Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise. |
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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS
over a year ago
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" Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise. "
No, I do the same. Webcam is fantasy. Does not translate to real life. |
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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago
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" Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise.
No, I do the same. Webcam is fantasy. Does not translate to real life. "
Totally agree |
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" Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise. "
Everyone has to start somewhere,maybe you could cam them,and then decide.good luck.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A webcam veri proves that the person matches the pictures.
A meet veri can be like an MOT, valid at the time but no guarantee of future performance.
*From the guy with one veri. By webcam. |
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" Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise. Everyone has to start somewhere,maybe you could cam them,and then decide.good luck."
Plenty more fish in the sea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps sometimes we should look more for the reasons to meet rather than the consistently negative approach often taken of finding reasons not to meet.
Veries by cam or any other way prove nothing other than a person exists...
The only way anything works here is if people do meet rather than run away from meets...
Isn't that the reason the site exists? |
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"Perhaps sometimes we should look more for the reasons to meet rather than the consistently negative approach often taken of finding reasons not to meet.
Veries by cam or any other way prove nothing other than a person exists...
The only way anything works here is if people do meet rather than run away from meets...
Isn't that the reason the site exists?"
Maybe. But there's no point making hard work harder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do think that there are an awful lot of fakes hiding behind webcams and dodgy verifications, I would say 25% on here have no intention of meeting "
Statistics complied by alternative statisics created in the absence of any empirical evidence dot org. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do think that there are an awful lot of fakes hiding behind webcams and dodgy verifications, I would say 25% on here have no intention of meeting
Statistics complied by alternative statisics created in the absence of any empirical evidence dot org."
Personal experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can we clarify the difference between a timewaster and a fake.
Surely a fake is someone who falsifies their identity on here.
A timewaster would be someone who genuinely exists, arranges a meet but doesn't turn up.
If it helps, there are also people who have real lives and sometimes that real life gets in the way of meeting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Webcam veris only suggest a non swinging, attention seeking person and when we get the odd message off people with webcam only veris we ignore and delete |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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web cam veri's = means nothing they should be stopped like the old phone ones all they mean is the person is on cam I want to read veri's that state the person/s turn up at least |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And to frank, a lot of webcam veris aren't. They're snapchat veris. I've been asked several time to verify women who've sent me a couple of pictures. Declined obviously only for someone else to do it. It's bollocks obviously |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"A webcam veri proves that the person matches the pictures.
A meet veri can be like an MOT, valid at the time but no guarantee of future performance.
*From the guy with one veri. By webcam."
By me. Hopefully with a meet in the near future |
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We only like to webcam and our veris and prof reads that way
However if they been on a long time and only have webcam veris then it could b a sign
Starting to think the site needs breaking down into genuine canners and genuine swingers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Verifications do not guarantee someone will turn up, just means that at some point they have!
I wouldn't meet someone who only had web cam veri's nor would I meet anyone who's veri's are all from hidden profiles! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A webcam veri proves that the person matches the pictures.
A meet veri can be like an MOT, valid at the time but no guarantee of future performance.
*From the guy with one veri. By webcam."
lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get what you mean. I'd be put off messaging someone if their veris were all from social meets. Meeting for a coffee and meeting for a fuck should not be classed as the same in my eyes |
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Web cam veris are a big problem for those who really meet . Why ? Because the site allows you to get the verified tick from a webcam veri , and you don’t have to show it was from a webcam , so the mug wanting a meet thinks you’re a genuine swinger who meets up , when you haven’t .
Crazy but true .
And no , we would rather risk an unverified meet than a meet with someone who has only webcam veris . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can we clarify the difference between a timewaster and a fake.
Surely a fake is someone who falsifies their identity on here.
A timewaster would be someone who genuinely exists, arranges a meet but doesn't turn up.
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This
If it helps, there are also people who have real lives and sometimes that real life gets in the way of meeting.
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"I get what you mean. I'd be put off messaging someone if their veris were all from social meets. Meeting for a coffee and meeting for a fuck should not be classed as the same in my eyes"
 you might find yourself taking someone out who just likes to be bought coffee. |
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"I get what you mean. I'd be put off messaging someone if their veris were all from social meets. Meeting for a coffee and meeting for a fuck should not be classed as the same in my eyes
you might find yourself taking someone out who just likes to be bought coffee. "
Perish the thought |
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" Just found myself put off from messaging someone as all the veris were from webcams. Is this a usual reaction do you think? They said they were looking to meet, but their veri's seem to say otherwise. "
Agreed. It would put me off. Also when someone has been on the site for a few years and has only coffee meets as veri's it just makes me wonder as well. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
We have a mixture of webcam veris and meet veris. To be honest though we have had more meets than displayed due to the fact we only do club meets. Both here in England and Abroad. Lots of people who we have met are not members of FAB, but they have been awesome meets.
I personally think people put too much emphasis on meeting only people with veris. FAB is a fickle world, but, clubs are the real playground. Xxxxx Suzi  |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
So what is cybersex and voyeurism ????? That s not swinging either.
Webcams can be fun for those who like a bit of exhibitionism.
Each to their own. The main thing is just having fun, wether by meets or cams. And we are happily having plenty of fun xxxx Suzi |
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