Yes I am I know what I like and can't just make do .got too feel attraction and connection and if neither there it won't be any good .so why bother ."

Completely with you on this. Rather be celibate for the rest of my life than have sex with someone I don't find attractive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two weeks

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By *ribsaMan over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

"What’s the longest you have went without sex? As you can see from my profile I am married and the last time I had sex was May 2017

, hence why I joined the site"

I feel your pain. I too am married and cannot remember when I last had sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 months..... but my wife at the time had depression..... i never strayed though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What with a body like you have amazing tits gone with out sex for six years

Perhaps she's choosy?

Yes I am I know what I like and can't just make do .got too feel attraction and connection and if neither there it won't be any good .so why bother .

Completely with you on this. Rather be celibate for the rest of my life than have sex with someone I don't find attractive "

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By *uminsiderMKMan over a year ago

St Austell

Longest was just over two years, a few years ago - and not for want of trying here and elsewhere!...

....currently, 11 months, 12 days - not that I'm counting as such, just know from the date of the verification on another site!

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

About 5 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 months

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By *lastic.Mask.ManMan over a year ago

Grimsby

7 months and counting.

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By *himp_KittenCouple over a year ago

Preston

A week and a half... only because we're both exhausted from work. It won't make two weeks though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 25 years ... then my patience ran out.

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

I’ve gone almost two years wothout it before, coming out of a relationship that messed my head up a bit in my mid twenties. Since then, I don’t think I've been a week without sex!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 months, from 19 to 21

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

18 months without sex. World fell apart, began anti-depressants (not ashamed), sex drive completely disappeared.

Getting my life back together now

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

19 months without I think

Since moving to north east most sexless I've been

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ex husband was military so quite often six month + periods

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sex.... I don't remember, but to be honest with you I'm OK, probably don't need sex (penetrations) anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With my ex months. Mostly cos I slept on the couch

With Mr now he works away so can be a week without but don't think I've ever went a day without it when he's here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmmm about..... a week...... longest.... week.... of my fucking life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"5years....and still counting

5 years and counting.... I think ill let you fuck me its that bad lol

Mines 16 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmmm about..... a week...... longest.... week.... of my fucking life"

A week.... Here come the violins lol

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By *egin551Couple over a year ago

south west !

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By *egin551Couple over a year ago

south west !

With my wife I’m glad of the break !!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

4 years.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A long long time, then I had my first as a late teen, after that, never very long.

As for thinking about sex, maybe 5 seconds ago and 5 seconds ago before that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

3 months about 3 years ago ish

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By *w214Couple over a year ago

Wirral

"Currently pushing 12 hours here. "

Not all heroes wear capes.

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Currently too long ago,

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By *entileschiWoman over a year ago

Norwich

Four year in my mid twenties. Man have I made up for it since!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do the first 18 years of my life count?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 months, which is my current drought

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The last time was April 2016 with my ex gf, I’m still hoping my next time will be with my ex gf and she’ll stop being my ex. Very sad I know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Coming upto 5 months. I'm dying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Full sex with my wife about a year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably about 1 year. Man that was a crappy relationship. On the upside, it drove me to Jon Fab when I became a single man again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

4 years the last 4 years of my marriage I didn’t cheat though I had offers CIA I’m very anti cheating

These days though drives me mad going without

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Around ten years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

7 years but making up for it now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

9 months

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 3 weeks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 3 years after the worst time of my life was only interested in drinking as an escape

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What’s the longest you have went without sex? As you can see from my profile I am married and the last time I had sex was May 2017

, hence why I joined the site"

No judgements whatsoever but I don't understand why someone so young would stay in a sexless relationship?

Surely it would be easier and kinder to go your separate ways and both be in relationships with people you cant keep your hands off ?

Again no judgement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A few months probably, maybe longer. I’m not fussed if I’m not getting any.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for me 20 years

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

13 years. Had a bad relationship and swore off men for years after that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Around ten years"

How come?

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By *irsttimecouple2018Couple over a year ago

South Ayrshire

"Ex husband was military so quite often six month + periods"

Was he on one of those sleek grey messengers of death?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since being married 7 month following him having an accident

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By *rthur WrightusMan over a year ago

Round the Bend

About 18 months in the late stages of my marriage. Although the subsequent divorce was tough and messy I have never been without for more than a few weeks since.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Around ten years

How come?"

Was in a relationship for seventeen years. Last ten he kept turning me away no matter what I tried. That's life I guess

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just over a year I think

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Both of us about 6months when jools was pregnant/ had baby.

Other than that we have been at it like rabbits 5/6 day's a week for 32years.

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By *ovetobiteMan over a year ago

Antalya Turkey

Were You in prison ??? For 6 year ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 6/7 months.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

27 years. Technically, I had a cock in me for about 10 minutes, occasionally, but it's only vaguely resembled sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"27 years. Technically, I had a cock in me for about 10 minutes, occasionally, but it's only vaguely resembled sex. "

why so long hun , or you joking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

17 years

From birth to 17

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Two weeks tomorrow and I’m already having withdrawals and hallucinating people as giant walking penises

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Just over 10yrs.... I'm making up for lost time now.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Two weeks tomorrow and I’m already having withdrawals and hallucinating people as giant walking penises "

Can you buy those from Lovehoney ?

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

Two years for me. Long story!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

8 years for me

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By *xciter7169Man over a year ago

The Midlands

"What with a body like you have amazing tits gone with out sex for six years

Perhaps she's choosy?

Yes I am I know what I like and can't just make do .got too feel attraction and connection and if neither there it won't be any good .so why bother .

Completely with you on this. Rather be celibate for the rest of my life than have sex with someone I don't find attractive "
Me too,its awful,just going through the motions because it was too embarrassing to say 'I don't want to be with you',never again,you live and learn,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Feeling blessed it was only 12m after reading this thread...

12m in marriage though. Never that long outside marriage, I'm a filthy slut with loose morals you see

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 years and still going

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By *xciter7169Man over a year ago

The Midlands

About 15years for me,could be longer,cant remember

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

About 3 weeks I think

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