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over a year ago
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We were just wondering if there is sort of secret handshake in swinging that no-one has told us about?
We often go over to chams in Darleston and meet some lovely couple's usually on the smoking deck. We all seem to really click and get on like a house on fire, But how do you to the next stage without actually saying HEY FANCY A FUCK? Im not sure if its a confidence thing or what. We do meet on other couples they either come over to us or we go over to theirs and all play quiet successfully. But in a club environment we find it really hard to get to the next step.
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"We were just wondering if there is sort of secret handshake in swinging that no-one has told us about?
We often go over to chams in Darleston and meet some lovely couple's usually on the smoking deck. We all seem to really click and get on like a house on fire, But how do you to the next stage without actually saying HEY FANCY A FUCK? Im not sure if its a confidence thing or what. We do meet on other couples they either come over to us or we go over to theirs and all play quiet successfully. But in a club environment we find it really hard to get to the next step.
Answers on a postcard please "
I would wait for a pause in the conversation and say, "since we are getting on so well, would you *guys* maybe like to find a room with us?"
*substitute for a word of your choosing*
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"We were just wondering if there is sort of secret handshake in swinging that no-one has told us about?
We often go over to chams in Darleston and meet some lovely couple's usually on the smoking deck. We all seem to really click and get on like a house on fire, But how do you to the next stage without actually saying HEY FANCY A FUCK? Im not sure if its a confidence thing or what. We do meet on other couples they
either come over to us or we go over to theirs and all play quiet successfully. But in a club environment we find it really hard to get to the next step.
Answers on a postcard please
I would wait for a pause in the conversation and say, "since we are getting on so well, would you *guys* maybe like to find a room with us?"
*substitute for a word of your choosing*
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*freaks*
*custard slices*
*porn stars*
is this like a blankety blank game?
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"We were just wondering if there is sort of secret handshake in swinging that no-one has told us about?
We often go over to chams in Darleston and meet some lovely couple's usually on the smoking deck. We all seem to really click and get on like a house on fire, But how do you to the next stage without actually saying HEY FANCY A FUCK? Im not sure if its a confidence thing or what. We do meet on other couples they either come over to us or we go over to theirs and all play quiet successfully. But in a club environment we find it really hard to get to the next step.
Answers on a postcard please "
In clubs i find saying hey fancy a fuck works the best
Consider why you have a problem saying would you like to go play?
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