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Profiles demanding high standards, standard of verificationsbsays otherwise
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Often read profiles demanding the highest standards and attractiveness and age restrictions from meets then you look at verifications and see they are not so choosy.  |
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"I prefer it if people hide the verifications I gave them. They'd never get sex again if they openly admitted to meeting me."
I know you don’t like verifications so why do them in the first place if you don’t mind me asking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Often read profiles demanding the highest standards and attractiveness and age restrictions from meets then you look at verifications and see they are not so choosy. "
They can still have preferences
I'm quite partial to a chocolate digestive,but given the choice id much prefer a slice of chocolate cake.
Preferences. |
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"I prefer it if people hide the verifications I gave them. They'd never get sex again if they openly admitted to meeting me.
I know you don’t like verifications so why do them in the first place if you don’t mind me asking?"
Good question! I should stop.
I feel guilted into it if they leave me one. I like them as a person and think they'd be offended if I don't leave one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Often read profiles demanding the highest standards and attractiveness and age restrictions from meets then you look at verifications and see they are not so choosy. "
How very dare they??? Bastards!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best advice I can give is close your eyes hold your breath jump in and be nice. Then move on cross your fingers and if you don’t have anything come back - keep on moveing
Peoples wants can change like the wind depending on whats happened that day |
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You must really micro-analyse to have come to that conclusion! Sure, I read people's veris but I don't then cross reference them to check whether or not they meet the parameters originally laid out in their profile 
At the end of the day, anyone can meet who they want. Many people set age restrictions for example as one way of minimising messages or helping with searches but might be flexible on that if they met someone older/younger at a social or a club and hit it off with them in person. |
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"I prefer it if people hide the verifications I gave them. They'd never get sex again if they openly admitted to meeting me.
I know you don’t like verifications so why do them in the first place if you don’t mind me asking?
Good question! I should stop.
I feel guilted into it if they leave me one. I like them as a person and think they'd be offended if I don't leave one."
Yeah I can understand that,I met someone once who didn't do verifications even though I left him a three word one  . I did know before hand he didn't do them and left it as a joke,he never displayed it.
I think the fucker was attached looking back anyway. May his penis be ripped off and end up on a dogs plate... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer it if people hide the verifications I gave them. They'd never get sex again if they openly admitted to meeting me.
I know you don’t like verifications so why do them in the first place if you don’t mind me asking?
Good question! I should stop.
I feel guilted into it if they leave me one. I like them as a person and think they'd be offended if I don't leave one.
Yeah I can understand that,I met someone once who didn't do verifications even though I left him a three word one . I did know before hand he didn't do them and left it as a joke,he never displayed it.
I think the fucker was attached looking back anyway. May his penis be ripped off and end up on a dogs plate..."
Were the 3 words "I love you"? |
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"I prefer it if people hide the verifications I gave them. They'd never get sex again if they openly admitted to meeting me.
I know you don’t like verifications so why do them in the first place if you don’t mind me asking?
Good question! I should stop.
I feel guilted into it if they leave me one. I like them as a person and think they'd be offended if I don't leave one.
Yeah I can understand that,I met someone once who didn't do verifications even though I left him a three word one . I did know before hand he didn't do them and left it as a joke,he never displayed it.
I think the fucker was attached looking back anyway. May his penis be ripped off and end up on a dogs plate...
Were the 3 words "I love you"? "
Well I did meet him on a dating site and he did rather well in the oral department so I did a little |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You must really micro-analyse to have come to that conclusion! Sure, I read people's veris but I don't then cross reference them to check whether or not they meet the parameters originally laid out in their profile
At the end of the day, anyone can meet who they want. Many people set age restrictions for example as one way of minimising messages or helping with searches but might be flexible on that if they met someone older/younger at a social or a club and hit it off with them in person."
Always good to do a bit of research and a risk assessment to reduce the likely hood of getting an STI or murdered.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think people who complain about how other people conduct themselves on here particularly when their preferences clearly exclude them on come across as so awfully bitter that it's a natural filter for us... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think some people on here are after standards a lot higher than their own. It’s not bad thing, but hypocrisy can be a dirty word....."
I know they are usually standing in unmatching underwear and next to a pile of dirty washing on their pics
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who cares. I tend not to judge others on veris or anything really. If I don't like a profile for whatever reason, I'll just move on. They can do their thing and I'll do mine, it doesn't affect me or anyone else how others use fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some people on here are after standards a lot higher than their own. It’s not bad thing, but hypocrisy can be a dirty word.....I know they are usually standing in unmatching underwear and next to a pile of dirty washing on their pics"
More along the lines of expecting to drive an Aston Martin when you own a Nissan Sunny. |
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