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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok
So I have spent the last week confirming what I already knew
If you are polite to a lady on here you get ignored(mostly)
So ( I know I shouldn’t this was purely to confirm my thoughts)
I sent a follow up message saying negative things
All of a sudden.... they wanna talk
Why?
Because they want to have s go at us
It must be much more fulfilling for them to have a bitch than a polite conversation |
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Gosh that’s sad. Did you read their profile before sending a message? Do you think you were a good match for you both? Was it a personalised message making reference to their profile? Did you include face photos and introduce yourself? Ah well. Sorry to hear that you’ve been on the receiving end of a woman who didn’t fancy you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit under handed and sneaky .
If someone dosent want to reply to your "polite " message they don't have to .
And as you say ....you new before you tried .
I wouldn't reply to you either with the attitude everyone has to reply to you or else lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To you it’s the first (so we’re led to believe ) time you’ve sent a lady an abusive message.
To the lady, it’s probably the 100th time this week they’ve received one! Maybe this was the straw that broke the camels back for her? Maybe she’s was polite to or ignored the other 99!?
What you’ve done in getting a response is troll someone, and goad them into a response. Congratulations!
And a sample of one isn’t necessarily going to be scientifically robust enough to publish your results in Science Today!
But I’m glad you’re happy with the outcome of the experiment! |
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By *anther PurrrsWoman
over a year ago
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"To you it’s the first (so we’re led to believe) time you’ve sent a lady an abusive message.
To the lady, it’s probably the 100th time this week they’ve received one! Maybe this was the straw that broke the camels back for her? Maybe she’s was polite to or ignored the other 99!?
What you’ve done in getting a response is troll someone, and goad them into a response. Congratulations!
And a sample of one isn’t necessarily going to be scientifically robust enough to publish your results in Science Today!
But I’m glad you’re happy with the outcome of the experiment!"
Purrrfectly said  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok
So I have spent the last week confirming what I already knew
If you are polite to a lady on here you get ignored(mostly)
So ( I know I shouldn’t this was purely to confirm my thoughts)
I sent a follow up message saying negative things
All of a sudden.... they wanna talk
Why?
Because they want to have s go at us
It must be much more fulfilling for them to have a bitch than a polite conversation "
You should try getting out more! |
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Why do you think women have to respond to you whether polite or not? Send a message and then forget about it. If they respond great but if they don't you won't have wasted time stressing about it. But sending rude messages-wtaf this is why women don't bother responding when they are not intetested. Believe me I've tried to politely respond to 'nice messages' to me and explain I'm not interested and then got abuse for my troubles so now I just delete if I'm not interested  |
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I can't decide if this mean to be tongue in cheek or not.
If it is, seems to be a bit of an odd way to spend your time on here. If it's not, why is it ok to send a crappy message just because your message wasn't what someone was looking for?
Human nature means we assume the worse and make it about ourselves when there are so many reasons the person might not reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dear OP you want to understand women.
It has been an eternal mystery.
Give up now 
Walks away quietly..."
Yup
Most of us are far too demanding
I wouldnt bother anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't decide if this mean to be tongue in cheek or not.
If it is, seems to be a bit of an odd way to spend your time on here. If it's not, why is it ok to send a crappy message just because your message wasn't what someone was looking for?
Human nature means we assume the worse and make it about ourselves when there are so many reasons the person might not reply. "
I thought it was rather funny. |
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By *niper oneMan
over a year ago
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Most women on here have been thru the grinder of POF and TINDER and then ended up on most stay because no other option.I have seen about 30 women on POF who are also on here only difference is on pof there acting like there a princess and butter wouldnt melt in there mouth,then you read there verifications on here#really#
God help the guy who dates them off pof not knowing lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's funny as alot of men send same messages too all women .I had a man message me Friday with long message saying all stuff men think women want to hear blah blah blah .But what I noticed was he sent same message day before and today .so cut and paste isn't good way either .Plus if it's not personal or sincere why bother messaging .Puts me off alot of men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here have been thru the grinder of POF and TINDER and then ended up on most stay because no other option.I have seen about 30 women on POF who are also on here only difference is on pof there acting like there a princess and butter wouldnt melt in there mouth,then you read there verifications on here#really#
God help the guy who dates them off pof not knowing lol.
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Guys on Pof are looking for virgins then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think I could ever date and swing .How are you going to get to know someone and trust someone if you or them on fab and dating sites .My opinion it won't work .one or the other and date one person .  |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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"Ok
So I have spent the last week confirming what I already knew
If you are polite to a lady on here you get ignored(mostly)
So ( I know I shouldn’t this was purely to confirm my thoughts)
I sent a follow up message saying negative things
All of a sudden.... they wanna talk
Why?
Because they want to have s go at us
It must be much more fulfilling for them to have a bitch than a polite conversation "
So you provoked a reply but still didn't secure a meet? |
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