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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it seems to be ok for a lady to be bi but there is still a stigma attached to bi men. I think maybe due to ill perceived idea that they're somehow riddled with disease! "
This, or it could be because the man in the couple may be worried the bi man may sexually attack him any moment and infect him with their inherit gayness   |
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"Because it seems to be ok for a lady to be bi but there is still a stigma attached to bi men. I think maybe due to ill perceived idea that they're somehow riddled with disease!
This, or it could be because the man in the couple may be worried the bi man may sexually attack him any moment and infect him with their inherit gayness "
 That always gets me.. If they guy in a couple is straight, you play straight. I find it weird they think you're somehow going to jump on them! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think "so many" is a bit of an exaggeration to be honest - sure there are some single ladies and couples here who won't meet bi males for a variety of reasons (that ultimately come down to a personal preference that isn't worth worrying about) but there are plenty who actively seek bi guys, or aren't bothered either way.
Rather than letting the preferences of a few bother me, I prefer to focus on those that either don't have a preference either way or who look for bi guys  |
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Meeting bi guys isn't a problem for us. Neither of us are phased by the guys sexuality, in fact, our problem is that we're looking for a needle in a bi haystack. Both of us are straight but we're looking for a bi, or at least curious, black guy (her preference is for single black guys when we meet guys and I do everything to support that preference) to try some very specific desires. The worst thing is that there is so much homophobia out there so that if you want to try something where swords cross, guys get all so precious about it. This is why we want a bi guy, at least we can be sure he won't get all freaky about the stuff we'd like to try. |
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By *ilberryMan
over a year ago
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"Meeting bi guys isn't a problem for us. Neither of us are phased by the guys sexuality, in fact, our problem is that we're looking for a needle in a bi haystack. Both of us are straight but we're looking for a bi, or at least curious, black guy (her preference is for single black guys when we meet guys and I do everything to support that preference) to try some very specific desires. The worst thing is that there is so much homophobia out there so that if you want to try something where swords cross, guys get all so precious about it. This is why we want a bi guy, at least we can be sure he won't get all freaky about the stuff we'd like to try. "
This is something I don't understand? Straight guys wanting to be able to DP,DVP how much closer can two guys get?  But to play with a bi guy is a big no?Or is it the worry of having their back door smashed?  |
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