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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I work away a lot. Wife spends time a lot with with friends while I’m away, male and female. However I know 1 male has a thing for my wife. She’s known him for many years and I trust my wife completely. However more recent when I’ve been away they have spent a lot of time together going out. Never spends time when I’m there. I don’t mind but there’s always a little thing playing in back of my mind what if.... then he gives her a valentines gift. My wife tells me everything and doesn’t keep anything from me and told me but wondering what should do. Any ideas? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I work away a lot. Wife spends time a lot with with friends while I’m away, male and female. However I know 1 male has a thing for my wife. She’s known him for many years and I trust my wife completely. However more recent when I’ve been away they have spent a lot of time together going out. Never spends time when I’m there. I don’t mind but there’s always a little thing playing in back of my mind what if.... then he gives her a valentines gift. My wife tells me everything and doesn’t keep anything from me and told me but wondering what should do. Any ideas?"
Perhaps ask him? Also you are verified on here does she know about that? If she's completely honest with you, you should be the same with her. Perhaps time to sit down with her for a good talk and get everything out in the open. |
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"Show her your single male profile and then she will make her own mind up what to do."
Maybe wife knows about Fab.
He did say it was a Male from his private life but wife is being honest about the Male.
Interesting! I’ll keep my eye on this thread. |
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"I work away a lot. Wife spends time a lot with with friends while I’m away, male and female. However I know 1 male has a thing for my wife. She’s known him for many years and I trust my wife completely. However more recent when I’ve been away they have spent a lot of time together going out. Never spends time when I’m there. I don’t mind but there’s always a little thing playing in back of my mind what if.... then he gives her a valentines gift. My wife tells me everything and doesn’t keep anything from me and told me but wondering what should do. Any ideas?"
If you're uncomfortable with the situation tell your wife and let her deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If his wife does not know about his profile showing it to her, as some have suggested, is very likely to be a big shock to her and be very destructive.
It could cause the breakup of their marriage. It could destroy the happiness of their children (if they have any). Cause a destabilising wave through both their families.
It saddens me that some would casually wish this life changing trauma on a family simply to have a go at a "fucking cheater". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If his wife does not know about his profile showing it to her, as some have suggested, is very likely to be a big shock to her and be very destructive.
It could cause the breakup of their marriage. It could destroy the happiness of their children (if they have any). Cause a destabilising wave through both their families.
Very true and shows you're a caring person
It saddens me that some would casually wish this life changing trauma on a family simply to have a go at a "fucking cheater". "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe admin could just auto populate posts with these predictable repetitive responses.
"Show her your profile" yawn
Bareback... "Russian roulette" boring
I like Ts.. "You must be gay" bore off...
Anyway, back to the original post!
My advice: Go round and bang him out!
Sorry that was supposed to say... something more mature, along the lines of adult conversation yadda yadda... must have been my auto correct. |
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