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By *itnkat OP Couple
over a year ago
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We often hear of bad meets with single guys but not good meets we had a great meet with a single guy he had lots of varies so wasn't sure if he was just a player but he treated us both great and was like a porn star! Never met again guess he is in demand any one els had a great meet |
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over a year ago
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"We're not all cads and bounders, you know!
Unless, you include those 'playing away', in which case I guess I am.....  "
People 'playing away' have as much right to use this site as singles. All we ask, is you are up front about your status, then we can make an informed decision to whom we meet  |
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"People 'playing away' have as much right to use this site as singles. All we ask, is you are up front about your status, then we can make an informed decision to whom we meet "
First line of my profile has always included "in sexless marriage", which I think makes my status clear! |
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"We often hear of bad meets with single guys but not good meets we had a great meet with a single guy he had lots of varies so wasn't sure if he was just a player but he treated us both great and was like a porn star! Never met again guess he is in demand any one els had a great meet "
I'm genuinely interested in two things... What makes him a player? Is this because he's popular and enjoyed by those he does meet and so is maybe enjoying that popularity (remember it only lasts a short tim as we often change).
And why would you think that you'd never meet again? |
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"People 'playing away' have as much right to use this site as singles. All we ask, is you are up front about your status, then we can make an informed decision to whom we meet
First line of my profile has always included "in sexless marriage", which I think makes my status clear!"
I was talking in 'general', not shouting at you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Majority of single guys on here are nice ?
Was that meant to be a question?
Just curious!"
Yes and no, I just didn't understand the point of the topic lol
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By *itnkat OP Couple
over a year ago
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"We often hear of bad meets with single guys but not good meets we had a great meet with a single guy he had lots of varies so wasn't sure if he was just a player but he treated us both great and was like a porn star! Never met again guess he is in demand any one els had a great meet
I'm genuinely interested in two things... What makes him a player? Is this because he's popular and enjoyed by those he does meet and so is maybe enjoying that popularity (remember it only lasts a short tim as we often change).
And why would you think that you'd never meet again?"
basicly as he is so busy and I. Demand |
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"Majority of single guys on here are nice ?
Was that meant to be a question?
Just curious!
Yes and no, I just didn't understand the point of the topic lol
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I think the clue lay in this bit.
"any one els had a great meet" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We often hear of bad meets with single guys but not good meets we had a great meet with a single guy he had lots of varies so wasn't sure if he was just a player but he treated us both great and was like a porn star! Never met again guess he is in demand any one els had a great meet
I'm genuinely interested in two things... What makes him a player? Is this because he's popular and enjoyed by those he does meet and so is maybe enjoying that popularity (remember it only lasts a short tim as we often change).
And why would you think that you'd never meet again?basicly as he is so busy and I. Demand "
I'd not be happy being called a player in that context... I always thought a player was someone who messes others about, much like those who don't show up for arranged meets or who just use others for their own purposes. If he's popular he's obviously not using others or they'd not want him back...must be giving them what they want.
It's hard to win as a single guy on here at times  
If we can't get it were seen as must not be worth meeting , if we get a fair bit then we're tarts |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Majority of single guys on here are nice ?
Was that meant to be a question?
Just curious!
Yes and no, I just didn't understand the point of the topic lol
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Apart from a few, all the men I've spoken to are nice enough. I've spoken to a lot of men, over the years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Have to say, not an elite swinger and hey no mean an experienced one. But sometimes when scrolling through I read things and attempt to message but end up feeling that I’m being tarred with the same brush as the idiots on here. The “single guy” seems to mean several different things to a lot of people and can’t help but feel like a nuisance sometimes. |
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It's hard to win as a single guy on here at times
If we can't get it were seen as must not be worth meeting , if we get a fair bit then we're tarts "
Strangely enough, that's very similar to what men have been saying about women for, (hmm, dunno?) hundreds of years!?!
If she doesn't, forget it, she's frigid; if she does, she's a slapper!
Just an observation of course! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Majority of single guys on here are nice ?
Was that meant to be a question?
Just curious!
Yes and no, I just didn't understand the point of the topic lol
I think the clue lay in this bit.
"any one els had a great meet""
Ah ok I'll be honest I realise it was a question due to the lack of punctuation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is hard to get across that you are nice, friendly, polite on your profile as there are so many idiots, fakes and chancers signed up too. I think most single ladies go on the pictures and hope for the best! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We often hear of bad meets with single guys but not good meets we had a great meet with a single guy he had lots of varies so wasn't sure if he was just a player but he treated us both great and was like a porn star! Never met again guess he is in demand any one els had a great meet "
I always have great meets its all about personality the ability to communicate and have great sex if it gets that far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a nice guy with a gsoh and relatively attractive guy but I'm not 6ft plus, dont have a 6 pack and don't have a big cock..so if a guy comes along with my qualities plus the ones mentioned 99% are going to choose the other guy..unfortunately for us short nice guys that's the way of fab |
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