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Do you think people that know they are attractive look after themselves better ?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire

Yes. Must be easier with a better ‘canvas’ to start from.

There’s one girl on here who is SO hot I could spit feathers. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

Its often the case riight? I think its up to the other person whether they find me attractive..I don’t think I am personally

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By *radleywigginsMan  over a year ago

northwest

Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life.. "

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

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By *neeyedpirateMan  over a year ago

ask!

I like to think I look after myself. Gym food nice clothes. But I am fugly lol

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple  over a year ago

South Wales


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

"

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it all starts from within, if you feel confident and comfortable with yourself it'll come naturally.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes."

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people"

I don’t think that is true at all many many men on here favour the larger women

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

"

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

Possibly. If they're used to being found attractive they might be more motivated to maintain the look.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people"

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman."

Yes I’ve seen them

It’s a fact that some people are just that shallow

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we’re generalising ......

I don’t think they necessarily take better care of themselves but I do think the results are more obvious to the eye.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If we’re generalising ......

I don’t think they necessarily take better care of themselves but I do think the results are more obvious to the eye.

"

All that glitters is not gold

But how one sees beauty is not as the other is it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You must see her every morning in the mirror lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dunno about that! I know some very attractive people that have no idea how gorgeous they are!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Remember, beauty is only skin deep...but ugly goes right to the f***ing bone!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Remember, beauty is only skin deep...but ugly goes right to the f***ing bone!"

Exactly right

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

It’s all about getting the balance right.

As many have said you could be Miss world and then when people meet you they realise that you have her personality.

That being one of a gnat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

I think it's chicken & egg. Maybe they take care of themselves to stay looking good ...or... maybe they look good because they take care of themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

Surely, you would argue that people that look after themselves are therefore more attractive ss a result?

If you work out you will have a better body. If you look after your hair or invest time in make up and looking good... you will naturally look better.

Your perception might be that more attractive people take better care of themself because they know they are attractive: but it's more likey they are more attractive because they take better care of themself, in the first place.

When I say "they" it's a "royal they". I'm fully including myself in the attractive club. Boom

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ?

I think it's chicken & egg. Maybe they take care of themselves to stay looking good ...or... maybe they look good because they take care of themselves.

"

I agree with this. I also think that Making an effort to look your best, makes a person feel more attractive. So in that regard, there are a lot of attractive people out there. It's about tapping into that confidence within yourself and running with it .

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

Without a doubt

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By *igeiaWoman  over a year ago

Bristol


"Dunno about that! I know some very attractive people that have no idea how gorgeous they are!"

This. Most of the people I consider gorgeous in real life seem to be oblivious to that fact and don't do a lot to maintain that gorgeousness.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Totally agree with you I have known attractive people and groomed well but are the mist boring people no personality at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

IMO

people set goals and work out because they want to change something they are maybe not happy with, every one has hang ups.

I would say people work out have beauty regimes and dress nice because they want to look good / feel sexy for them selves.

Personally i love getting dressed up dapper in nice trousers waist coats etc because it makes me feel good about myself and gives me confidence.

I agree with some of the posts here that a person can be drop dead stunning but looks aren’t everything, there has to be a wicked personality to draw you in and keep you interested who wants a pretty picture that doesn’t have a story to tell

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By *ccasionalfunCouple  over a year ago

hereandthere


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman."

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

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By *ccasionalfunCouple  over a year ago

hereandthere

I go the gym etc but not to look like I go the gym but to perform better at my chosen sport.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy. "

You do know those ones are very easy to spot and some men actually do fancy some of us fat birds right? Some very attractive men too!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy. "

You just proved my point!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

You do know those ones are very easy to spot and some men actually do fancy some of us fat birds right? Some very attractive men too!"

One of those pretentious super sexy fab couples for ya!

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes."

And then be berated for telling the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm gonna say no

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By *ccasionalfunCouple  over a year ago

hereandthere


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

You do know those ones are very easy to spot and some men actually do fancy some of us fat birds right? Some very attractive men too!

One of those pretentious super sexy fab couples for ya!

"

We are far from pretentious.we are just a normal couple

I'm just stating that a lot of men are trying to appeal to the masses to get meets.

You see posts a lot where there say what people want to hear

The cam rooms are really full of it,even more than the forum

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it all starts from within, if you feel confident and comfortable with yourself it'll come naturally. "

Absolutely!! I always look for personality and engagement before looks. And I've found that hot sex comes in all shapes and sizes ... which I think is rather good don't you?

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple  over a year ago

Leeds


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy. "

100% incorrect.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Wow, there are some pent up really angry people of this thread alone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No. You notice them more, because you find them attractive.

You won't notice an attractive person who hasn't made an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes.

But that's not the whole story

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know plenty of ugly people who spend fortunes on cosmetics, clothing, nails, hair, waxing and beauty treatments.

I'm much more attractive than them and I don't see the point in wasting my money on frivolous things.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

100% incorrect."

. Some people do like a larger size. It's what they are attracted to. Isn't it wonderful that so many have different views on what is attractive? Variety is the spice of life

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By *loswingersCouple  over a year ago

Gloucester

I think anyone who makes an effort will be noticed far more than anyone who can’t be bothered .

Anyone who thinks they are attractive will make an effort with their hair, make up , clothing etc.... and that’s to be admired

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

Personally I am not sure - some do for sure - perhaps they see it as something that they need to preserve for as long as possible..if you are used to being considered attractive I guess it is not nice to gradually stop having the effect that this has on others.

This said, I also believe that there are lots of very attractive people who simply let themselves go. I am sure we have all bumped into people after a long passage of time, who are a far cry from the attractive people they once were.

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple  over a year ago

Kings Hill

Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple  over a year ago

Kings Hill


"Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me "

*Estee Lauder

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By *olarfoxMan  over a year ago

North Cambs


"Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me "

That sounds like a very 'sound' philosophy

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By *ig rig hullMan  over a year ago

Hull


"Yes. Must be easier with a better ‘canvas’ to start from.

There’s one girl on here who is SO hot I could spit feathers. Lol"

Goodnight girl I could say the same about you haha

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By *gnitemybodyWoman  over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

I don’t think that is true at all many many men on here favour the larger women "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

You do know those ones are very easy to spot and some men actually do fancy some of us fat birds right? Some very attractive men too!"

Quite agree! I’m not a gym fit women I have jiggly bits I’d rathet didn’t jiggle for quite as long as they do when slapped....however I am it short of very fit muscular guys wanting a meet. Not that this is all I’m looking for, but I do seem to attract them.

I am a confident women and I believe that comes across and is what makes me attractive more so than me not being a size 10

MrsK

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By *ollyGWoman  over a year ago

Southampton

I think I have a nice body, wrinkled face tho, certainly not up myself!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

I think it's easier for them to make the most of their looks with minimal effort. The rest of us take much longer to look nowhere near as good. I probably use the same effort as someone who's attractive... just doesn't notice!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Definitely. My appearance goes in cycles. If I start to notice problems they tend to get worse before they get better. Till eventually I decide to go full scorched earth and take extreme measures.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"Do you think people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves ie .. make up , hair , gym ? "

No idea. I take care of myself because I value myself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I go the gym etc but not to look like I go the gym but to perform better at my chosen sport. "

What sport?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

100% incorrect."

It's partly true. Some men would fuck anything no matter the size, shape or dangly bits. Some men prefer larger women. Some men prefer slimmer women.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I go to the gym alot and eat so much better food than I did as I was over weight by quite abit and needed to lose weight for my health and now have a fairy good body which has given me a lot more confidence but it’s not gonna change the way I look etc but I don’t do it to impress anyone just feel so much better for being fit.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

I don’t think that is true at all many many men on here favour the larger women "

Definitely not true I have plenty of meets and I don’t ‘know’ I’m attractive, in other words I’m not slim and ‘fit’ which I presume is what the op was referring to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy. "

So in your opinion no man in their right mind would be attracted to a larger woman? What did someone say about (allegedly) good looking on the outside?????

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You can’t polish a turd but you can roll it in glitter!

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By *oodnitegirlWoman  over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people

Really?!

Have you not seen the squillion BBW threads on here, lots of love for the bigger woman.

You realise that men say that to appeal to the mass market?

They are doing it because they think large women Will be easy.

100% incorrect.

It's partly true. Some men would fuck anything no matter the size, shape or dangly bits. Some men prefer larger women. Some men prefer slimmer women."

l

‘Dangly bits’?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I wouldn't say that people who know they are attractive take better care of themselves.

I'd say it's more that some people are attractive because they take care of themselves! They do stuff like exercise, eat healthy, wear make-up, take care if their skin etc and through doing that they appear more attractive to everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not confidently pretty but I look after myself, always dressed nicely, jewellery/hair/make up always on point. I'm pretty confident and bolshy which I guess helps as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

hmmmm tbh I'd call myself average though I have a very attractive personality and I'm pretty confident which some guys find appealing

I do look after what my mamma gave me though

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By *eviantdeliteWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I think it all starts from within, if you feel confident and comfortable with yourself it'll come naturally. "

Indeed x

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By *eviantdeliteWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I know plenty of ugly people who spend fortunes on cosmetics, clothing, nails, hair, waxing and beauty treatments.

I'm much more attractive than them and I don't see the point in wasting my money on frivolous things. "

Woah.....not judgemental....much....

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By *eviantdeliteWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me

That sounds like a very 'sound' philosophy "

Exactly ....apart from I would choose a different perfume

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman  over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton


"Yes. But I think that's it's having the confidence to rock it that makes it actually attractive in real life..

Difference between being confident and being a stuck up pretentious ass!

Many may have a beautiful body or face but that’s about all they have going for them!

Equally, many who don't have the look will instead have big chips on their shoulders and will vent the resentment through ugly attitudes.

No chips here!

Just pointing out that fabswingers is a place for only super sexy and slim (size 6-10 any bigger and you’re not worthy of a meet from anyone apparently) and gym fit people"

not true at all! I’ve never had a problem no matter what size, that said I won’t be for everyone but then neither will slim ladies x

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By *igJandTheBlondeCouple  over a year ago

Kings Hill


"Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me

That sounds like a very 'sound' philosophy

Exactly ....apart from I would choose a different perfume "

Estée Lauder is my foundation, I don’t smell of her

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By *eviantdeliteWoman  over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Everything I do, I do for me.

I wear the clothes I feel nice in.

I have my hair done how I like it.

I go to the gym because I enjoy it.

I buy Ester Lauder because I need it

I don’t care who does and doesn’t find me attractive, I like being me

That sounds like a very 'sound' philosophy

Exactly ....apart from I would choose a different perfume

Estée Lauder is my foundation, I don’t smell of her "

Oops ....my bad x

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple  over a year ago

Chester

Well groomed makes a person more attractive end of, so there is no excuse as everyone is capable of being the best version of themselves!

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Well groomed makes a person more attractive end of, so there is no excuse as everyone is capable of being the best version of themselves!"

I think that barring incapacity for any reason that this is true.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I used to be more confident about my appearance/looks until i joined this site

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different!

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By *elshsunsWoman  over a year ago

Flintshire

At 58 yrs of age I’m just doing it for me trying to be as healthy for as long as possible so I can carry on swinging

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By *ungmagic10Man  over a year ago

Northampton

Maybe but people just like looking good in general. When you look good you feel good right ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different! "

I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different!

I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. "

I often wear mascara as I have blond eyelashes, but never foundation, it makes my skin look horrible! And people only think that if ya don't wear it you look ill because they are too used to seeing you wear it and forgotten what colour your skin actually is. Too many people caked in crap, and what is the deal with looking metallic these days? That is not dewy, it's horrific! I have never had anyone tell me I look ill because people have never seen me with foundation on.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different!

I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. "

wouldn’t necessarily agree here there’s nothing wrong with a natural pretty face and some women have great natural complexions

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Humans are attracted to outward signs of health, regardless of if that person is in fact healthy/healthier than the average person.

It's just built in to us, hence why gym bods are generally more appealing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't understand why wearing make up is classed as looking after yourself! Especially with the ridiculous fashions there are at the moment. I do wear make up, although rarely, when I feel like looking a certain way, not because it makes me look better, just different!

I disagree women that don’t wear make up usually look ill or washed out .. foundation makes your skin look dewy and mascara make your eyes look so much prettier .. "

*some women

I generally don't wear foundation but do wear blush and highlighter /bronzer.

I know what you mean about looking different not wearing any make up though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Humans are attracted to outward signs of health, regardless of if that person is in fact healthy/healthier than the average person.

It's just built in to us, hence why gym bods are generally more appealing"

Or wealth... Donald Trump?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Humans are attracted to outward signs of health, regardless of if that person is in fact healthy/healthier than the average person.

It's just built in to us, hence why gym bods are generally more appealing

Or wealth... Donald Trump?"

Wealth generally equals better living conditions, better quality food, less stress etc. All of which contribute to a healthier lifestyle (dependant on the individual)

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