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Are we too old now?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please. |
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
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In my opinion no one is too old. I've seen couples at clubs much older than you.
I think the club scene works better than the online scene now, which has changed over the years...
The club scene doesn't have filters in the way. You chat to who you like the look and/or sound of. Then you decide to play or not.
Rarely does anyone ask someones age at a club, it's just doesn't seem relevant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We know a couple, M71 F65 and they are packing the scene in this year.
They had a couple of bad experiences recently, and so decided to hang up their Spurs and move to more sedate hobbies.
It's a shame because it was they who introduced us to swinging a few years back, and they belong to a little group of 'friends' who hold private parties locally.
But as the Female if the couple said. You never feel too old for the lifestyle, it's other people who point that fact out to you.
Maybe she's right, possibly not. |
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Your just youngsters, my fella is a couple of years younger than you. We've been swinging for 50 years between us. We are hardened swingers and will keep going as long as physically able.
You keep going as long as you are happy too. |
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We have been swinging regularly for 12 years together, and we're late 60s now. Neither of us intend to stop, as long as we both get pleasure from swinging - and we do!  - then we will keep going. Group-sex is just too good to give up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are too young for a lot of people, and there are people on here too young for us, all about finding people you're comfortable with, why retire if you still enjoy it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are too young for a lot of people, and there are people on here too young for us, all about finding people you're comfortable with, why retire if you still enjoy it?"
Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
Never too old  |
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Surely old age is the perfect time to swing? What else would you do with retirement? And should one day you end up in a home you would only have to travel down the coridoor for other playmates. Very convenient I would say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stop when you no longer enjoy it not because you might be too old. More opportunities for the young and beautiful though.
"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stop when you no longer enjoy it not because you might be too old. More opportunities for the young and beautiful though.
Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
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"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
We dont think we are too old. We are actually having a better time now than when we were younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only retire because you want to stop, not because what you think others think. IMHO you are not too old, and there will likely always be interested parties."
Not so sure about that last part, not for OP specifically but generally. The scene is far less open than it used to be. Nowadays if you aren't a BBC with cheese grater abs then you are pretty much relegated before you start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
No way are you 'too old'...Sandy looks bloody fantastic... X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sick of it already and only being swinging for few years .I don't think age has anything to do with it .But i do think some peoples needs change .Some of us not into cold sex or liars who don't do what they say in a meet .All adds to why we want too leave .I think people are less polite on here than used to be .Men turn nasty when women say sorry not my type .so changed .I think I have lost interest in meeting men .  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think age has anything to do with it. But i do think some peoples needs change .Some of us not into cold sex or liars who don't do what they say in a meet...I think people are less polite on here than used to be. Men turn nasty when women say sorry not my type."
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"Only retire because you want to stop, not because what you think others think. IMHO you are not too old, and there will likely always be interested parties.
Not so sure about that last part, not for OP specifically but generally. The scene is far less open than it used to be. Nowadays if you aren't a BBC with cheese grater abs then you are pretty much relegated before you start. "
Well I guess it is a two way thing. Just because you like someone doesn't mean they will like you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
Well your pics made my cock twitch so I'd say no, you've still got it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I been a swinger for 10 years but its come to a stop lately. 
Yes, according to you 10 years ago! oh okay i see u making fun of me"
I'm not making fun of you, you have said in previous threads that you haven't had sex since moving back to the UK over 10 years ago.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been swingers on and off for 20 years, I know a lot of swingers say that's hardened swinging, but in all that time we have only fully swung with couples or females about twice a year, so we don't think so, but now thinking we are getting older and there a lot more younger than us, so do we retire? Honest feedback so please."
I'm only 40 and regularly get told I'm too old even from 50yr olds and consistently see statuses asking for youngsters. That should give you some indication what they want here. Creepy but true
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I been a swinger for 10 years but its come to a stop lately.
Yes, according to you 10 years ago! oh okay i see u making fun of me
I'm not making fun of you, you have said in previous threads that you haven't had sex since moving back to the UK over 10 years ago. "
that true but i stop saying since people take it the wrong way here and to be honest its longer than that My swinger experience was 10 years while living in South Africa mainly. |
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You are never too old to enjoy yourselves as long as you are still happy playing, stick with it. It keeps you active and interesting. I will never stop until my breathing does and I am a little older than you two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never to old . To many people on here hung up on age and to many people lie about there age we've seen people say there 45 and it's obvious their neares 55 . Don't get it there's a lot in there 50s in here fitter than people in there 30s and 40s so why does age matter ? We're happy being 50 and will never lie about it if people cut us off it's there loss  . Swing till you drop x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Things have stopped a bit for us too. We generally get rejected at the photo stage now. Over 50 we think you are up against it. "
that not fair you look like a very nice couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m 58 and have only discovered the joys of swinging in the past few months. Wish I’d have explored it years ago but alas, had not met my lovely partner. I certainly don’t feel too old for this lifestyle. I’m mature enough now to know what works for me sexually. Loving this newly found world!  |
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