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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol  |
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over a year ago
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol "
Photo wise teasing shots in clothes also bum pics.
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol "
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol "
- Not being able to accommodate as a single male pricks a lot of people's ears up.
- More photos, not of your cock.
- Get your personality onto paper better.
- Be patient.
- Have standards.
- Use the forum to get your personality across.
Back to point 1. Many women don't want to assist you cheating (not saying you are). IF you are, there are some women who do actually get off on that.. so you're better off being honest about it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
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Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics  Is there any lads on here without a cock on display? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience is the key my friend. 2 weeks isn't a long time to go on here without an initial meet. At least you are verified real by a female, for meeting up in real world. Don't take any notice of anyone saying the site is not for you. You are a fine looking chap, stick at it XXX |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah I see what you mean I look a bit vanilla iv seen a lot of posts similar to mine and replies are all different don't put to much in your profile don't list what your into do list what your into I guess pleasing everybody will never happen lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you I'm not after right here right now just going for a drink and a chat is how I would like to start things if it didn't work out then fine but trying to get someone to do that is really difficult I was going try the club scene but I'll say it even though most men won't the thought of going it alone scares the shit out of me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics Is there any lads on here without a cock on display? "
Have one or two... but have about 10 that arent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics Is there any lads on here without a cock on display? "
Quite alot and most of them are successful.. most woman want to see the guy, your more than just a cock arent you? Show your personalty not be a sheep like the rest of the cock out guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not hideous but you look kind of pissed off.
I'd also want to see more body shots. "
I know I really wasn't though I was at work parked up I'll change it though I'm a little self conscience my front camera adds about a stone to my face I look like Patrick star from spongebob I'll just man up lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fuckmenow.com
If after 2 weeks you want to quit, then the swinging works is deffo not for you.
Good luck though..."
Btw my point is no one chats just get ignored how can I improve my chances of that not happening basically never said I want to quit it's more a case of should I do I not fit the bill I apologise that I wasn't clear enough for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome to fuckmenow.com
If after 2 weeks you want to quit, then the swinging works is deffo not for you.
Good luck though...
Btw my point is no one chats just get ignored how can I improve my chances of that not happening basically never said I want to quit it's more a case of should I do I not fit the bill I apologise that I wasn't clear enough for you"
Like I said.. work on the profile first.. take the good advice on offer from men and women with some experience.
There's no reason you shouldn't fit someone's type.. I'm no oil painting, six pack toting, comedian with a huge knob.. I just know the kind of woman I'm attracted to.. it took me a while to get going and I'm not the best at it myself yet... nobody is..
Sort your profile.. read a lot in the forum, interact with it in a positive way.. Ask reasonable questions.. don't be afraid of looking like a noob.. you will get sarky shit off people, just ignore it and respond to the positive people.
By then... you'll have a better idea..
I tend to use the forum to find the kind of women I like. They stand out and like you.. I'm prepared to travel to go meet some of them. So you have that in your favour. |
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics Is there any lads on here without a cock on display? "
So not a lesbian lol I like cock plenty just don't need to see it until I'm playing with it.
And yes there are loads of men who know how to display a good shop window. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics Is there any lads on here without a cock on display? "
I find your comment bloody patronising!
Unless your a lesbian? I mean really? I don't like cock pics either, otherwise I will just think you are a cock, and to be honest, with that comment, I still do!  |
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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago
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1 in 5 doesn't seem that bad a ratio at all (maybe a single guy can offer some persepective) but unless you look like a Calvin Klein model Pof or tinder are probably more like 1 in 20 if that so it's not bad.
Also worth noting you can only fit so many messages in your inbox so given one woman in the free chat bit received 1000 messages in 3 days she'd probably have to clear her inbox of 20 or so messages 50 times to see all 1000 unless I'm just using the site wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"1 in 5 doesn't seem that bad a ratio at all (maybe a single guy can offer some persepective) but unless you look like a Calvin Klein model Pof or tinder are probably more like 1 in 20 if that so it's not bad.
Also worth noting you can only fit so many messages in your inbox so given one woman in the free chat bit received 1000 messages in 3 days she'd probably have to clear her inbox of 20 or so messages 50 times to see all 1000 unless I'm just using the site wrong."
I'd block everyone if I were a woman and just hunt on my own terms... 1000... I'd give up trying  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh sorry I offended you like I said in the question 'curiosity' been the main point however I do apologise no offence was intentional just badly worded |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not hideous but you look kind of pissed off.
I'd also want to see more body shots.
I know I really wasn't though I was at work parked up I'll change it though I'm a little self conscience my front camera adds about a stone to my face I look like Patrick star from spongebob I'll just man up lol"
Don't hold the camera low and then look down at it to take a selfie.
It's probably the most unflattering angle anyone can use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got no cock pics mate . Nearly Lol girls profiles state they don't want them "
lol.. they say they don't.. experience tells me they want one.. just to know you have something that'll fit nicely. Nobody wants one as a profile pic though.. especially if you use the forum a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh sorry I offended you like I said in the question 'curiosity' been the main point however I do apologise no offence was intentional just badly worded"
Another top tip dude... if you're replying to something or someone specific in a thread.. press the quote button at the bottom of what they said...
That way people know who you're directing your comments at. If you don't, things can get very confusing.
I've not figured out how to take small snippets of that quote instead of the whole thing.. if you figure that out.. let me know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Oh sorry I offended you like I said in the question 'curiosity' been the main point however I do apologise no offence was intentional just badly worded
Another top tip dude... if you're replying to something or someone specific in a thread.. press the quote button at the bottom of what they said...
That way people know who you're directing your comments at. If you don't, things can get very confusing.
I've not figured out how to take small snippets of that quote instead of the whole thing.. if you figure that out.. let me know."
Ok mate thanks it's turned into a awkward noob forum it's going to be a long few weeks before this forum clears lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh sorry I offended you like I said in the question 'curiosity' been the main point however I do apologise no offence was intentional just badly worded
Another top tip dude... if you're replying to something or someone specific in a thread.. press the quote button at the bottom of what they said...
That way people know who you're directing your comments at. If you don't, things can get very confusing.
I've not figured out how to take small snippets of that quote instead of the whole thing.. if you figure that out.. let me know.
Ok mate thanks it's turned into a awkward noob forum it's going to be a long few weeks before this forum clears lol "
Well done There's hope for you yet  We've all been there, though some forget, or think they were born perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol "
you have one meet veri and its a guy but you're straight only one pic which is your face profile info doesn't give away much ,you like dogging and possibly bareback ,women read profiles and your profile is your advert ,your lack of success is probably attributed to your advert ,hope that helps  |
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol
2 weeks mate lol joker
I've seen worse you have made a good effort in your bio so that's great to me though it's a bit boring I like funny and there was no funny, I also don't like cock pics but that's just me.
Ok brutal but noted out of curiosity unless your lesbian with not liking cock pics Is there any lads on here without a cock on display?
I find your comment bloody patronising!
Unless your a lesbian? I mean really? I don't like cock pics either, otherwise I will just think you are a cock, and to be honest, with that comment, I still do! "
I am not lesbian either and don't like cock pictures either! Is not the cock picture to determine the meet or not !
Some guys don't realize that we are different mentally , pictures of cock = nothing ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol you have one meet veri and its a guy but you're straight only one pic which is your face profile info doesn't give away much ,you like dogging and possibly bareback ,women read profiles and your profile is your advert ,your lack of success is probably attributed to your advert ,hope that helps "
I'll agree with all of that.. but you should take back the bareback comment.. You're just making shit up. Even if he does, he's not mentioned that at all.. You can't make stuff up, I could make a few assumptions about you from your profile.. and you could do the same to me.. doesn't make it true.
Men don't need to clamber over one another to get female attention you know? Give them more credit than that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok I know that I have been on here a short while I'm just wondering on whether to stick it out or give up I'm not after attention just advice.
Does the patience pay off?
I message women/couples and 20% I get a reply I'm polite and give compliments where there due but they seem to delete the message without even reading it I always read there profile to check what they are looking for I just don't know where I'm going wrong be honest please is it that I'm hideous? Not enough photos? (If so what do people want to see?) I just need advice I'm losing hope lol you have one meet veri and its a guy but you're straight only one pic which is your face profile info doesn't give away much ,you like dogging and possibly bareback ,women read profiles and your profile is your advert ,your lack of success is probably attributed to your advert ,hope that helps
I'll agree with all of that.. but you should take back the bareback comment.. You're just making shit up. Even if he does, he's not mentioned that at all.. You can't make stuff up, I could make a few assumptions about you from your profile.. and you could do the same to me.. doesn't make it true.
Men don't need to clamber over one another to get female attention you know? Give them more credit than that. "
green arrow lead me to that but I'm not saying anything about him doing that just saying what women may read into that |
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