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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bit of a strange one but relevant all the same 
I’ve always had a great fear of death via drowning or burning.... both would be terribly scary/painful and you would most probably be aware.
I think I’d prefer to die in my sleep pain free and OLD |
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I once worked with a chap who died whilst having sex in a car on the Moors, parked up with his mistress in the middle of the night, heart attack! The funeral was very awkward, his widow very resentful and hadn’t a clue he was having an affair! There was no wake, service at the Crem then home. |
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"I once worked with a chap who died whilst having sex in a car on the Moors, parked up with his mistress in the middle of the night, heart attack! The funeral was very awkward, his widow very resentful and hadn’t a clue he was having an affair! There was no wake, service at the Crem then home."
I have a similar tale. The husband died out of the borough and the wife refused to pay to get his body back.
His children paid for it. The atmosphere at the funeral was awful! |
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Lost too many friends who battled the big C, for me heart attack & go, don’t want me or the wife to suffer!
On a lighter note Holly Johnson from Frankie goes to Hollywood was asked the same question, he said “I want to die on the job, come & go at the same time”! |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Dignitas, when I find out that I have terminal cancer due to either the cigarettes, sunbeds or pork pies.
Big fuck-off party for everyone I know, followed by some quiet time with my nearest and dearest, a needle prick and darkness.
Then I want my cremated remains packing into fireworks and have the wake as a giant bonfire and fireworks display with live music.
I am NOT going out quietly.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This poem changed my view of death, perhaps not the violence but I like the sentiment, that you live life to the full up until the very end.
Let me die a youngman's death
not a clean and inbetween
the sheets holywater death
not a famous-last-words
peaceful out of breath death
When I'm 73
and in constant good tumour
may I be mown down at dawn
by a bright red sports car
on my way home
from an allnight party
Or when I'm 91
with silver hair
and sitting in a barber's chair
may rival gangsers
with hamfisted tommyguns burst in
and give me a short back and insides
Or when I'm 104
and banned from the Cavern
may my mistress
catching me in bed with her daughter
and fearing for her son
cut me up into little pieces
and throw away every piece but one
Let me die a youngman's death
not a free from sin tiptoe in
candle wax and waning death
not a curtains drawn by angels borne
'what a nice way to go' death
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have nearly drowned and on a different occasion, almost died from hyperthermia. Drowning was a little scary, but the hyperthermia was not bad at all, it was a bit like being d*unk! So if I had to choose how I would die, and in my sleep wasn't an option, I would go with the hyperthermia. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been with so many people who have passed away .Think the only way too go is not alone and no pain and with no regrets .Arguments with loved ones and fall outs can be very difficult when left too late . |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
"Bit of a strange one but relevant all the same
I’ve always had a great fear of death via drowning or burning.... both would be terribly scary/painful and you would most probably be aware.
I think I’d prefer to die in my sleep pain free and OLD"
Very much the same as this. Must be awful to die like this knowing you're fighting for life but going to lose.
I'll settle for a quick heart attack in my mid 90's whilst my girlfriend is riding me reverse cowgirl style. Tough on her but I'll go with a hell of a smile on my face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like my old man, quietly in his sleep whilst holding his sons hand.
I don't have a son mind you so that might be difficult.
Maybe an unexpected gunshot to the head then from a large calibre weapon then. Swift |
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By *RayMan
over a year ago
essex |
"Massive heart attack just after I’d shot my load with a beautiful lady with a beautiful body and die instantly with a smile on my face 
This is how most men want to peg it.....yawn lol. "
 this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've thought about this a lot over the years. For me rather simple. I want to sit on a park bench, with a glass of whiskey in hand, and playing some of my favourite songs.
My dream is to treat death as a long lost friend. Rather then something to be scared of. |
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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire East |
I’d rather go quietly, an old lady warm in my bed ( titanic oohhoohhh)
BUT given that I have a 75% higher chance of contracting a female cancer I think I know how I’m gonna go already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always said i'd like to die a dramatic death.... Be the murder victim whose death solves the identity of a serial killer.
My son reckons he will euthanise me when I get to 60... My options are hit with something heavy or pushed down the stairs. Don'fancy being a cripple mind...
Every birthday he reminds me how many years I have left!  |
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"In my sleep. I'd be scared any other way.. unless I didn't see it coming. I don't want to die."
I'm the same. I've every intention of living for ever. When I do go, it will be as a result if the next apocalypse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Going very fast and doing something stupid in a powerful machine, and I don't mean a wood chipper.....
Like a big launderette washing machine! The ones on the walls??  "
If I get it horribly wrong that's always a possibility... |
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As long as I don't die having a crap like many older men do from heart attack and go really quick I don't mind. I have decided that from the age of fifty onwards I will forever carry a half written will that ends at the point "and I leave my secret fortune of £1 billion, at the site of our first fuck, to the one I love most; P....." Or some other initial that not one of my relatives has so they can forever quarrel and try to solve the mystery |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
Blyth |
"I always said i'd like to die a dramatic death.... Be the murder victim whose death solves the identity of a serial killer.
My son reckons he will euthanise me when I get to 60... My options are hit with something heavy or pushed down the stairs. Don'fancy being a cripple mind...
Every birthday he reminds me how many years I have left! "
Your son is such a little ray of sunshine isn't he? Tell him you're leaving everything to the local cat & dog shelter as he doesn't deserve to have anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your son is such a little ray of sunshine isn't he? Tell him you're leaving everything to the local cat & dog shelter as he doesn't deserve to have anything."
Haha my son has the same twisted sense of humour as I do...
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"I always said i'd like to die a dramatic death.... Be the murder victim whose death solves the identity of a serial killer.
My son reckons he will euthanise me when I get to 60... My options are hit with something heavy or pushed down the stairs. Don'fancy being a cripple mind...
Every birthday he reminds me how many years I have left!
Your son is such a little ray of sunshine isn't he? Tell him you're leaving everything to the local cat & dog shelter as he doesn't deserve to have anything."
Yes what an absolute little Prince he is....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really. Do you want to die a peaceful or a violent death? Do you want to know you are dying. How long in advance would you like to know? "
Peacefully....balls deep |
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Definitely not cancer or drowning/torture (anything drawn out) although I'd imagine drowning is somewhat peaceful given how the body reacts in incredibly traumatic times.
If I was to get shot I'd hope it's a high velocity bullet that blows my head completely apart... wouldn't want to die gradually from gunshot wounds!
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Sudden heart attack from the sheer excitement from having a threesome with Scarlett Johansson and Rita Ora. Ticker gives in just as I blow my load, Rita has my balls in my mouth and Scarlett is deepthroating me.
Seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really. Do you want to die a peaceful or a violent death? Do you want to know you are dying. How long in advance would you like to know? "
Having a heart attack during a 3sum with two Swedish supermodels.
Being serious though, I want it to be a quick, painless and peaceful transition back to the source. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Don’t want to get too deep but I nearly died twice. Once from Hyperthermia (body over heating) after being poisoned by a drug dealer in Vietnam. Another time from anaphylaxis due to an unknown allergy.
Both totally different experiences, and equally terrifying. The only thing that goes through your mind is all the things you haven’t done and haven’t said to your family - then a huge regret and panic. Then a kind of delirious feeling, and when you’re at the brink there’s a sudden calm buzzing. It felt as if my body was vibrating and everything was peaceful.
I don’t mean to get too serious but yeah - after those experiences I’m not sure there is a way I’d like to die. I’d rather try and live a full life and ensure I’m happy at the point I finally pass
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"Don’t want to get too deep but I nearly died twice. Once from Hyperthermia (body over heating) after being poisoned by a drug dealer in Vietnam. Another time from anaphylaxis due to an unknown allergy.
Both totally different experiences, and equally terrifying. The only thing that goes through your mind is all the things you haven’t done and haven’t said to your family - then a huge regret and panic. Then a kind of delirious feeling, and when you’re at the brink there’s a sudden calm buzzing. It felt as if my body was vibrating and everything was peaceful.
I don’t mean to get too serious but yeah - after those experiences I’m not sure there is a way I’d like to die. I’d rather try and live a full life and ensure I’m happy at the point I finally pass
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Is the light at the end of the tunnel true? Did you glimpse it? Did you panic inside or not? How does the brain deal with such an experience at the time? I’m just trying to understand as I’ve heard people say this before about NDE. |
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By *ebwizMan
over a year ago
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Something high speed on my bike when old.would be a quick end,but wont happen as I would feel guilty about people having to deal with the aftermath,so will probably be quietly with family,like my late in laws,hopefully a long way off yet. |
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"Don’t want to get too deep but I nearly died twice. Once from Hyperthermia (body over heating) after being poisoned by a drug dealer in Vietnam. Another time from anaphylaxis due to an unknown allergy.
Both totally different experiences, and equally terrifying. The only thing that goes through your mind is all the things you haven’t done and haven’t said to your family - then a huge regret and panic. Then a kind of delirious feeling, and when you’re at the brink there’s a sudden calm buzzing. It felt as if my body was vibrating and everything was peaceful.
I don’t mean to get too serious but yeah - after those experiences I’m not sure there is a way I’d like to die. I’d rather try and live a full life and ensure I’m happy at the point I finally pass
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I think that your last sentence is a good way to think of it. A close relative of mine had a rare, untreatable cancer. She was lucky in that after a fairly unpleasant procedure she had almost nine months of relatively pain free life. Although she was in her mid 80s she did things, talked to people, put her affairs in order and her family were able to spend quality time with her. She wasn't afraid when she died and it was very peaceful. It's easy to forget to live life well and enjoy your family but I think it makes it easier to grieve too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I will never forget the words my Grandpa shouted before he kicked the bucket. He said “I wonder how far I can kick this bucket?” "
Reminds me of my sweet old grandad, last words I heard him utter were 'jesus, what the hell are you doing in here at this time of night with that hammer!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t want to get too deep but I nearly died twice. Once from Hyperthermia (body over heating) after being poisoned by a drug dealer in Vietnam. Another time from anaphylaxis due to an unknown allergy.
Both totally different experiences, and equally terrifying. The only thing that goes through your mind is all the things you haven’t done and haven’t said to your family - then a huge regret and panic. Then a kind of delirious feeling, and when you’re at the brink there’s a sudden calm buzzing. It felt as if my body was vibrating and everything was peaceful.
I don’t mean to get too serious but yeah - after those experiences I’m not sure there is a way I’d like to die. I’d rather try and live a full life and ensure I’m happy at the point I finally pass
Is the light at the end of the tunnel true? Did you glimpse it? Did you panic inside or not? How does the brain deal with such an experience at the time? I’m just trying to understand as I’ve heard people say this before about NDE. "
Yes I went back and forth between panic and calm. I saw a lot of different things, lights, shapes, Infinite patterns like nothing I’ve seen in waking life... I actually wrote about it in depth for an NDE site (writinf helped me to get over it) and I have a link to it if you’d like to read it? Drop me a PM and I’ll find the link |
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Think we should all be given the right to end things if we are terminally ill and there is nothing else that can be done.
You wouldn't put your pets through it so why do we insist on making people suffer needlesly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we should all be given the right to end things if we are terminally ill and there is nothing else that can be done.
You wouldn't put your pets through it so why do we insist on making people suffer needlesly?"
I agree but can we have it on NHS vets are so expensive  |
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Agree with the above. We have had our dogs put down when they were suffering and incontinent, a mercy for them which seems denied to humans because of religious fanaticism among our legislators and judiciary.
Someone even said on the radio recently "JC suffered and we all have to suffer too when we die". That's obscene!
Woody Allen said "I'm not frightened of death, I just don't want to be there when it happens." Sounds good to us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we should all be given the right to end things if we are terminally ill and there is nothing else that can be done.
You wouldn't put your pets through it so why do we insist on making people suffer needlesly?"
Totally agree |
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Very nearly killed on the firing ranges in the Army, another Squaddie’s rifle pointing in my direction, 7.62 round through the head without any warning, could be worse
If I was to kill myself, overdose of sleeping pills with a decent Whiskey, in the winter on a lovely hill with a view. Close enough to a road so my body would be easily found and not put anyone’s else life in danger. |
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Quickly and I'd preferably not know anything about it. I lost my dad just short of two years ago from lung cancer and watching him deteriorate in the last couple of weeks before he died was heartbreaking. Thankfully though he didn't suffer much and when the end came it was actually very peaceful. |
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"Quickly and I'd preferably not know anything about it. I lost my dad just short of two years ago from lung cancer and watching him deteriorate in the last couple of weeks before he died was heartbreaking. Thankfully though he didn't suffer much and when the end came it was actually very peaceful."
So sorry to hear that. It’s terrible. I lost my mum around the same time as you lost your dad, she succumbed to dementia and it took her 6 weeks to die, she struggled to live and die  |
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"Quickly and I'd preferably not know anything about it. I lost my dad just short of two years ago from lung cancer and watching him deteriorate in the last couple of weeks before he died was heartbreaking. Thankfully though he didn't suffer much and when the end came it was actually very peaceful.
So sorry to hear that. It’s terrible. I lost my mum around the same time as you lost your dad, she succumbed to dementia and it took her 6 weeks to die, she struggled to live and die "
Thank you and sorry you've had to go through it too my dad was only 58, I'd always thought he'd have been around until well into his 80's and I feel robbed of the time we could have spent together. |
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"Quickly and I'd preferably not know anything about it. I lost my dad just short of two years ago from lung cancer and watching him deteriorate in the last couple of weeks before he died was heartbreaking. Thankfully though he didn't suffer much and when the end came it was actually very peaceful.
So sorry to hear that. It’s terrible. I lost my mum around the same time as you lost your dad, she succumbed to dementia and it took her 6 weeks to die, she struggled to live and die
Thank you and sorry you've had to go through it too my dad was only 58, I'd always thought he'd have been around until well into his 80's and I feel robbed of the time we could have spent together."
58! Nooo that is so tragic! At least my mum was 83 when she passed so she had a life. Sorry again! Just live life to the full honey x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't want to die.
I know I will die,everybody dies sometime,but that doesn't mean I want to die.
So I'm happy to remain ignorant in the knowledge of never knowing my demise |
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"How would l like to die mmm in a Lamborghini flat out with police chasing me then smash in to a bridge on the motorway wow incredible "
Would you drive right off the side of a bridge into some deep water James Bond style? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Give me a nice bit of Ischaemic Heart Disease. No warning, no pain just the heart stopping and not even being aware you've hit the floor.
Failing that I don;t want tp be alone and I don;t want to be scared |
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"quickly. unfortunately It takes a long time to die about a week in my dads case
Sorry to hear that. I’ve been there too! It took my mum 6 weeks to die....
It took my mum 70 years "
That’s not even remotely humerous...! |
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"quickly. unfortunately It takes a long time to die about a week in my dads case
Sorry to hear that. I’ve been there too! It took my mum 6 weeks to die....
It took my mum 70 years
That’s not even remotely humerous...! "
I hope you don't have GSOH on your profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"quickly. unfortunately It takes a long time to die about a week in my dads case
Sorry to hear that. I’ve been there too! It took my mum 6 weeks to die....
It took my mum 70 years
That’s not even remotely humerous...! "
Yes it is |
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"quickly. unfortunately It takes a long time to die about a week in my dads case
Sorry to hear that. I’ve been there too! It took my mum 6 weeks to die....
It took my mum 70 years
That’s not even remotely humerous...!
Yes it is "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a huge explosion I don't know about.
Every Monday morning when the Plymouth dockyard siren drill goes off I kind of expect it
So an unexpected one would be better for me ?? |
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