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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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Love our Local Club as get to meet so many like minded ppl, who if we dont play with on the night, may meet with on another occasions. Also i love to dance and tease and clubs get me in the mood. Like house partys if we know someone there, just dont like to tun up and not really connect with anyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Club for sure! Wouldn't feel safe going to someone's house unless I knew them and if they turn out to be not quite as advertised at least there might be other people to play with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Club for sure! Wouldn't feel safe going to someone's house unless I knew them and if they turn out to be not quite as advertised at least there might be other people to play with "
Same here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like hotels and house meet its a great privilege to be asked back to someone home ya learn to trust people real quick on here and to be asked back to there home is a big deal to me ... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Club for me why have a hotel meet when you can have so much more fun at a club"
The same could be applied the other way round...why go to a club when you are only wanting more intimate meets with no other people there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a single female I am very wary about others houses (safety and cleanliness) and choose not to host, so mainly clubs for me- but it means I can use all their fabulous facilities as part of my play too- not being a hottub owner!
It also means that I can indulge my voyeuristic/exhibitionist tendancies too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love our Local Club as get to meet so many like minded ppl, who if we dont play with on the night, may meet with on another occasions. Also i love to dance and tease and clubs get me in the mood. Like house partys if we know someone there, just dont like to tun up and not really connect with anyone. "
yep you sure dance around the pole good we could help look at you bum  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefure private meets
Have to say so far ive been lucky
Theres a few women say the like clubs better because of safty etc but i always meet in a public place first and if i like them and they accommodate happy to go back, if not go home, and ive never had any problems so far doing private meets
I like hotel meets too i just prefure private meets be it at a home or hotel
I do like clubs too tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We love private meets at home. We can spend so much time and have all the toycupboard handy to while away an extremely pleasant time. Plus the drinks cupboard is handy too and has all the favourite tipples in...
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Club for me why have a hotel meet when you can have so much more fun at a club
The same could be applied the other way round...why go to a club when you are only wanting more intimate meets with no other people there "
Clubs there are varitey and the choice of private rooms. And feel more comfortable in a club enviornment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and the occasional car/outdoor meet doesn't go amiss either.
Oh!
is that Oh one of surprise??
Little bit.
Dunno why.
Got a tingle though.
Timewaster....  "
and he's got our fifty quid!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like going to a club to meet people. Not sure we like playing in clubs though as we prefer more secluded surroundings. We guess that's why we prefer to meet in homes.
That said,we like to get out there and socialise |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"Love our Local Club as get to meet so many like minded ppl, who if we dont play with on the night, may meet with on another occasions. Also i love to dance and tease and clubs get me in the mood. Like house partys if we know someone there, just dont like to tun up and not really connect with anyone.
yep you sure dance around the pole good we could help look at you bum "
You should have said something, or given it a spank lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Love our Local Club as get to meet so many like minded ppl, who if we dont play with on the night, may meet with on another occasions. Also i love to dance and tease and clubs get me in the mood. Like house partys if we know someone there, just dont like to tun up and not really connect with anyone.
yep you sure dance around the pole good we could help look at you bum
You should have said something, or given it a spank lol x"
will next time lol i was dancing behind you .was so temptid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered which people prefered fun at a club pre arranged or not, or a house meet.
We prefer the club scene but like house meets as well. x  "
Defo house meet, not much on those plastic sheets in clubs. Much more comfy at home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we have been to a club and didnt play maybe a bit too shy .
have met and played in houses as if your going to meet a cpl/single at their house chances are your going to play
but must admit my fav is hotel meets,,just feel really naughty lol
auds xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been to a club and didnt play maybe a bit too shy .
have met and played in houses as if your going to meet a cpl/single at their house chances are your going to play
but must admit my fav is hotel meets,,just feel really naughty lol
auds xx"
just booked a shitty hotel...its dirty as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have been to a club and didnt play maybe a bit too shy .
have met and played in houses as if your going to meet a cpl/single at their house chances are your going to play
but must admit my fav is hotel meets,,just feel really naughty lol
auds xx
just booked a shitty hotel...its dirty as fuck"
lol paddywack i said naughty not dirty u tit! Lol.x   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have been to a club and didnt play maybe a bit too shy .
have met and played in houses as if your going to meet a cpl/single at their house chances are your going to play
but must admit my fav is hotel meets,,just feel really naughty lol
auds xx
just booked a shitty hotel...its dirty as fucklol paddywack i said naughty not dirty u tit! Lol.x "
asked them to hoover this mess up...then just remember auds is comin over...or MrsDyson as shes known around these parts hehehhheehhee x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Home meets for us, meet for a drink, see how we get on and if we do it's back home for woohoo!
If we know them/have met before then no probs, we will meet at home.
We tried clubs and they weren't for us, too much pressure and too clicky. The hot tubs are nice though!!! |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
"Home meets for us, meet for a drink, see how we get on and if we do it's back home for woohoo!
If we know them/have met before then no probs, we will meet at home.
We tried clubs and they weren't for us, too much pressure and too clicky. The hot tubs are nice though!!!"
Guess you cant say that about all clubs, because they are deffo not all clicky and not all too much pressure, we dont always play, sometimes we make contacts for private meets at another time. But saying that clubs arent for everyone, but neither are house meets.
We dont like to go on a house meets unless we know them first, as our time is limited and rather not spent a lot of time travelling and then finding out we dont get on with them, when we get there.
But LOVE house meets with people we know x |
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Depends who we meet and if it's single men or cpls - cpls we don't mind home play - but with single men it's better in club - u can fuck and move on but in house after play he don't like socialising too much with single men - but with cpls it's good to relax and chat before n after... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm I have gone on from clubs to hotels and houses, so I like going to the clubs as you never know where it will lead,
Home meets with friends is good, you just know when you drive over what is going to happen, makes the petrol prices seem tolerable for a little while :D |
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Both have pros and cons at the end of the day...
Some people can't accomodate at home for a variety of reasons, the most common one being children.
Others prefer not to have strangers round their home, especially early on.
Some homes are better catered to having visitors than others.
If your meeting people you already know, then the hotel has the bonus of you not being disturbed by others and a guranteed room to play and wash in etc, however if your meeting people for the first time there is of course no gurantee that they're going to turn up.
If you go to a club, you have the issue to a degree that you never know who is going to be there (Part of the fun, some might say) but if you go to a good club on the right night, it will almost certainly be busy.
You ahve also have the benifit of somewhere to play away from home if you need to and a place to socalise to, possibly even dance and swim, depending on that the club has to offer.
Those people who are too nervous thus far to go to one - should certainly try and muster the courage and make sure they go to a good one (Going to the wrong one or the right one on the wrong night could put you off them for life)
There are 70 to choose from in the UK
If you want to travel further, you have about another 1000 |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to meet at home as have kids so cant really get out..
Use clubs and cinemas for group things..
Cali x"
Thats interesting. One reason we like clubs is because we have kids and so can't have people round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered which people prefered fun at a club pre arranged or not, or a house meet.
We prefer the club scene but like house meets as well. x "
Its the people not the location that do it for us. |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
near bury st edmunds |
But for me the location helps me get in the mood, as i love to tease with a pole dance and love the sexy ,music they play, would feel silly dancing in a strangers living room lol xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Home meets for us-we'd never go to a club especially after reading the posts here about how people behave in clubs-i like to have control over who is watching and touching. Feel much more confident and myself in my own home, takes me a while to get going in someone elses, wouldn't even get off the starting blocks in a club, and definitely not the ones where it seems you have to walk around in nothing but a towel... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we tend to go to youtopia near scarborough ... its so different to the more well known clubs ... here its more relaxed and friendly, no clicks and dress as you please |
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"we tend to go to youtopia near scarborough ... its so different to the more well known clubs ... here its more relaxed and friendly, no clicks and dress as you please"
Thats the good thing about clubs, everyone one is different, just as everyone wants something different, its just a question of finding the one that suits you best and gives you what you want.
Second that on Utopia, excellent place.
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