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ARE YOU APPREHENSIVE ABOUT MEETING PEOPLE WITHOUT VERIS?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just curious to hear your views?
Of course each to there own, but what about chatting or potentially meeting someone without verifications?
Do you totally ignore them and not entertain them one bit?
Any advice for those who are new and haven't had a meet veri yet?
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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Someone has to do it or anyone joining would get nowhere. A lot of people flat out refuse and want others to take the risk for them.
Have met 3 unverified ladies. 2 for socials. 1 err less social . All 3 showed up. I was not verified either for any of those meets. So they all took a risk with me I guess. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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I note it when I’m first deciding whether to answer a mail or not but after that it doesn't have a bearing on my attitude towards them - it’s more about whether we’ve clicked than whether someone else has met them first.
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If they are reasonably local then I will meet someone that's not verified. If they involve a bit of travelling then I will arrange to meet at a club or not at all. I was caught out a few years ago and vowed never to travel again for a first meet |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'd meet someone who wasn't verified - but then I tend to spend some time getting to know people before meeting and through that have a reasonable level of comfort that they're not likely timewasters |
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For us you need to be at least photo verified before we would meet people. Meet verified we are need to look to see who verified you. If it’s a couple who have been verified by a single guy and that’s both there only meet that puts red flags up for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We meet people without verifications, no problem.
By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net "
Not true |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was exchanging messages with someone quite a few months ago, to the point of arranging something and she questioned why I hadn't got any meet veris, at the time. I joked with her that at least if I met her she might verify me.
She didn't like that because she stopped reply to my messages thereafter
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We like to see a green flag verification. It’s a very simple and safe process and we’re always anxious when people refuse to have one. Yes, we may be missing out on some opportunities but hey, we’re in no rush or desperate need to play with anyone/everyone. Basically we would like a green flag first, a quick chat to ascertain any vibe, face pic swap and then a social meet before any play. Call us old fashioned and boring but we’re cautious and picky but by no means pretentious.
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"We meet people without verifications, no problem.
By the way this isn't a criticism but using upper case can be construed as shouting on the net I don't construe it as shouting......just so you know "
It's considered as such in the online community. Certainly i've nosted people resort to it as they get madder |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i did chat to a woman who was green flag verified but still turned out to be a fake?
clearly had nothing better to do that try convince people she was real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i did chat to a woman who was green flag verified but still turned out to be a fake?
clearly had nothing better to do that try convince people she was real. "
Exactly. Verifications can be faked.
I just use my common sense. I don't need a babysitter. |
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I don’t place a great deal of trust in verifications - everyone seems to perform like a porn star if you read them literally! And, as has been pointed out, they can be faked.
Providing there’s photo verification I’m happy to chance it. |
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