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I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool. |
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
Faf!!. (only joking sorry ) * runs and hides in a corner * |
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I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere. |
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over a year ago
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
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over a year ago
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I actually think that it is nice to be polite. I always try to reply to messages even if it is a no thanks.
Obviously I don’t get anywhere near the amount of messages that ladies & couples get on here so when I get a polite no thanks from them I appreciate the effort.
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"I actually think that it is nice to be polite. I always try to reply to messages even if it is a no thanks.
Obviously I don’t get anywhere near the amount of messages that ladies & couples get on here so when I get a polite no thanks from them I appreciate the effort.
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I was going to send you a really nice message! It was all there, i was waxing lyrical about growing up in Lee. Sharing a few jokes about Gosport girls lol. You know all that kinda stuff! It would have been ace!  |
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
Being 360 miles away, I couldn't play it any cooler  |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere."
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
you're kidding guys actually think sex is on the cards here .......well I'm blowed .......im not but you know what I mean  |
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions. "
A swinging bar or a normal pub? |
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
Is there any social setting where you would bend over in your denim shorts as you are in one of your pictures and not expect any sort of sexual comment?
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool.
Is there any social setting where you would bend over in your denim shorts as you are in one of your pictures and not expect any sort of sexual comment?
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A sexual comment and expecting sex are two entirely different things.
Besides even if I was dressed up (or down) in a vanilla setting.
I would still expect manners.
Put it another way.
When you are out say in a pub or bar and a woman looks at you,do you automatically assume that she is going to fuck you,then you proceed to pester her.
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Manners cost nothing whether it's on Fab or in real life. There's far too many guys who come on here thinking the sites going to guarantee them a quick fuck and expecting the women on here not to have standards.
It's the age old thing of the idiots ruining it for the rest of us. Can't blame women and couples for being cautious when there's so many prats around.
The way a lot of men act on here is just creepy and desperate.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Manners cost nothing whether it's on Fab or in real life. There's far too many guys who come on here thinking the sites going to guarantee them a quick fuck and expecting the women on here not to have standards.
It's the age old thing of the idiots ruining it for the rest of us. Can't blame women and couples for being cautious when there's so many prats around.
The way a lot of men act on here is just creepy and desperate.
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theres always one white knight who tries this approach lol  |
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"Manners cost nothing whether it's on Fab or in real life. There's far too many guys who come on here thinking the sites going to guarantee them a quick fuck and expecting the women on here not to have standards.
It's the age old thing of the idiots ruining it for the rest of us. Can't blame women and couples for being cautious when there's so many prats around.
The way a lot of men act on here is just creepy and desperate.
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Some women here who are twats themselves, not all innocent.
But I agree fabs generally for a woman like talking to an erect penis. |
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"OP I have one question, and one question only. When are we going to fuck? 
PS - Set in jest, do not take offence.
PPS - I'm not that stupid to use that as my opener. I usually send a cock pic.
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Just a cock pic? No dirty toilet in the background or sky remote, deodorant can or other household object as a "comparison" tool? |
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool.
Is there any social setting where you would bend over in your denim shorts as you are in one of your pictures and not expect any sort of sexual comment?
A sexual comment and expecting sex are two entirely different things.
Besides even if I was dressed up (or down) in a vanilla setting.
I would still expect manners.
Put it another way.
When you are out say in a pub or bar and a woman looks at you,do you automatically assume that she is going to fuck you,then you proceed to pester her.
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When we get messages saying hey I would love to fuck you etc I send back hey thanks but I’m straight, they always reply with I thought this was a couples profile to a swift reply from us that reads...it is Dickhead so address both of us and then block them  |
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"When we get messages saying hey I would love to fuck you etc I send back hey thanks but I’m straight, they always reply with I thought this was a couples profile to a swift reply from us that reads...it is Dickhead so address both of us and then block them "
oh my friendly couple then |
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"When we get messages saying hey I would love to fuck you etc I send back hey thanks but I’m straight, they always reply with I thought this was a couples profile to a swift reply from us that reads...it is Dickhead so address both of us and then block them oh my friendly couple then "
We’re very friendly tbh but as most couples will vouch for it is a bit annoying when guys address 1 person and not both of you and go straight for I want to fuck you so bad line |
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It’s not just the single men that do this couples and single females can be just as bad. There’s a lot of people that just think of this as a get your leg over site. Just have to keep filtering through to find the good ones xx |
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"It’s not just the single men that do this couples and single females can be just as bad. There’s a lot of people that just think of this as a get your leg over site. Just have to keep filtering through to find the good ones xx"
That’s very very true, etiquette has gone out the window, we were in a club and a guy came over o Mrs L2 and told her there was space on the couch next to him and his wife, not once did he look at me or try to engage into any conversation with us as a couple |
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"It’s not just the single men that do this couples and single females can be just as bad. There’s a lot of people that just think of this as a get your leg over site. Just have to keep filtering through to find the good ones xx
That’s very very true, etiquette has gone out the window, we were in a club and a guy came over o Mrs L2 and told her there was space on the couch next to him and his wife, not once did he look at me or try to engage into any conversation with us as a couple"
Thee biggest bug hater of all time. i just don’t get it. Manners and pleasentries cost nothing. Mrs L2 is a beautiful woman and your a lucky guy, I don’t see why people don’t engage both parties it’s a more relaxed and fun atmosphere if all three, four or how ever many all get on and can enjoy |
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"It’s not just the single men that do this couples and single females can be just as bad. There’s a lot of people that just think of this as a get your leg over site. Just have to keep filtering through to find the good ones xx
That’s very very true, etiquette has gone out the window, we were in a club and a guy came over o Mrs L2 and told her there was space on the couch next to him and his wife, not once did he look at me or try to engage into any conversation with us as a couple
Thee biggest bug hater of all time. i just don’t get it. Manners and pleasentries cost nothing. Mrs L2 is a beautiful woman and your a lucky guy, I don’t see why people don’t engage both parties it’s a more relaxed and fun atmosphere if all three, four or how ever many all get on and can enjoy "
Exactly! We love nothing more than group play!
You have the right attitude and will obviously stand out from the rest with it |
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"It’s not just the single men that do this couples and single females can be just as bad. There’s a lot of people that just think of this as a get your leg over site. Just have to keep filtering through to find the good ones xx
That’s very very true, etiquette has gone out the window, we were in a club and a guy came over o Mrs L2 and told her there was space on the couch next to him and his wife, not once did he look at me or try to engage into any conversation with us as a couple
Thee biggest bug hater of all time. i just don’t get it. Manners and pleasentries cost nothing. Mrs L2 is a beautiful woman and your a lucky guy, I don’t see why people don’t engage both parties it’s a more relaxed and fun atmosphere if all three, four or how ever many all get on and can enjoy
Exactly! We love nothing more than group play!
You have the right attitude and will obviously stand out from the rest with it"
i certainly like to think i hold the right attitude. Hope you have many a fantastic time xx |
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By *esjMan
over a year ago
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Men don’t get many replies its mostly delete or just read then left at that when they do then it’s exciting times hahaha
But seriously i always reply with a thank you or happy fabbing to you
There’s no point being rude there will be someone out there that will want to talk to you and not just judge you on your pics
Play it cool guys
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions. "
Mrs F too. A normal bar, if you can call them normal. Swing clubs are more normal than the local night clubs.
To be honest heels and corset is more normal dress for Mrs F. Don't think she'd be comfortable in a long dress
As for single men messaging it states several times on our profile we don't meet single men so why would we message back stating this again if they couldn't be bothered to read it. It's only the second line in and in CAPITALS so not difficult to see. |
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions.
Mrs F too. A normal bar, if you can call them normal. Swing clubs are more normal than the local night clubs.
To be honest heels and corset is more normal dress for Mrs F. Don't think she'd be comfortable in a long dress
As for single men messaging it states several times on our profile we don't meet single men so why would we message back stating this again if they couldn't be bothered to read it. It's only the second line in and in CAPITALS so not difficult to see. "
I agree with you here also. after reading some ones profile, if i come into their not looking for areas then i wouldn’t message them, yeah i’d speak to any one when out at a club or party because i like to be socialble and polite but still read things and respect what people like and dislike xx |
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions.
Mrs F too. A normal bar, if you can call them normal. Swing clubs are more normal than the local night clubs.
To be honest heels and corset is more normal dress for Mrs F. Don't think she'd be comfortable in a long dress
As for single men messaging it states several times on our profile we don't meet single men so why would we message back stating this again if they couldn't be bothered to read it. It's only the second line in and in CAPITALS so not difficult to see. "
Quite a few men appear to read using their cocks, this appears to somewhat limit the words they do and don't see  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions.
Mrs F too. A normal bar, if you can call them normal. Swing clubs are more normal than the local night clubs.
To be honest heels and corset is more normal dress for Mrs F. Don't think she'd be comfortable in a long dress
As for single men messaging it states several times on our profile we don't meet single men so why would we message back stating this again if they couldn't be bothered to read it. It's only the second line in and in CAPITALS so not difficult to see.
I agree with you here also. after reading some ones profile, if i come into their not looking for areas then i wouldn’t message them, yeah i’d speak to any one when out at a club or party because i like to be socialble and polite but still read things and respect what people like and dislike xx "
Same here, we speak to all in clubs, very quickly drop in Mrs F is Bi and we don't look for single guys as we wouldn't want to take up their time if they are looking for a match anyone can stay and be sociable or move on. Always polite and sociable. |
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"I wouldn't say that fab is a social setting that compares to any other though. I don't walk in to a bar in a corset and heels but I happily put pictures of myself in them on here. I expect different responses from fab than elsewhere.
I can walk into a bar in corset and heels and have done so on numerous occasions.
Mrs F too. A normal bar, if you can call them normal. Swing clubs are more normal than the local night clubs.
To be honest heels and corset is more normal dress for Mrs F. Don't think she'd be comfortable in a long dress
As for single men messaging it states several times on our profile we don't meet single men so why would we message back stating this again if they couldn't be bothered to read it. It's only the second line in and in CAPITALS so not difficult to see.
I agree with you here also. after reading some ones profile, if i come into their not looking for areas then i wouldn’t message them, yeah i’d speak to any one when out at a club or party because i like to be socialble and polite but still read things and respect what people like and dislike xx
Same here, we speak to all in clubs, very quickly drop in Mrs F is Bi and we don't look for single guys as we wouldn't want to take up their time if they are looking for a match anyone can stay and be sociable or move on. Always polite and sociable. "
That’s my feelings exactly stay chat socialise or say no thank you etc, |
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"I try to be polite and respectful, reply when possible or just read your message.
But there are a vast amount of guy's who assume this is a green light and a shag is certain.
Is there any social setting that you would jump straight in for "when we going to fuck" if a woman says hello back?
Guy's play it cool."
Like I said on your other thread, I prefer it when they get like this in early messages. It means I definitely won't be meeting them so I don't waste my time chatting. If they get rude or pushy early on, imagine how they'd be in person.
Try and see it as a positive thing. |
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