you can’t kiss then pretty much guarantee you won’t be any good when it comes to sex.

Mrs"

Yep, I've found this to be the case in the past!

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By *rs spicyCouple over a year ago

Chesterfield near centre

A good kissing session is a must. I couldn't cope without.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A good kissing session is a must. I couldn't cope without."

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By *ambsguy33Man over a year ago

derby

Yes, kissing on meets is important to me, part of the connection and makes it much more intimate.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sarah really likes it, and sees it as part of the experience. I can take it or leave it to be fair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate it when men don't want to kiss but I totally get the reasoning behind it

For me it's essential but I don't always get my own way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmmmmm kissing........

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By *09309309Woman over a year ago

Dublin

I couldn't imagine sex without kissing. It's nearly the best part. Almost

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

We said no kissing at first but didn’t work out as it’s part of the excitement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate it when men don't want to kiss but I totally get the reasoning behind it

For me it's essential but I don't always get my own way

"
why wouldn't they want to kiss you

i would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

big must for me not kissing no meet for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Mmmmmm kissing........

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By *ightboy69Man over a year ago

Torquay

Really don't understand the no kissing rule , it's where great sex starts

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By *hatterley64Couple over a year ago

Hertford

"it is personal and intimate....but then so is pussy licking, cock sucking and penetration

Precisely!

I (Mrs) couldn’t swing without kissing ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

I really do not like open mouthed kissing. The wetness, having someone's tongue in my mouth, it just feels disgusting to me. Now and then I will do it during sex with my husband, but I have to be very turned on - and even then, it's something I tolerate rather than enjoy.

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me kissing is one of the hottest things to do, no kissing = no meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

We don't kiss our casual sex partners. We mention this on our profile so that people for who its important can avoid us

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)"

Nothing is enjoyed by everybody, not one thing

We only kiss each other but it's not that important to us.

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By *uddy and hollyCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

"I actually think I like kissing more than sex. I couldn't imagine meeting someone who didn't kiss. It's something I could never compromise on. "
me buddy the same

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By *ooey46Man over a year ago

Sowerby Bridge

I have been joining a couple lately,not from here,and the mrs won`t kiss me and I really miss it...but I accept it an kiss the rest of her instead!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)"

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?"

Well, no, I'm not a big fan of receiving oral either. I don't mind being kissed on my body, just not the mouth or genitals.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?"

He he

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By *ornylittlesubWoman over a year ago

Grangemouth

I am obviously going against the grain here after reading this thread, and MANY others on the same topic...but I never kiss on a meet, which is clearly discussed before any such meet, if they don't like that then cool....we don't meet. But all the crap about not kissing on a meet making it impossible to therefor have "fun"

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?

Well, no, I'm not a big fan of receiving oral either. I don't mind being kissed on my body, just not the mouth or genitals. "

Dare I intrude about your anus?

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By *ustfun009Man over a year ago

oxford

"I know a few couples aren't into this but for me its a big part of the sexy flirting and build up and I'd find it difficult not to!

Thoughts...."
kissing is definatley all part of the sexy fun and stripping each others clothes off as you do;-)

Also if either dont enjoy the starter they wont lije the desert

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By *ffanotdykeCouple over a year ago

Telford

Glad to see that we are not the only ones who have reservations about kissing. We feel sure many other couples have certain things which are special and exclusive to them and them alone, with us its kissing on the face and lips. Kissing any other areas is fine and welcome.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?

Well, no, I'm not a big fan of receiving oral either. I don't mind being kissed on my body, just not the mouth or genitals.

Dare I intrude about your anus?"

Well, that's something I have only tried one time - and that was a good 12 years ago - but I can't say I was a fan of that either. I might be willing to give that a go again though, just because it's been so long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is overrated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is overrated"

Do you never kiss?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is overrated

Do you never kiss?"

Sometimes, but it's not such a big deal.

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By *is vixen at playCouple over a year ago

Dundee

We allow kissing for all the reasons stated above but do try to keep the passionate kisses for us, mainly due to how intimate it can be. But agree that kissing is a must really to get things going and build everything up. G

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By *ingAlMan over a year ago

hereford

Sensual passionate kissing, especially while having sex, cant beat it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I am the odd one out here and probably a bit of a freak, but...

(Mrs)

Are you ok with their wet tongues in your other orifices?

Well, no, I'm not a big fan of receiving oral either. I don't mind being kissed on my body, just not the mouth or genitals.

Dare I intrude about your anus?

Cool, imao wet tongues need somewhere to probe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry but I think half the people here are telling a little lie. Some gorgeous people who don't kiss but is everything your looking for in all the other departments, and your trying to say you wouldn't meet because they don't kiss. Sorry guys but lies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry but I think half the people here are telling a little lie. Some gorgeous people who don't kiss but is everything your looking for in all the other departments, and your trying to say you wouldn't meet because they don't kiss. Sorry guys but lies"

I would never meet someone who didn't kiss. For one hot person who doesnt, there is an even hotter one who does

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Glad to see that we are not the only ones who have reservations about kissing. We feel sure many other couples have certain things which are special and exclusive to them and them alone, with us its kissing on the face and lips. Kissing any other areas is fine and welcome. "

No your not the only ones x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am obviously going against the grain here after reading this thread, and MANY others on the same topic...but I never kiss on a meet, which is clearly discussed before any such meet, if they don't like that then cool....we don't meet. But all the crap about not kissing on a meet making it impossible to therefor have "fun"

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is a big part of sex for me,even if it’s just in the build up.

Can’t beat a good horny snog to get things started...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was our only rule really when we started out. Literally within 30 seconds of our first swap, we broke it.

Now we look back and think how stupid of a rule it was!

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

" .....But all the crap about not kissing on a meet making it impossible to therefor have "fun"

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! "

I don't think anyone is suggesting that others should/do find it 'impossible to have fun without kissing'....merely stating that they personally do.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's essential.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's essential."
Gisa snog

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us."

and vice versa...oh, hang on, you already have...lol

...why are people getting so upset by others simply expressing preferences...I don't see why they are taking it as a personal attack??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Such a huge turn on for me watching San standing snogging a guy while handling his cock. No kissing - no meet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us."

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha "

And us from a previous thread re: no kissing,,,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own"

Sex without kissing is like a curry without sauce

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own

Sex without kissing is like a curry without sauce "

Curry without sauce...is there such a thing?? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own

Sex without kissing is like a curry without sauce

Curry without sauce...is there such a thing?? lol"

Sex without kissing is like KFC without chicken.. to put it mildly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own"

We wouldn’t meet no kissers no matter how gorgeous, something with the no kissing people just doesn’t sit well with us, fear of intimacy, jealousy, internal conflict. Maybe

But kissing to us is a big part of the play

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For us it's part and parcel of playing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own

We wouldn’t meet no kissers no matter how gorgeous, something with the no kissing people just doesn’t sit well with us, fear of intimacy, jealousy, internal conflict. Maybe

But kissing to us is a big part of the play"

See I don't think that much into it, if people don't want to kiss then thats upto them regardless their reasons, but for me it's 100% non negotiable.

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

I personally wouldn't, I LOVE kissing, and could literally do it for hours.

It's a huge part of sex for me so I wouldn't be prepared to push it to one side for any body.

But to each their own

We wouldn’t meet no kissers no matter how gorgeous, something with the no kissing people just doesn’t sit well with us, fear of intimacy, jealousy, internal conflict. Maybe

But kissing to us is a big part of the play"

^^^

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We agree completely kissing is a must for us without kissing it would feel very clinical. No kiss no play x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

and vice versa...oh, hang on, you already have...lol

...why are people getting so upset by others simply expressing preferences...I don't see why they are taking it as a personal attack??

Not getting upset at all. Just a way of avoiding wasting time communicating with people who would not want to meet us and vice versa. Each to their own. Nothing wrong with having preferences.

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By *olarfoxMan over a year ago

North Cambs

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

and vice versa...oh, hang on, you already have...lol

...why are people getting so upset by others simply expressing preferences...I don't see why they are taking it as a personal attack??

Not getting upset at all. Just a way of avoiding wasting time communicating with people who would not want to meet us and vice versa. Each to their own. Nothing wrong with having preferences."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's in my profile... No kissing then don't message me.

If they can't kiss then there probably wouldn't be a second meet either no matter how gorgeous they may be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha "

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

And us from a previous thread re: no kissing,,,,

Wow I am impressed that you remember,if that is the case. Or could it have been some other thread ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really."

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok. "

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

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By *xycpl699Couple over a year ago

kilmarnock

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha "
they blocked us to lol no worries. hollie

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By *kmanMan over a year ago

Letterkenny

No kissing no meeting . Did it once and had a big impact on the meet. Different if group play but mfm and mff it is has to be there for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We prefer kissing although there's been a few meets that's have been enjoyed without x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t want to be blocked by anyone in the forums, so I’ll keep my opinion on this particular subject to myself on this particular subject. Love you all

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really."

I'll tend to agree with you on this. I'll block those who delete and don't reply back to a message in compliance with fab rules of 'no reply means not interested'. I also block those who my keep peeping but in their profile may state, 'not looking single men' or 'cannot accommodate'. If they message I politely explain the above to them and wish them well.

As you say it makes a lot of sense to filter out those whom you'll not meet and saves a lot of wasted time searching through these very profiles only to skip over them anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok. "

How is it any more personal than a filter stating age range or only females or only straight men or only bimen? The filter system on fab is very limiting and until they expand it many will use the block button to filter out those whom one isn't interested in.

I think people had being blocked as much as filtered... but it's just the same so don't know why people on here are having a go at certain ones who use the block button as a filter.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

I think people had being blocked as much as filtered... but it's just the same so don't know why people on here are having a go at certain ones who use the block button as a filter."

I'm not going to argue about it, I said what I said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know a few couples aren't into this but for me its a big part of the sexy flirting and build up and I'd find it difficult not to!

Thoughts...."

Yes kissing is a must!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha "

That's a bit pointless. I doubt there would be anyone on the thread interested in meeting them anyway.

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By *avnut69Man over a year ago

Sale

absolutely kissing is a big part of it.. you may aswell see a working girl if you dont want personal interaction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in ."

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My partner didn't kiss me for a long time (possibly 18 months), until one day he leant forward and kissed me. It totally changed the dynamics of our sex.

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By *yphodMan over a year ago

London

Not just kissing but the whole caressing each other's bodies, kissing from head to toe. Make it a sensual experience

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By *avnut69Man over a year ago

Sale

yes a lot of working girls will kiss but a lot dont,, was just trying to make the point really that its more personal and less mechanical if some proper kissing sets the tone, but everyone to thier own i how it should be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums. "

I read it as that's the point.. The forum provides a good source for filtering. Everyone does it...Some block, some put in hotlist to watch carefully, some mentally remember, some may screen print and save and some may just use notes.

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By *avnut69Man over a year ago

Sale

its a good discussion, and as usual there are differing views which is why the world is so varied.. all good stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in ."

We're kissaholics, can we be filtered out as well please? xxxxx

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By *erotic_adventureMan over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Kissing quite literally is the taste (& prelude) of things to come

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing has to be one of our biggest turn ons

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

We're kissaholics, can we be filtered out as well please? xxxxx"

Loving kissaholic x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No kissing....

No point.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

Filtering what though? People who don't want to meet me don't need filtering out and they still see what I write on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I couldn’t not...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I couldn’t not... "

Imagine!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me? "

Makes them feel like they made the decision not to meet not the other way around hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know a few couples aren't into this but for me its a big part of the sexy flirting and build up and I'd find it difficult not to!

Thoughts...."

If they don't want to kiss then I respect that. I've met people that don't kiss and it was still fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I couldn’t not...

Imagine!

It would be simply ... wrong!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me? "

Maybe just to keep viewing their profile in hope

. That's why I'd block...As they suggested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me?

Makes them feel like they made the decision not to meet not the other way around hahaha "

They closed the door that they other may have thought was ajar.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me?

Maybe just to keep viewing their profile in hope

. That's why I'd block...As they suggested.

I look at profiles because I enjoy looking at some people’s photos. I’d be mortified if they blocked us just for repeatedly doing that. I’m glad we view in stealth mode now, if that’s what can happen. Likewise there are people who look regularly at ours. We’re not going to take that away from them if they like looking.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

Not everyone. Just the ones who wouldn't want to meet us. Common sense really.

Seems like you've taken it a bit personally but ok.

No. Not all. I find the forums a good tool to filter out and in .

You're probably filtering out people who aren't interested in meeting you, but can still see everything they write on the forums.

What's the point me writing a note about not meeting someone who doesn't want to meet me?

Maybe just to keep viewing their profile in hope

. That's why I'd block...As they suggested.

I wouldn't want to look at a profile I'm not interested in. I barely look at the ones I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is an indispensible part of swinging for me, or just about any sex for that matter! It's not just a huge part of the build up and flirting, building up the physical tension, it's connecting with the other person.

Or maybe I'm overthinking it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kissing is essential.

A guy I met said in his profile that if he didn’t have someone pinned against the wall as soon as the door closed and in a deep kiss, there was something wrong...

....he didn’t...and it became awkward after that...but yes, kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

Mmmm so as there opinions don’t match yours it’s bollocks but your asking what happened to each to there own. If they think kissing is a big part to play in there fun and don’t feel like they could be lay without kissing and don’t want to meet people who don’t kiss isn’t that up to them each to there own. Just the same as people who don’t want to kiss.

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

"Kissing is essential.

A guy I met said in his profile that if he didn’t have someone pinned against the wall as soon as the door closed and in a deep kiss, there was something wrong...

....he didn’t...and it became awkward after that...but yes, kissing is a must

Once had a woman tell me if I kissed her deeply as soon as I walked through the door, she'd do whatever I wanted her to...

....I did, and she did!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For all those who indicate that no kissing is a deal breaker and no way could they meet people who don't kiss. Please feel free to block us.

Looks like you've already gone through the thread and blocked everyone hahaha

That's a bit pointless. I doubt there would be anyone on the thread interested in meeting them anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

Great point! Part of the fun of swinging is the freedom to express things that are more varied than vanilla life. If kissing is your bag(or mine) crack on, if it's not for you, plenty on here will agree. Why can't we all just get along?! Lol

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is essential for us, it is the starting point, it helps develop a connection. Don't think either of us could play with somebody without being able to kiss.

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By *uzanne and RickyCouple over a year ago

Midlothian

I met a couple when I was single who insisted there would no kissing but absolutely everything else it was strange to start with but fun was certainly had by all. Now I’m in a couple S insists she does kiss which I encourage. It’s each to your own like most things. Happy fabbing!! R

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah it's near enough a deal breaker for us. An exceptional playmate... Maybe... I guess

But we had a swing need with a couple who were awesome, stunning, great hosts, but no kissing. It was just weird. I'm there getting my dick sucked by this stunner, L is giving the male her usual hurricane BJ, and it just wasn't the turn on it should have been.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The best feeling in the world is kissing someone for the first time when you’ve really wanted to kiss them for long time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We respect people’s right to choose but we’re a kissing, full swap couple.

Kissing for us gets us more turned on than any other act. Can’t imagine doing it without kissing as it would be more like a business transaction.

Soft swap for us also is a bit like having a starter but you can’t have the main course.

Each to their own though.

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By *rBBMrsLDCouple over a year ago

Seaford

Kissing yes! all day everyday we love kissing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kissing is essential.

A guy I met said in his profile that if he didn’t have someone pinned against the wall as soon as the door closed and in a deep kiss, there was something wrong...

....he didn’t...and it became awkward after that...but yes, kissing is a must

Very awkward!

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By *ornylittlesubWoman over a year ago

Grangemouth

(said over and over on this thread)....BOLLOCKS! What happened to each to their own and all that? We swinging bunch are a fickle lot.

Please tell me where I said that? All I said was those that had said(and there were many) that you couldn't possibly have "fun" if you didn't kiss were talking bollocks! That may be how they feel, but they cant speak for everyone, can they?? I said each to their own because that's how it should be....why do people feel like if its not their way its the wrong way? If you insist on kissing(we are talking about on the mouth here) during a meet, cool, if you insist on NOT kissing....also cool...each to their own. But to say nobody can have fun if they don't want to kiss is....well like I said..BOLLOCK'S.

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