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DO you like lurid description of your sexual encounter your verifications?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me I won't divulge my sexual encounter in public.have read a lot of verifications with comprehensive details of sexual encounter. it sound distasteful.what happen in Vegas stay in Vegas."
Now way do I want my antics displayed, I am not a performing seal. What I do for one person I may never do for the next one. |
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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago
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As much as I don't mind them I don't think they help.
Guys seem to really struggle to read profiles, they tend to look at photos first and get a hard on which kills off a lot of brain power. If they then go and read the verifications before the profile text and come across some graphic ones then there's no brain power left to read anything else and all they can do is message "fancy a fuck"   |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I prefer veris that are amusing or hint at what may have happened without divulging details - graphic all out ones that go into chapter and verse and draw on Fab clichés such as "sucked like a Dyson" tend to put me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To me I won't divulge my sexual encounter in public.have read a lot of verifications with comprehensive details of sexual encounter. it sound distasteful.what happen in Vegas stay in Vegas."
if she's hot ,you know the type that every man on the site wants to get on page one of most fabbed pics and when you're in the other thread you never say avoid to because she's so hot she's off the scale of hot and she always gets named in the who's got the biggest breasts the nicest arse and the hotlist threads ,you know that hot ,then yes lucid unadulterated detail ,tantalising every taste bud of every green eyed monster on the site ,detailing every downward movement  |
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"I prefer veris that are amusing or hint at what may have happened without divulging details - graphic all out ones that go into chapter and verse and draw on Fab clichés such as "sucked like a Dyson" tend to put me off "
I totally agree. The thing is if I am not happy with the verification we dont display it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
Veris are cringey.
I'm not showing people mine so they can judge me and the person/ people I've met 
I like to remember a few details especially if it was fabulous - but just for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
Veris are cringey.
I'm not showing people mine so they can judge me and the person/ people I've met
I like to remember a few details especially if it was fabulous - but just for me."
judge you ......people judge you here,well I never  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
Veris are cringey.
I'm not showing people mine so they can judge me and the person/ people I've met
I like to remember a few details especially if it was fabulous - but just for me."
I'd rather show mine to deter the judgey people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I specifically request people to keep veris clean if they decide to leave one. It’s nobody else’s business how I specifically did what, I think veris should be about the overall experience as well as the person you’re writing the verification about...? |
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personally I don't like the verifications , I can see why they are there but I find most of them false and a waste of time . does anyone ever give a bad one, if they got one it would not be published . no one ever says sex was crap they stunk of b.o
her fanny smelt he tasted of cheese they smelled of cigarettes..would rather something else that was more honest and can't be removed from profile. |
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"To me I won't divulge my sexual encounter in public.have read a lot of verifications with comprehensive details of sexual encounter. it sound distasteful.what happen in Vegas stay in Vegas."
Well we have been to Vegas over 20 times on business. And we can safely say that most of the time, absolutely nothing worth reporting happens in Vegas. Stick to Birmingham, it's much much naughtier!
But back onto the subject - I must say verifs where there is at least a hint of what went on, I find rather nice.
Janet xxxxxx |
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Maybe we could leave a rating like eBay. Various categories:- timeliness, cleanliness, performance, likeness to photos. Judged 5 stars to 1 star and your overall score is displayed.
Membership suspended if you fall below standards and over 95% and the single guys can get 'trusted member' status! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont believe some verifications as it's someone's else's opinion .We all have different opinions.
However you get incline how the person is by reading them and status updates.i hate reading moaning status updates .If not happy leave it's simple .
Don't like reading veries that are detailed .someone it best too leave a bit too the imagination. |
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"personally I don't like the verifications , I can see why they are there but I find most of them false and a waste of time . does anyone ever give a bad one, if they got one it would not be published . no one ever says sex was crap they stunk of b.o
her fanny smelt he tasted of cheese they smelled of cigarettes..would rather something else that was more honest and can't be removed from profile."
That's where your intuition comes into play though... If I'm reading someone's verifications I'm looking for what's not said as much as what is said... Especially if a veri is one or two lines long and reads like the author struggled to find something nice to say!
I read a 3 word veri on a profile this morning... Just 3 words!! Out of curiosity I had to check to see who else the author had verified and if their verifications were similarly terse... They weren't  |
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"personally I don't like the verifications , I can see why they are there but I find most of them false and a waste of time . does anyone ever give a bad one, if they got one it would not be published . no one ever says sex was crap they stunk of b.o
her fanny smelt he tasted of cheese they smelled of cigarettes..would rather something else that was more honest and can't be removed from profile.
That's where your intuition comes into play though... If I'm reading someone's verifications I'm looking for what's not said as much as what is said... Especially if a veri is one or two lines long and reads like the author struggled to find something nice to say!
I read a 3 word veri on a profile this morning... Just 3 words!! Out of curiosity I had to check to see who else the author had verified and if their verifications were similarly terse... They weren't "
...that's a good idea have ever thought about that I just tend not to veri |
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"Maybe we could leave a rating like eBay. Various categories:- timeliness, cleanliness, performance, likeness to photos. Judged 5 stars to 1 star and your overall score is displayed.
Membership suspended if you fall below standards and over 95% and the single guys can get 'trusted member' status!"
i like that idea would have to be anonymous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't display it if someone did.
The details are only for us & do not need to be shared with everyone that cares to look at my profile!
Also wouldn't want there to be expectations of it being the same with someone else, that all depends on the person.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It often seems to me to be an opportunity for a guy to write his own advert regarding how good he believes he is.
"I had her Gushing like a waterfall..."
Oh dear.
As with everything in life, teasing tension and imagination is the key. |
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"To me I won't divulge my sexual encounter in public.have read a lot of verifications with comprehensive details of sexual encounter. it sound distasteful.what happen in Vegas stay in Vegas.
Well we have been to Vegas over 20 times on business. And we can safely say that most of the time, absolutely nothing worth reporting happens in Vegas. Stick to Birmingham, it's much much naughtier!
But back onto the subject - I must say verifs where there is at least a hint of what went on, I find rather nice.
Janet xxxxxx"
I like that.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It often seems to me to be an opportunity for a guy to write his own advert regarding how good he believes he is.
"I had her Gushing like a waterfall..."
Oh dear.
As with everything in life, teasing tension and imagination is the key. "
I love those.
I pounded her for 12 hours with my massive 12" cock and gave her 345 orgasms in the back of my gold Porsche.  |
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"It often seems to me to be an opportunity for a guy to write his own advert regarding how good he believes he is.
"I had her Gushing like a waterfall..."
Oh dear.
As with everything in life, teasing tension and imagination is the key.
I love those.
I pounded her for 12 hours with my massive 12" cock and gave her 345 orgasms in the back of my gold Porsche. "
.... And all the while the recipient is scratching her head and wondering if they were even on the same meet.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It often seems to me to be an opportunity for a guy to write his own advert regarding how good he believes he is.
"I had her Gushing like a waterfall..."
Oh dear.
As with everything in life, teasing tension and imagination is the key.
I love those.
I pounded her for 12 hours with my massive 12" cock and gave her 345 orgasms in the back of my gold Porsche.
.... And all the while the recipient is scratching her head and wondering if they were even on the same meet...."
30 seconds in the back of his Metro. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It often seems to me to be an opportunity for a guy to write his own advert regarding how good he believes he is.
"I had her Gushing like a waterfall..."
Oh dear.
As with everything in life, teasing tension and imagination is the key.
I love those.
I pounded her for 12 hours with my massive 12" cock and gave her 345 orgasms in the back of my gold Porsche.
.... And all the while the recipient is scratching her head and wondering if they were even on the same meet....
30 seconds in the back of his Metro."
Less is more... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Veris to us are just a thank you note to and from people, we don’t read into other veris much, just frequency etc
Plenty of people out there are judgmental about veris and say they should be this or that, too little, too many, too graphic etc etc just use veris how you want to x |
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"Oops. correction
DO you like lurid description of your sexual encounter on your verifications?"
No, the tab you click is; ‘Verify Genuine’, not; “Give us a minute-by-minute account of how your shag went” |
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Verifying someone with respect and dignity will be appreciated by majority.
Detailing graphic sexual encounter is debasing and disrespectful in my eye.
Yes few individual and exhibitionist do endorsed such feedback on their profile. JUST my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"personally I don't like the verifications , I can see why they are there but I find most of them false and a waste of time . does anyone ever give a bad one, if they got one it would not be published . no one ever says sex was crap they stunk of b.o
her fanny smelt he tasted of cheese they smelled of cigarettes..would rather something else that was more honest and can't be removed from profile.
That's where your intuition comes into play though... If I'm reading someone's verifications I'm looking for what's not said as much as what is said... Especially if a veri is one or two lines long and reads like the author struggled to find something nice to say!
I read a 3 word veri on a profile this morning... Just 3 words!! Out of curiosity I had to check to see who else the author had verified and if their verifications were similarly terse... They weren't "
Ahhh I get you you're reading something into a veri that's not there in other words you're making it up as you go along lol veris for a woman mean the guy or couple is a safe meet but as everyone has such a totally different view of a person that's all they mean ,reading a veri for me or a guy means very little its just a notch so the fewer notches the better and no in depth detail thank you its not fantasy island |
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Not for me. I prefer to keep the details private and I never display a sorid verification.
I'm not into lots of random one offs so my regular partners know me and treat with with respect....but we still have a lot of fun x.
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