Hey guys and girls.
Just wanted opions or thoughts. We have a lovely neighbour who lives around the corner. She is currently a single mother who is attractive and friendly.
I Tom, walk to the school with her nearly every morning and we have a chat just to pass the time. I have the feeling she likes me and she must know that i like her.
Kelly is fully aware of our time together and doesnt mind. The chat is nothing serious or deep and we keep it just like, how was your weekend, how was the gym etc.
Moving on, kelly started talking about her after we got in from a night out at the weekend. She said why dont you bring her home record it and fuck her on our bed or go around hers and send me video at the end. Obviously shocked!! this turned me on and now i want to. I am completely into kelly, we always do this togther and would prefer a 3 way instead of just her. What i would like to do is invite her to a club and show her what we like to do. How do we or i approach her and not come across as a cheating married man. |
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Just remember millions of people ain't swingers and would find thus idea really really offensive ..
Could report you to the feds.
Could tell her dad or boyfriend or ex .
You'd have trouble knocking on your door
Not a good idea ...... |
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As others have said, getting Kelly to raise the topic might be the way forward - be careful though that’s going to be quite a shock for her, particularly the filming bit!
You do run the risk of alienating her by coming on *too* heavy, why not just start with inviting her for a drink (maybe the 3 of you?) or around for a meal. The sex bombshell can follow later! |
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In all honesty, if I wasn't into swinging and someone I knew approached me with either of those ideas I'd be backing off, especially from a marries man.
What if it all blows up and you have to put up with the fact that you're neighbours? What if it becomes playground gossip at school which all the parents find out about and some of the children over hear? And women do talk to men to be friendly, not just because they fancy them.
Of course, it could all be a perfect scenario, but in a risky situation like this I think you'd do better to err on the side of caution. |
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"Just remember millions of people ain't swingers and would find thus idea really really offensive ..
Could report you to the feds.
Could tell her dad or boyfriend or ex .
You'd have trouble knocking on your door
Not a good idea ......"
He's only making a pass at her....no need for all the drama. Op best way would be to invite her for a night out with you and your wife then hope like fuck she's game when it's mentioned  |
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I think you all pretty much nailed it. I would feel really uncomfortable in dropping any hint. Kelly doesnt have time to do the run as i work from home. But i do like the sound of a drink with her if we ever met her out. |
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"In all honesty, if I wasn't into swinging and someone I knew approached me with either of those ideas I'd be backing off, especially from a marries man.
What if it all blows up and you have to put up with the fact that you're neighbours? What if it becomes playground gossip at school which all the parents find out about and some of the children over hear? And women do talk to men to be friendly, not just because they fancy them.
Of course, it could all be a perfect scenario, but in a risky situation like this I think you'd do better to err on the side of caution. "
Good point with the school! |
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"In all honesty, if I wasn't into swinging and someone I knew approached me with either of those ideas I'd be backing off, especially from a marries man.
What if it all blows up and you have to put up with the fact that you're neighbours? What if it becomes playground gossip at school which all the parents find out about and some of the children over hear? And women do talk to men to be friendly, not just because they fancy them.
Of course, it could all be a perfect scenario, but in a risky situation like this I think you'd do better to err on the side of caution.
Good point with the school!"
I've seen a case where a parents' sex life has been involved in their children's school life. One of my friends was in a relationship with a prostitute and they were swingers too. A falling out occurred with my friend's mum and my friend's son's best friend's mum and the gossip about the prostitution and swinging and it went around her daughter's school too. Deeply unpleasant for the kids. |
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Dear Deirdre,
I've recently moved into a new neighborhood after a bad split with the father of my child, all is great, however I walk to school with a neighbor, who seems happily married. Lately I get the impression he fancies me. I don't want to be the talk of the schoolyard or labelled a marriage wrecker, how do I tell him I don't mind the friendship but he can keep his chode to himself.
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It sounds to me like you and Kelly want to take advantage of this young lady. It's not on to suggest filming yourself fucking her on your bed. It's disgusting, she's a young mum not a swinger. Just because she's chatting to you doesn't mean she is up for being fucked, filmed and used a a sex toy x |
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