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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think."
Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead.
Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly.
I could be wrong, of course.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think.
Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead.
Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly.
I could be wrong, of course. "
I would say you are probably right XXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would not go any near a woman... I am completely straight... I wouldn't even do a woman for a million quid 
I'm completely straight,but I may give it a go for a million pounds! "
I'm bi, I'll do it for free |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think.
Not come across that yet - though I think it may have something to do with the antipathy that many bisexual males on here face as well - many straight men in couples aren’t happy with ‘crossing swords’ with a male that might get excited about it plus that pernicious idea that bi-males are somehow less sexually safe than straight males. On the other hand, bisexual women are prized on here instead.
Add to that, that most couples looking to meet a woman in an ffm are more likely to be looking for a woman who is happy playing with the female, whereas most couples looking to meet a man for an mmf are not likely to be looking for a guy to play with the male but to play with the female instead...and you have a recipe for men saying they are straight when they are actually bi or bicurious (to avoid being judged or to widen their target pool), whereas women are more likely to state their sexuality plainly.
I could be wrong, of course. "
You? Be wrong? I highly doubt that... I'd say you're spot on!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think."
I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in. |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
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I think we have the opposite problem with Bi women on fab. So many women pretend to be bi and say they like women to please their partner and cross off one of his fantasies. The amount of times I’ve been approached by couples who say “she’s happy to be touched and given oral by a woman but she won’t return the favour”.....infuriates me no end!! Trying to out the actual bisexuals from the liars and dreamers is hard work |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think.
I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in."
And pleases their husband  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think.
I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in."
We have had a couple of meets where they say the female is Bi but when it comes down to IT, female turns out straight and only got Bi on profile as its the males fantasy. Lots of chat before meet and they can talk the talk. Meets like that never goes well we have found and leaves us feeling fooled. |
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I’ve got that I’m bisexual but I’m probably not. I see women are attractive but I don’t fancy them. I like the sexuality of a situation, that’s what makes me horny rather than who was or wasn’t there xx |
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"I have seen at least a couple of discussions regarding men who have 'straight' on their profile but are actually at least bi-curious. Is the same applicable with women? And why? I have a few suspicions of my own, but let's see what my fellow swingers think.
I think many women pretend to be bi but aren't. Draws the men in.
We have had a couple of meets where they say the female is Bi but when it comes down to IT, female turns out straight and only got Bi on profile as its the males fantasy. Lots of chat before meet and they can talk the talk. Meets like that never goes well we have found and leaves us feeling fooled. "
Yep, we get this all the time. Bi for their fella. I'm pan, but expect the lady to give back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m probably best defined as a latent bi sexual. However on Fab I don’t want and have never chased sexual interaction with women. So I’m definitely Fab straight. No shame in that at all. Everyone is different and here for their own reasons. I’m just not bendy when wet. It takes a very very special woman to get into my pants. |
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