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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s clearly there in our profile.
We delete them if we haven’t spoken before.
Just more proof that they don’t look past the pictures."
Just leave them there, they can't send another for 60 days or whatever it is then ! |
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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Crafty, but I like it."
Feel like deleting all friend pics so they don't bother lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X
Really? It is annoying, think they only wanna perv over friend pics?"
Of course they do, I delete straight away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just a private pics thing, you get them whether you've got private pics or not. There are a lot of shallow types and some look to legitimise their accounts by having you on there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 09/02/18 21:37:57]"
What if it's done by an experienced, verified couple? I got an unsolicited friend request which I ignored, two days later I got the second. So I replied, explaining why I'd ignored the first.
I never did get a message, perhaps I'm not worthy, which is kind of why I ignored the first request. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get random ones now and again off women and couples who I've never communicated with. I'll accept them if they have friends pics to share and I like the look of them. One such request resulted in a meet so I can't complain. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How often do you tolerate repeated friend requests with no messages before blocking the sender?"
I think two did me.. I can't remember if I blocked or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks  "
Can they if you delete them? If they can't, I may have fucked up and not deleted what I thought was the 1st, but in fact, the only request.. in which case my message would have seemed a little bizarre, so no wonder it wasn't replied to  Oh well.. first/only was still unsolicited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We find it's more other couples that are the biggest culprits for it tbh.. X
Really? It is annoying, think they only wanna perv over friend pics?"
Thing is: they can't if you don't add them.
Or, do what we do, wait till they're off-line, add them as friends, check out all their pics, then de-friend them afterwards.
*shrugs* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i leave them in the list to be added as they cant re request for 30 days same as winks
Can they if you delete them? If they can't, I may have fucked up and not deleted what I thought was the 1st, but in fact, the only request.. in which case my message would have seemed a little bizarre, so no wonder it wasn't replied to Oh well.. first/only was still unsolicited."
try now with me and we will see LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple. 
Love that lol
I'd rather see a face to be honest
my arse is better than my face "
I can't comment as I haven't seen either |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They wanna see yer vag'. Plain n simple.
Love that lol
I'd rather see a face to be honest
my arse is better than my face
I can't comment as I haven't seen either "
or fact i am an arse ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we get friends requests from people randomly ads normally sends them a message, normally involves that our friends pics are just his cock etc lol.
Geeky x |
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By *eziahWoman
over a year ago
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"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck "
But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noooo I've had 4 single women request me and yes I've only been here 2 weeks so it's not just men I've accepted them with open arms it's not just men  "
Oh and I'm incredibly happy and proud about it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's the marketing strategy, send 200 expect a 1% hit rate and bingo 2 extra set of pics to perve at.
Or blokes trying to gauge interest by sending them, but given the disparity in males to females you still need to differentiate yourself with a decent message so you can actually speak to people.
(Says someone that as a newbie may have tried the scattergun approach, I've been learned now). X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just don't go into your friends request. I don't think I've ever pressed that button the whole time I've been on here x"
If everyone did that, what would there be to complain about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck
But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at. "
None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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"Why send them if we haven't even communicated? Men do not do themselves any favours on here!!!"
In our experience all do this, I guess for some it works. We always send a message to the effect that unless we meet we won't accept the friends request. 9 times out of 10 that message is ignored. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck
But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at.
None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester."
Or just block and sent a clear message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such angst over something so trivial.exactly my thought some do it because they can't see pics ,it cuts to the chase  "
And they think the recipient does get that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I've just learned something new If you don't delete the request and you don't accept it. They cannot resend for 30 days. But if you do delete it... they can resend immideatly.
Thankyou very much MaybeTomorrow Smooooooth as fuck
But what difference does that make if you don't accept anyway? It just still sits there in a dusty corner of your internet that you don't have to look at.
None really You van hold them off for 30 days if they're a serial requester.
Or just block and sent a clear message "
I reserve the block button for special occasions usually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such angst over something so trivial."
It may sound trivial, I guess it may be, but it's just another case of lack of respect for someone isn't it?
It makes me feel like I'm not worthy to talk to, unless I pass a rigid inspection first. That doesn't bother me much, because I know I am to those who matter.
Manners cost nothing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner..."
It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only add friends after I have met them, and then I send the friend request to them. I say this on my profile and I still have about 9000 requests just sat there being ignored since I just don’t look at it...same with winks if I’m honest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner...
It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle"
Ooh what flavour? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such angst over something so trivial.
It may sound trivial, I guess it may be, but it's just another case of lack of respect for someone isn't it?
It makes me feel like I'm not worthy to talk to, unless I pass a rigid inspection first. That doesn't bother me much, because I know I am to those who matter.
Manners cost nothing."
its a tool of the site as are the block and delete button ,some block you for your comments in the forums they judge you ,some might not appreciate people perving their pics and fabbing them especially if they've blocked you but its a tool a click of a button ,some view it as rude to call someone babe others don't ,we are all different and its probably good that we have the forums to debate these differences in opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just got a wink and a friends request from Wales. We have never spoken and even though we like to travel away at weekends would prefer to chat first before becoming friends. |
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
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Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place? "
No idea, I don't do it, my fuck buddy on here does. I'm guessing looking at them she can decide whether she wants to accept them as a friend or not based on if she likes what she sees. |
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?
No idea, I don't do it, my fuck buddy on here does. I'm guessing looking at them she can decide whether she wants to accept them as a friend or not based on if she likes what she sees."
Oh sorry I thought you did. You were just suggesting people do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place? "
As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We hate this also, it doesn’t take much to send a message saying they like our profile and want to see more or are even interested in chatting first!
We ignore or delete them m, we’re pretty strict with our friends list, if there’s not a possibility of a meet or we haven’t spoken in over a month they’re off the list  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it just people not understanding how it works here. Other social media you can just become friends with them with them by pressing the follow button. Just a feature they see, so use it.
I don't tend to look unless someone I've been messaging has asked. |
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"We hate this also, it doesn’t take much to send a message saying they like our profile and want to see more or are even interested in chatting first!
We ignore or delete them m, we’re pretty strict with our friends list, if there’s not a possibility of a meet or we haven’t spoken in over a month they’re off the list "
This is a good system |
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?
As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i"
Well if you’re happy to waste time doing that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meh. It doesn't bother me. I don't look at them. I send a friend request to those I'm interested in. I don't understand why people get worked up about them. Just don't look!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wait til they go offline, accept it and look at friends only photos then delete them off friends list
Why look at their friends only photo’s if you don’t want them as friends in the first place?
As they clearly ignore the profiles so why shouldnt i
Well if you’re happy to waste time doing that "
Doesn’t happen often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I must be doing something wrong...i dont get any..ever...ill just go and cry in the corner...
It'll be Ok Nick, you'll get one at some point, if you hang around long enough There there *Offers you a Pringle
Ooh what flavour?"
What would you choose? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just people not understanding how it works here. Other social media you can just become friends with them with them by pressing the follow button. Just a feature they see, so use it.
I don't tend to look unless someone I've been messaging has asked. "
I think you're right! I reckon most just see it as a way of testing the water. Or like Facebook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.
So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.
Two can play that game |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.
So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.
Two can play that game "
you're too sneaky makes you freaky |
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"I let those random/blank profilefriend requests sit there. Then after a few months I’ll go through the list - often some of those random blank profiles have added “friends only” photos during the time that’s passed.
So I’ll accept months after, have a quick snoop and de-friend them.
Two can play that game "
Do you diarise ‘after a few months’ to go through the list? Possible perv at any saucy pics then de-friend?
Does it make you feel superior? I’m just trying to get the psyche of why that’s all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine  it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website "
lol let's face it we're all devious at some point |
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point
Moi? Devious? Nope  c'mon give us a wee Titbit "
Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth |
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website
I’m just trying to understand why you do it that’s all
Play nicely "
Yeah right, you should know how feisty I can get....!! |
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point
Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit
Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof "
No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point
Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit
Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof
No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. "
lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request |
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point
Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit
Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof
No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request "
A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your assumptions say more about your psyche than mine it doesn’t make me feel anything it’s just a website lol let's face it we're all devious at some point
Moi? Devious? Nope c'mon give us a wee Titbit
Throws a little treat in the air to catch in the teeth a doggy biscuit .......woof woof
No....a fish....squeal squeal in dolphin accent. lol yea I've that sound in my head now as I send a friend request
A friend request? A chuffing friend request! Gulp! "
chuffing that all you got ? |
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"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!
He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie."
I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason! "
Ah,worked it out now. Newbie error.
Using the hidden profile as a spam filter? |
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"I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!
Ah,worked it out now. Newbie error.
Using the hidden profile as a spam filter?"
It’s fine, worry not.
Nope....and you are inappropriate asking that in an open forum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason! "
Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own. |
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I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!
Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own. "
Your words make some sense.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still get friend requests though!
Not a meanie, it’s my decision with good reason!
Most everything women do is with good reason. They adjust behaviour so quickly and correctly, esp when it comes to men, who coincidentally are both the greatest cause of necessary modifications and the slowest to modify their own.
Your words make some sense...."
Why thank you B. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!
He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie."
I am I quake in my boots every day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dint understand why it’s so annoying, you don’t have to accept "
I think it’s comparable to a mosquito bite.
The first time it happens you don’t notice till it’s itchy and by then it’s too late to stop it. This happens for a while, possibly with a kill or two, till just the sound of them buzzing near your head is enough to make you flip the fuck out.
I think it’s an instinctual thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kneelz is too nervous to because of my feisty nature.....grrrrr!
He can't anyway! You've hidden your profile, ya meanie.I am I quake in my boots every day
Yeah right "
I take them off at night mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend
Nothing better to moan about lol.
Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend
Nothing better to moan about lol.
Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on "
oh damnit send me one then |
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"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend
Nothing better to moan about lol.
Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on oh damnit send me one then "
I’ll think about it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You'd all moan if you didn't have any friends or no one asked to be your friend
Nothing better to moan about lol.
Not even like you have to accept the request ....just delete and move on oh damnit send me one then
I’ll think about it.... "
ha oooooooo getting excited now ......damn I dribbled |
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It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.
If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.
So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.
Is castration too good for some? |
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"It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.
If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.
So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.
Is castration too good for some?"
I like your choice of vocabulary...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's bizarre, when not even those who have just joined do it imo.
If I see them and am in a 'forgiving' mind (possibly would shag), I send a wink - but 90% then don't message.
So I view them largely as opportunists who soak up anything they can get, including pics and what they may perceive as in the bag shags.
Is castration too good for some?"
A couple of public castrations would put a stop to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Must confess we have done it a few times, but only because we haven't got naked pics on it, but have also done it by accident, pressed the wrong button and you can't take it back once done, but something we do know is, some people have a quick look before they block lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friend request is directly below wink on my tablet
Small tablet and big fingers means I've sent two friend request in recent days when I'd intended to only wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friend request is directly below wink on my tablet
Small tablet and big fingers means I've sent two friend request in recent days when I'd intended to only wink"
Saved them an inane wink though... |
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