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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Just been laying in the bath (never good for my sanity) and pondering, in a general pondering way. All in all its been a funny week on the forum, we have had "Moaners and Whingers", "Timewasters and Fakers" and "The Sexy People". Its been ups and downs, some gripes, some yipes, and some full of ...... offal.

All in all an average week; the overriding theme "What am I doing wrong?", "Why can't I get meets?", Profile critique continues, meets are arranged, funnies exchanged and in general its all part of this thing called swing (ing).

So back to my pondering, I have been lucky, I have had me a few meets, and I guess I have little too gripe about (but you always do Pauly!) when it comes to using the site, but I wonder if some of those that have had a few problems should stop and have a bit of reflection.

Some of my meets have been great, and some not so great, but in all I have done, what warms the very cockles of my devil sold soul is the messages I get everyday from the friends I have made. Some of these people I will never meet (probably), distance and attraction (in a physical way) may not be conducive. But hell, I really do enjoy opening my sack in the morning (the mail sack!!) and finding familiar faces in there (weird image.....)

So for those of you that are finding things a bit slow, ponder this, yes, it is a swinging site, but you havent had to pay to enter. You have access to people of a similar disposition to yourself, and who knows, you too may have friends on here that you may never meet.

But you just signed up to test the water, and already you have new friends. So you might not get laid, big deal, I can travel this country top to bottom after only 2 months of actively using this site, I can potentially share a cup of coffee and a cream bun, with people that are funny, liberal and share a similar interest to me. Thats worth ten cold, emotionless "poor" meets in my book.

Time will come when you are turning down meets because you are over run, for now, enjoy the building of friendships and all the warm feelings that brings.

Yes MC, the meds have kicked in again...........

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Pauly- whatever it is you're drinking tonight-pour me a big glass please!!!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then? "

To be honest the whip has me worried........

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then?

To be honest the whip has me worried........"

Haha my wicked plan has worked..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then?

To be honest the whip has me worried........

Haha my wicked plan has worked.. "

Didn't say I was put off though, you ever what to crunch a carrot, you get those peach buns of perfection down to Devonshire............

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

How refreshing.

Being 'newbies' I sometimes feel that if we don't have a meet then we may appear as time wasters. Despite the fact that it is on our profile regarding how tentative we are.

You are right in saying that making friends with people you may never meet, is a positive thing and should be viewed without any pressure. It is the friendships that we are developing that is giving us the confidence to contemplate a meet...All exciting stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ahhh ok.

Fancy a shag then?

lol"

Drool.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How refreshing.

Being 'newbies' I sometimes feel that if we don't have a meet then we may appear as time wasters. Despite the fact that it is on our profile regarding how tentative we are.

You are right in saying that making friends with people you may never meet, is a positive thing and should be viewed without any pressure. It is the friendships that we are developing that is giving us the confidence to contemplate a meet...All exciting stuff! "

This is your site, just as much as anyone else's, use as you wish, I am just smiling and cosy, I have made a few more friends, and it didn't cost me anything and thats a pretty nice thing from where I am sat...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How refreshing.

Being 'newbies' I sometimes feel that if we don't have a meet then we may appear as time wasters. Despite the fact that it is on our profile regarding how tentative we are.

You are right in saying that making friends with people you may never meet, is a positive thing and should be viewed without any pressure. It is the friendships that we are developing that is giving us the confidence to contemplate a meet...All exciting stuff!

This is your site, just as much as anyone else's, use as you wish, I am just smiling and cosy, I have made a few more friends, and it didn't cost me anything and thats a pretty nice thing from where I am sat..."

And that's a pretty nice thing from where I'm sat!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple  over a year ago

hexham


"Just been laying in the bath (never good for my sanity) and pondering, in a general pondering way. All in all its been a funny week on the forum, we have had "Moaners and Whingers", "Timewasters and Fakers" and "The Sexy People". Its been ups and downs, some gripes, some yipes, and some full of ...... offal.

All in all an average week; the overriding theme "What am I doing wrong?", "Why can't I get meets?", Profile critique continues, meets are arranged, funnies exchanged and in general its all part of this thing called swing (ing).

So back to my pondering, I have been lucky, I have had me a few meets, and I guess I have little too gripe about (but you always do Pauly!) when it comes to using the site, but I wonder if some of those that have had a few problems should stop and have a bit of reflection.

Some of my meets have been great, and some not so great, but in all I have done, what warms the very cockles of my devil sold soul is the messages I get everyday from the friends I have made. Some of these people I will never meet (probably), distance and attraction (in a physical way) may not be conducive. But hell, I really do enjoy opening my sack in the morning (the mail sack!!) and finding familiar faces in there (weird image.....)

So for those of you that are finding things a bit slow, ponder this, yes, it is a swinging site, but you havent had to pay to enter. You have access to people of a similar disposition to yourself, and who knows, you too may have friends on here that you may never meet.

But you just signed up to test the water, and already you have new friends. So you might not get laid, big deal, I can travel this country top to bottom after only 2 months of actively using this site, I can potentially share a cup of coffee and a cream bun, with people that are funny, liberal and share a similar interest to me. Thats worth ten cold, emotionless "poor" meets in my book.

Time will come when you are turning down meets because you are over run, for now, enjoy the building of friendships and all the warm feelings that brings.

Yes MC, the meds have kicked in again..........."

When do you travel to northmberland

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

When do you travel to northmberland "

You buy the coffee, I'll bring the buns....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I like that sentiment, its like a warm spicey glass of Shiraz...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I like that sentiment, its like a warm spicey glass of Shiraz..."

Lol, are you saying I have to be pished to say nice things? Bully. I just wanted to spread me love around tonight, safe in the knowledge that you buggers dont know where I live and cant hunt me like the dog that I am.....

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By *r ManxMan  over a year ago

NeverWhere

Excellent post by OP

Despite living on a small Island

I have chatted to and met some very friendly,open minded and interesting people.

If i dont ever get a full on sexy meet from this site i will still be happy because of the forum

So in advance i apologize your stuck with me

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By *evilwolfCouple  over a year ago

Leicestershire


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So in advance i apologize your stuck with me "

Yep I must say that I enjoy quipping on here so much, I'm going to haunt the forum forever *rattles chains like jacob marley and his wailers*

Wolf

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman  over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wish more would think like you do

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple  over a year ago

North Cornwall


"How refreshing.

Being 'newbies' I sometimes feel that if we don't have a meet then we may appear as time wasters. Despite the fact that it is on our profile regarding how tentative we are.

You are right in saying that making friends with people you may never meet, is a positive thing and should be viewed without any pressure. It is the friendships that we are developing that is giving us the confidence to contemplate a meet...All exciting stuff!

This is your site, just as much as anyone else's, use as you wish, I am just smiling and cosy, I have made a few more friends, and it didn't cost me anything and thats a pretty nice thing from where I am sat..."

So youre a cheapskate then

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just been laying in the bath (never good for my sanity) and pondering, in a general pondering way. All in all its been a funny week on the forum, we have had "Moaners and Whingers", "Timewasters and Fakers" and "The Sexy People". Its been ups and downs, some gripes, some yipes, and some full of ...... offal.

All in all an average week; the overriding theme "What am I doing wrong?", "Why can't I get meets?", Profile critique continues, meets are arranged, funnies exchanged and in general its all part of this thing called swing (ing).

So back to my pondering, I have been lucky, I have had me a few meets, and I guess I have little too gripe about (but you always do Pauly!) when it comes to using the site, but I wonder if some of those that have had a few problems should stop and have a bit of reflection.

Some of my meets have been great, and some not so great, but in all I have done, what warms the very cockles of my devil sold soul is the messages I get everyday from the friends I have made. Some of these people I will never meet (probably), distance and attraction (in a physical way) may not be conducive. But hell, I really do enjoy opening my sack in the morning (the mail sack!!) and finding familiar faces in there (weird image.....)

So for those of you that are finding things a bit slow, ponder this, yes, it is a swinging site, but you havent had to pay to enter. You have access to people of a similar disposition to yourself, and who knows, you too may have friends on here that you may never meet.

But you just signed up to test the water, and already you have new friends. So you might not get laid, big deal, I can travel this country top to bottom after only 2 months of actively using this site, I can potentially share a cup of coffee and a cream bun, with people that are funny, liberal and share a similar interest to me. Thats worth ten cold, emotionless "poor" meets in my book.

Time will come when you are turning down meets because you are over run, for now, enjoy the building of friendships and all the warm feelings that brings.

Yes MC, the meds have kicked in again..........."

bout blooming time too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

"ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLFIEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE"

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By *he_original_poloWoman  over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It is great when you find something which suits you or fills a gap and I am happy to read the OP is content with his lot.

Personally, I have no interest in going up and down the country to share coffee and buns with people I'm not going to have sex with.

I can appreciate people liking the feeling of having a social network of friends. But I can also appreciate that not being what everyone wants from a swinging site.

Neither is right or wrong.

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