we would not class ourselves as harden swingers , we love clubs, parties and social side of swinging. just wondered what being "a swinger " ment to everyone .
what is a swinger?
can a single person be classed as a swinger ? |
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Swinging is an old fashioned term from the 60,s. Today it means different stuff to different people. As for singles, there's singles who just want a sexual partner or a few and other who want to play with multiple partners ...or swing XXX |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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To me swinging is the lifestyle. I am single, but attend club's where I talk to others about swinging and play with gents that I find I have a connection with.
If I wanted to just shag men, I could pick them up in pubs. But I find that swinging gents are more open about sex and don't have hangups about the idea of a lady who does not want to be in a faithful relationship. |
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"we would not class ourselves as harden swingers , we love clubs, parties and social side of swinging. just wondered what being "a swinger " ment to everyone .
what is a swinger?
can a single person be classed as a swinger ?"
On here then the answer will be yes, in swinger circles the answer would be no
Look up the Oxford dictionary definition, there is no mention of single anything.
It’s just another example of today’s obsession with giving things labels. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we would not class ourselves as harden swingers , we love clubs, parties and social side of swinging. just wondered what being "a swinger " ment to everyone .
what is a swinger?
can a single person be classed as a swinger ?
On here then the answer will be yes, in swinger circles the answer would be no
Look up the Oxford dictionary definition, there is no mention of single anything.
It’s just another example of today’s obsession with giving things labels."
eg like you look hot in anything leather so you're the "leather queen "or your hubby likes to watch you get laid "im a layer " or we only want a mythical creature where's " the unicorn "  |
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By *rMisterMan
over a year ago
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"we would not class ourselves as harden swingers , we love clubs, parties and social side of swinging. just wondered what being "a swinger " ment to everyone .
what is a swinger?
can a single person be classed as a swinger ?"
For me swinging is a lifestyle. It about meeting people and have fun sexual or otherwise. Sex is definitely part of it, but there is lot more. I class somebody as serious swinger when
- they know what they want and just go for it
-they don't get jalous possessive or take things too personally
-because they are in for the fun, the do everything to make it fun for everyone involved with them
-they are fully aware of the effects they have, or will have on others
If are a single and you joint the scene just because you are horny and can't get laid otherwise, then you are not a swinger.
If you are single and you know you can easily pull on a night out but you like Sex with multiple partners and you don't want to settle in a vanilla relationship because this may hurt the other then you are a swinger
If you are couple and despite having a very active Sex life, you still get your kick by seeing others play with your partner, then you are a swinger.
If you are in a couple and you like to play with others, and you know your partner doesn't necessarily agree but is just going along in order to keep you, then you are just a cheat and a bully, definitely not a swinger.
As above and if are in a couple and your partner is not aware of you meeting others, then you are a twat and should be flogged
The above just MY personal opinion
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"To me swinging is the lifestyle. I am single, but attend club's where I talk to others about swinging and play with gents that I find I have a connection with.
If I wanted to just shag men, I could pick them up in pubs. But I find that swinging gents are more open about sex and don't have hangups about the idea of a lady who does not want to be in a faithful relationship. "
It is indeed a lifestyle |
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Well in terms of that then i'm swingle lol. Very new to this but open minded im actually looking for my first couple who could introduce me gently to it to be hones, but for now ive generally only met one on one so don't know if that would class as swinging lol |
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