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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? "
Welcome to fab! Push on, you'll get a bite in about 6 years time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe write a bit more about yaself dude. Your kinks, quirks, personality. Profile is a bit bare. But carry on and keep trying. If I can get meets then so can you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to say mate but they are just not interested.
It's difficult here for alot of guys so you have to make yourself outstanding to get a look in.
The ratio of men to women here is massive..... so you have to stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately it's full of egotistical and at times down right rude people who don't have the decency to reply...and don't start giving "it's their choice" blah! blah,quite ironic that people want you to be genuine and respectful and so on,and then act in exactly the opposite manner...sent an email with a genuine and respectful enquiry and was blocked,wtf is that about!!..rude !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately it's full of egotistical and at times down right rude people who don't have the decency to reply...and don't start giving "it's their choice" blah! blah,quite ironic that people want you to be genuine and respectful and so on,and then act in exactly the opposite manner...sent an email with a genuine and respectful enquiry and was blocked,wtf is that about!!..rude !!"
one thing you have to remember is if you are messaging a woman or couple there is probably 300 other people doing the same if a woman or couple was to reply to every one you would still be moaning they respond but never meet because they are always replying to massages. just be courteous to the fact the ratio of women to men is probably 300-1 on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will say, that most women will look at a profile, before even opening a message. That's the first port of call to address, if you want to stand out. Good luck lovely  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? "
Mate, it's the norm on here. The ratio of single guys to girls is insane and when you add to the fact that couples are after single girls too. We are really up against it.
This place is darwinian sexual selection on steroids. You can't undo millions of years of evolution, just cause someone has made a swinging website. It might be a bitter pill to swallow, but it's the reality on here. It's the way it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? "
your profile is your advert three very omnipresent cock pics and your age may play a part in your success  |
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"I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? "
Go to an organised social or a club. Get your face and personality out there. |
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"Unfortunately it's full of egotistical and at times down right rude people who don't have the decency to reply...and don't start giving "it's their choice" blah! blah,quite ironic that people want you to be genuine and respectful and so on,and then act in exactly the opposite manner...sent an email with a genuine and respectful enquiry and was blocked,wtf is that about!!..rude !!"
People block because they don't want to interact with you. It's harsh but a fact of life on fab. Your experience here will be more pleasant if you accept that, as unfair as it seems. As I said to the op go to a club or an organised social.
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Your profile and first message is your shop window. Why would we go for the shop with a couple of wrinkly apples when next door has piles of fresh, ripe, juicy fruit? Freshen up that window! Put yourself on display! Entice us into your shop! |
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"I’m finding it so hard to get any one to chat or meet, I’ve done all the searches and found many in my age range but all I seem to get is your message has been deleted, can anyone help please? your profile is your advert three very omnipresent cock pics and your age may play a part in your success "
This!
Do a forum search for ‘profile advice’, there are literally hundreds of them. Mainly, women look at profiles before reading a message & if yours is offputting, it won’t matter how good your message is!
Good luck! |
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