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What's more elusive unicorns or bi guys

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So we're having a discussion between us two about which is more difficult to find within the scene. Lou thinks it's bi guys and I'm firmly in the girls who are into couples are hardiest to find.

Wondering where other people's opinions on this sits?

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By *ollyGWoman over a year ago

Southampton

Bi guys are really easy to find on here lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We're a dime a dozen.

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By *achelnMarkCouple over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

"Bi guys are really easy to find on here lol"

Find on here, yes, agree, easy to find.

However those not playing away, genuinely bi and into both halves of a couple, are relatively normal, and turn up and not go UNLOS after agreeing a date, not so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Genuine Bi guys who are actually bi and not saying it to just get a meet with a couple are rare yes. (Sadly)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Bi guys are really easy to find on here lol

Find on here, yes, agree, easy to find.

However those not playing away, genuinely bi and into both halves of a couple, are relatively normal, and turn up and not go UNLOS after agreeing a date, not so

We concur. The truly single being the hardest to find in our experience.

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

I think guys who are attracted equally to men and women are quite rare. It’s not just being attracted by a nice cock - it’s finding guys as equally attractive from all aspects. For example, if you could have a relationship with either a man or a woman then I think that’s an indicator.

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By *eauhoMan over a year ago

City Centre

Try finding a bi unicorn, bloody nightmare!

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By *Carver-Man over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think guys who are attracted equally to men and women are quite rare. It’s not just being attracted by a nice cock - it’s finding guys as equally attractive from all aspects. For example, if you could have a relationship with either a man or a woman then I think that’s an indicator."

This is exactly it - For the longest time I didn't think of myself as bi because so many dudes make me nervous or uncomfortable. And even now on here, it's a crapshoot whether I'll be into both partners. It doesn't make me any less bi.

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

I get on really well with bi guys - I think I’m understanding and give them lots of space to do what they feel comfortable with and very much in their own time. The last thing they need is pressure. Some guys are openly bi and at ease, but others take a long time even to start thinking about it.

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By *cunnylassCouple over a year ago

Exeter

In our experience bi guys aren't difficult to find.We've never searched for unicorns so we don't really know how elusive they are.

Mike

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

"In our experience bi guys aren't difficult to find.We've never searched for unicorns so we don't really know how elusive they are.

Mike"

Being bi is more than just liking sex with men and women. If you are bi you could could think seriously about settling down with either a man or a woman; now how many could honestly say that they could do that?

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

To find a good one is hard. I play with couples and happy to play with the guy if he is fit in front of his Mrs and go to where it ends up.

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By *ustJ0dieTV/TS over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"In our experience bi guys aren't difficult to find.We've never searched for unicorns so we don't really know how elusive they are.

Mike

What a load of tosh. It's nothing of the sort.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Never had a problem finding either

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

"In our experience bi guys aren't difficult to find.We've never searched for unicorns so we don't really know how elusive they are.

Mike

What a load of tosh. It's nothing of the sort. "

Fine - then you define it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the moment I'm orally bi, but never say never!I find both sexes equally attractive, I've yet to meet a couple looking for a bi guy, even though there seems to be lots on herr!

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By *allySlinkyWoman over a year ago

Leeds

What a load of tosh. It's nothing of the sort.

Fine - then you define it!"

I don't want to settle down with anyone. Does that make me asexual and not bi as I thought I was?

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

What a load of tosh. It's nothing of the sort.

Please read - I wrote ‘could think’ - if you think that bisexuality is only about having sex then you are missing the point entirely

Fine - then you define it!

I don't want to settle down with anyone. Does that make me asexual and not bi as I thought I was?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try finding a bi unicorn, bloody nightmare!"

I'd say finding a mythical beast of any sexuality was highly unlikely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In our experience bi guys aren't difficult to find.We've never searched for unicorns so we don't really know how elusive they are.

Mike

What a load of tosh. It's nothing of the sort.

Fine - then you define it!"

I would define bisexuality as being able to feel attracted to both men and women. Whether you fall in love and settle down is immaterial. You wouldn't consider a straight man who never marries or settles down as anything other than heterossexual.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we're having a discussion between us two about which is more difficult to find within the scene. Lou thinks it's bi guys and I'm firmly in the girls who are into couples are hardiest to find.

Wondering where other people's opinions on this sits?"
a bi guy elusive where you getting that from most 'straight guys 'are bi wouldn't you say that

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

Well as no one seems to agree what being bisexual actually means then perhaps we could have a few contributions from those who think that there is something a bit more to it than an individuals preference for who they have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well as no one seems to agree what being bisexual actually means then perhaps we could have a few contributions from those who think that there is something a bit more to it than an individuals preference for who they have sex with."

The dictionary definition is "someone who it sexually attracted to both men and women". So it literally is an individual's preference for who they have sex with.

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By *wistedBoudoirCouple over a year ago

Taunton

Just like everything in the world, sexuality falls into a spectrum.

Bi has traditionally meant you like boys and girls and you have sex with boys and girls. (Or both sexes if your being PC)

But it's not as subtle as that. Some bisexual people only want to have sex with the same sex but not form relationships. Then there are those that seek same sex relationships. Other bi people will look to both sexes for their fun. Some "choose a side" and stick to it.

Then there are bi-playful people. Who only want to be bi when they are hot and horny.

Sapiosexual people who are attracted to intelligence and don't care which sex has it.

Pan sexual who will want anyone they find attractive whatever its sexuality, sex, or demonimation.

It's a broad spectrum and fab does not allow for those extra options.

I'd personally say that "bisexual" is a blanket term for something much more interesting and diverse.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

Nice bi guys, much rarer.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why does this matter on this thread it has nothing to do with the question asked by the op. Being bi will mean Total different things to each person. It’s just a label

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By *hoot45Man over a year ago

Ramsgate

Why does this matter on this thread it has nothing to do with the question asked by the op. Being bi will mean Total different things to each person. It’s just a label "

If it means different things to different people then there’s no point in looking as you will never find what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have a bi unicorn and class her as our girlfriend. we do everything together. We met her through a club and we go out all the time and spend times in a club for lots of sexy fun and if not there we will be at her house or vice Versa spending time relaxing on each others sofas chilling having drinks

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