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We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx"
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!! |
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I’d be a bit hesitant. Went to one some years back and all bar one or two ladies were there just to chat in the kitchen. So any fem daring to venture upstairs had their husbands following them. It was supposed to be a couples party and had around 10-15 couples there just not playing as couples. |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!"
We don’t have single guys because we’re not here to meet single guys and therefor wouldn’t invite them to our house lol.
And yes we don’t invite blacks or Asians. Irish are lovely.
Plus we have pets.  |
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For us its a friendly non judgemental enviroment. We dont go to any house party expecting play as we love to socialise as well.
We have held a party in the past and are planning more going forward. For us its about creating a easy going enviroment where every one is welcome.
We like parties where there is a mixture and varity of people as this makes in my eyes a good social mix.
I understand that everyone has their own preferences and thats fine but that does not mean you can not make friends with someone you would not play with.
We personally would not put restrictions on the guests based on attractiveness etc as who one person finds attractive another will not as its all personal taste. We look at the guests personalities and how they have interacted with each other (we tend to set up a kik group) that way you can see of they would fit in on the night lol.
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"A host that Doesn’t think that he can play with every guest because it’s their party and you won’t say no because you were lucky enough to be invited"
Fuck me this is like bingo. Yes that happened too. It just wasn’t appealing at all being beckoned into a room smelling of human bodies that had been going at it for hours. I’m more a first up on fresh sheets kind of gal  |
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"A host that Doesn’t think that he can play with every guest because it’s their party and you won’t say no because you were lucky enough to be invited
Fuck me this is like bingo. Yes that happened too. It just wasn’t appealing at all being beckoned into a room smelling of human bodies that had been going at it for hours. I’m more a first up on fresh sheets kind of gal "
So true and the I’m going to feel your boobs and bum without asking as you walk through the house at every opportunity!!! |
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"A host that Doesn’t think that he can play with every guest because it’s their party and you won’t say no because you were lucky enough to be invited
Fuck me this is like bingo. Yes that happened too. It just wasn’t appealing at all being beckoned into a room smelling of human bodies that had been going at it for hours. I’m more a first up on fresh sheets kind of gal
So true and the I’m going to feel your boobs and bum without asking as you walk through the house at every opportunity!!!"
For me this is a serious breach of consent and power.
We dont expect to play at any house party we host or go to. Hopefully we do but if not thats how it goes.
We would never say to anyone you have to play as its our party. |
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"A host that Doesn’t think that he can play with every guest because it’s their party and you won’t say no because you were lucky enough to be invited
Fuck me this is like bingo. Yes that happened too. It just wasn’t appealing at all being beckoned into a room smelling of human bodies that had been going at it for hours. I’m more a first up on fresh sheets kind of gal
So true and the I’m going to feel your boobs and bum without asking as you walk through the house at every opportunity!!!
For me this is a serious breach of consent and power.
We dont expect to play at any house party we host or go to. Hopefully we do but if not thats how it goes.
We would never say to anyone you have to play as its our party."
Well it’s basically sexual assault or worse to proceed without consent.
We’d never act like this.
Tbh our parties are small and usually only consist of 4-6 couples who we’ve met previously at a social or club.
We discuss all together the dos and donts before any fun commences lol.
Never had any issues so far touch wood xx
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"A host that Doesn’t think that he can play with every guest because it’s their party and you won’t say no because you were lucky enough to be invited
Fuck me this is like bingo. Yes that happened too. It just wasn’t appealing at all being beckoned into a room smelling of human bodies that had been going at it for hours. I’m more a first up on fresh sheets kind of gal
So true and the I’m going to feel your boobs and bum without asking as you walk through the house at every opportunity!!!
For me this is a serious breach of consent and power.
Unfortunately think we just went to the wrong parties and now we won’t go to any for the thought of it happening again. Live and learn
We dont expect to play at any house party we host or go to. Hopefully we do but if not thats how it goes.
We would never say to anyone you have to play as its our party."
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!"
Here we go.  |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Here we go. "
Think I know why the original poster doesn’t get invited to house parties lol  |
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Most larger (30 plus people) house parties are like this:-
Numerous people including the hosts and there band of followers hanging out in the kitchen all night talking, another group maybe in the dining room who all know each other, the shy people and new to this party are in the living room looking miserable and not talking to each other.
Upstairs where the action is supposed to take place, all the doors must be kept open so lots of the guys from the regulars can leave there wives talking in the kitchen and perv at any action going on, which is rare until 12ish when people are half cut and horny and looking for a fumble, a few regulars will go off and play with people they know well, newbies etc will start playing on there own until another couple makes an awkward move and joins in with them, sometimes the very old gentleman host will come in the room and just wank hear your face, after all he’s let you into his party, he is due some pay back right? So that is your typical larger house party scenario
Sub 12 people house parties in the other hand are wonderful, everybody joins in and plays, those that don’t want to just go home |
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"Most larger (30 plus people) house parties are like this:-
Numerous people including the hosts and there band of followers hanging out in the kitchen all night talking, another group maybe in the dining room who all know each other, the shy people and new to this party are in the living room looking miserable and not talking to each other.
Upstairs where the action is supposed to take place, all the doors must be kept open so lots of the guys from the regulars can leave there wives talking in the kitchen and perv at any action going on, which is rare until 12ish when people are half cut and horny and looking for a fumble, a few regulars will go off and play with people they know well, newbies etc will start playing on there own until another couple makes an awkward move and joins in with them, sometimes the very old gentleman host will come in the room and just wank hear your face, after all he’s let you into his party, he is due some pay back right? So that is your typical larger house party scenario
Sub 12 people house parties in the other hand are wonderful, everybody joins in and plays, those that don’t want to just go home "
That is not our experiences of house parties we have had at all. The ones we attend are fun easy going events where no means no and play can be public or private
We have made some great friends and some great fun at each of them and always look forward to the next one |
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"Most larger (30 plus people) house parties are like this:-
Numerous people including the hosts and there band of followers hanging out in the kitchen all night talking, another group maybe in the dining room who all know each other, the shy people and new to this party are in the living room looking miserable and not talking to each other.
Upstairs where the action is supposed to take place, all the doors must be kept open so lots of the guys from the regulars can leave there wives talking in the kitchen and perv at any action going on, which is rare until 12ish when people are half cut and horny and looking for a fumble, a few regulars will go off and play with people they know well, newbies etc will start playing on there own until another couple makes an awkward move and joins in with them, sometimes the very old gentleman host will come in the room and just wank hear your face, after all he’s let you into his party, he is due some pay back right? So that is your typical larger house party scenario
Sub 12 people house parties in the other hand are wonderful, everybody joins in and plays, those that don’t want to just go home "
Smaller parties are the way forward then. I wasn’t sure because the only ones I’ve been to I’ve hosted. And they were fabulous but then I’d be biased  |
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"Most larger (30 plus people) house parties are like this:-
Numerous people including the hosts and there band of followers hanging out in the kitchen all night talking, another group maybe in the dining room who all know each other, the shy people and new to this party are in the living room looking miserable and not talking to each other.
Upstairs where the action is supposed to take place, all the doors must be kept open so lots of the guys from the regulars can leave there wives talking in the kitchen and perv at any action going on, which is rare until 12ish when people are half cut and horny and looking for a fumble, a few regulars will go off and play with people they know well, newbies etc will start playing on there own until another couple makes an awkward move and joins in with them, sometimes the very old gentleman host will come in the room and just wank hear your face, after all he’s let you into his party, he is due some pay back right? So that is your typical larger house party scenario
Sub 12 people house parties in the other hand are wonderful, everybody joins in and plays, those that don’t want to just go home
Smaller parties are the way forward then. I wasn’t sure because the only ones I’ve been to I’ve hosted. And they were fabulous but then I’d be biased "
Oh not saying every large party is like this, but everything mentioned above we’ve experienced and some of them more than once, in fact we are off to a house party tomorrow night let’s see how it goes, yes small gatherings are always the best, non players don’t go, we go swinging to swing |
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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"As for me.A good house party must have the following features.
Well vetted guest.
Relaxed and clean environment.
Smoke free area.
What about you? What is your perfect house party."
As above but a hot tub makes the perfect party. Also showers available to freshen up after playing - got to be nice and fresh for the next play. Hate stale bodies yuch. |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!"
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice! |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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Keys in a bowl go down well I heard 
Tbh I haven’t been to a party in years, haven’t been invited. I would only go if I knew 2 or more couples. Also I would only go if good mix of couples, single ladies and men.
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"I've only been to one but it wasn't my cup of tea. I knew that as soon as someone answered the door wearing what I remember being a string vest!!  "
Yep you’d be surprised how many people just don’t make the effort to dress up ie they look like crap |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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i Have been to social house parties and turned up in jeans and footy top. But i knew the people at the party and a bit of play happened late night but it wasn’t a play party
For me in jeans and a shirt  |
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"For us its a friendly non judgemental enviroment. We dont go to any house party expecting play as we love to socialise as well.
We have held a party in the past and are planning more going forward. For us its about creating a easy going enviroment where every one is welcome.
We like parties where there is a mixture and varity of people as this makes in my eyes a good social mix.
I understand that everyone has their own preferences and thats fine but that does not mean you can not make friends with someone you would not play with.
We personally would not put restrictions on the guests based on attractiveness etc as who one person finds attractive another will not as its all personal taste. We look at the guests personalities and how they have interacted with each other (we tend to set up a kik group) that way you can see of they would fit in on the night lol.
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this.
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice!"
Sorry either we haven’t worded it right or there a misunderstanding.
The parties we host only have attractive couples and bi fems and no single guys.
We don’t dictate to anyone else who they can and can’t invite lol wouldn’t dream of doing that.
If we turn up to someone else’s party and it’s not our thing we politely say our goodbyes and leave.
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Wait... I'm confused - - how do you define attractive.?? So it should read - people that you personally find attractive... But not necessarily what other guests will.?? After all I might find you unattractive but the other guests OMG.. Sooooo |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx"
Only attractive couples you say? Is that aesthetically attractive or personality traits?
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
Only attractive couples you say? Is that aesthetically attractive or personality traits?
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We like couples who are attractive with good personalities and we’ve been lucky enough to meet loads. xx |
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"Wait... I'm confused - - how do you define attractive.?? So it should read - people that you personally find attractive... But not necessarily what other guests will.?? After all I might find you unattractive but the other guests OMG.. Sooooo "
Yes people we personally find attractive.
At our parties which are small 4-6 couples if people don’t want to play with others they don’t have to it’s not a free for all.
Why would you want to have sex with someone you don’t find physically and mentally attractive?? |
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George annie. I dont think this was aimed at you. My interpretation is that skyblues remarks were aimed at the person who added the comment to your post. The bit where he says no blacks paddies or pets. I didnt see anything wrong with your initial post x |
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"George annie. I dont think this was aimed at you. My interpretation is that skyblues remarks were aimed at the person who added the comment to your post. The bit where he says no blacks paddies or pets. I didnt see anything wrong with your initial post x"
Phew xx |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice!"
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"Not everyone whos attractive have good personalities there are some you prob would class as unattractive have as good a personality "
For us they have to have both xx
There’s a lot of couples out there who fit that criteria.
We’re not supermodels and don’t expect to meet supermodels but they must be physically attractive to us and visa Versa.
Personality is also important but you only find that out after an initial meet so you must go with the first impression which is physical.
We also check verifications to see if people seem to have a good personality as that can be seen by the type and number of verifications xx
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I'd expect games, hidden camera sketches, the chance to win prizes, a grand musical finale, at least one heart warming story and of course a visit from Mr. Blobby. |
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We’re hosting our first party next Saturday in our small cottage. We’re inviting 12 people including us, 4 couples, 2M and 2F, and we have met (as in a meet) all 4 singles and one couple. The other two couples we have met socially, either in person or in one case by video chat (and WhatsApp group). None of the others have met each other, although we released fabnames so that they could chat if they wanted to.
For us, we just want everyone to have a good time, and if that means getting d*unk and having a laugh rather than an orgy of limbs that’s fine (although we might like the latter too lol).
So, no pressure and a good mix of people we actually like already. Fingers crossed it all works out... |
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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago
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I occasionally host small parties (very intimate at only between 8-10 people).
Whilst I obviously ensure that my (small) home is perfectly clean and that the music, lighting and general atmosphere are conducive to a sexy night, by far the most important factor is the people in attendance - its all about the right people (including ratio of men to women and personalities) for the kind of evening you are hoping to have (and this can vary a lot). |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice!"
I think you’ll find more single guys haven’t commented because like me they are fed up with the blatant “no single guys” discrimination on here !!!! |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice!
I think you’ll find more single guys haven’t commented because like me they are fed up with the blatant “no single guys” discrimination on here !!!!"
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"Not everyone whos attractive have good personalities there are some you prob would class as unattractive have as good a personality "
i am one of those |
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If i ever had a house party i would include party motivator/butler to keep the people drinks top up as well have 10ft jachzzi and nice big house with loads of rooms.  |
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx"
It is your party and you can invite who you want of course.
It does smack of only inviting people who you want to play with yourselves. Who you find attractive others may not and vice versa. Only bi fems allowed and no single males further adds to this. It is not in the spirit of a house party and sounds more like your own personal gangbang to me.
Nothing wrong with that at all just putting another view into the mix. |
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"As for me.A good house party must have the following features.
Well vetted guest.
Relaxed and clean environment.
Smoke free area.
What about you? What is your perfect house party."
Lots of hardcore fucking to be honest. |
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"As for me.A good house party must have the following features.
Well vetted guest.
Relaxed and clean environment.
Smoke free area.
What about you? What is your perfect house party."
Pet free...
Free drink...
Free food...
Indoor pool...
Lots of play rooms...
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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
No single guys eh? Why not add no blacks, no Irish and no pets !!!!!!
Are you for real? What makes you so entitled to dictate to party hosts who they should or shouldn't invite? Unbelievable attitude. Surprised more single guys haven't commented on your reply as you really do them a huge injustice!"
He speaks for himself not the whole of the male population of fab. He does no one else an injustice. You do by making his comment 'typical single male' attitude. You prove the point he was getting at. |
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By *ieman300Man
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"As for me.A good house party must have the following features.
Well vetted guest.
Relaxed and clean environment.
Smoke free area.
What about you? What is your perfect house party.
Lots of hardcore fucking to be honest."
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
It is your party and you can invite who you want of course.
It does smack of only inviting people who you want to play with yourselves. Who you find attractive others may not and vice versa. Only bi fems allowed and no single males further adds to this. It is not in the spirit of a house party and sounds more like your own personal gangbang to me.
Nothing wrong with that at all just putting another view into the mix."
Isn’t that the point of a private house party though? You’d only invite people you would want to be around and not people you don’t? |
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"We have them regularly most people either advertise them in the meet section or we just put them on our profile.
We are very picky though. Only attractive couples and single bi fems no single guys xx
It is your party and you can invite who you want of course.
It does smack of only inviting people who you want to play with yourselves. Who you find attractive others may not and vice versa. Only bi fems allowed and no single males further adds to this. It is not in the spirit of a house party and sounds more like your own personal gangbang to me.
Nothing wrong with that at all just putting another view into the mix."
We organised a house party and been to a few as well.
When deciding who we invited we looked at people we get on with and have a laugh with.
We did not play with all of them or did we expect too.
With the single men issue we did say it was for couples and friends of ours male or female singles. But we did have 100s of messages from single blokes asking to come, so you can understand why alot of people so no single men.
Wjat you do find is house party organisers will invite single men that are known to them and friemds with alot of the time |
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