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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it  or
2) they are friend collectors
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
Number 1)?
Just a guess, could be Number 2) |
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
At least it sounds like you still have a friend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
The simple answer is one you are not going to like. They have looked at all the information available, looked at your pictures, message contact and decided you are not suitable to take things further with. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I am not sure why people would be a friend collector , so I will go with number 1..they didn't like your pic.
ouch - harsh but possibly true. Z"
Do you think? I thought I was just answering his question of which one do people think it could be.
Not everyone will like how anyone looks. |
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It could well be your picture cause not many would know :
a) where Dewsbury is, and
b) how shit Dewsbury is.
Wouldn't you be improving your chances if you changed it to Bradford 
Only slightly granted but every little helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
When we're interested in someone we always send a face pic attached to the first message - helps them decide very quickly whether they like us or not, and saves our time as well as theirs. Can't be doing with the endless chat before pics are shown. |
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
Whats a friend collector?Do they keep them in box,bring them out when the grandkids visit? 
They changed their mind...its probably best not to get too hung on why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am not sure why people would be a friend collector , so I will go with number 1..they didn't like your pic."
Agree with rugby. don't worry about it tho as not everybody appeals to everybody. Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prolly werent their type in the end.
u do the chit-chat to begin with to build confidence and then the pics get revealed which will be the deal breaker/sealer for most |
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"I am not sure why people would be a friend collector , so I will go with number 1..they didn't like your pic.
Agree with rugby. don't worry about it tho as not everybody appeals to everybody. Good luck."
um... "learn to love yourself and others might learn to love you too..." or some such tosh isn't it?
that's why I wank everyday... um... maybe thats the wrong sort of loving myself? might be why people think I'm a bit of a wanker instead? um...
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"They send you a message, you chat, they add you as a friend. And then minutes later they delete all your mail and ignore future messages. One of 2 reasons spring to mind
1) My face pic is for friends only and they dont like it or
2) they are friend collectors
opinions?"
I think there are likely to be many more reasons, but the good news is that once you've stopped any communication with them that you're not wasting any more of your time.
I keep my friends private, and other's friends are of little/no interest to me, unless we're having a party. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for your considerate comments. I have just sold my house, all my possessions and will be gambling it on all red at the casino tonight. I need the money for a trip to the USA for urgent plastic surgery!!!
As if I'd let any of this get me down!!! |
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By *isub69Man
over a year ago
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I tend not to add people as friends unless we are close to meeting or have chatted for a very long time.
I try to send a face pic with every message as this helps them to decide early on if they like the look of me etc.
If not then nothing has been wasted.
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If you get on my friends list concider yourself very special. . I expect photos of face way before that stage.I also like to have seen you on cam So I guess these people just want to see your private pics and then leave. |
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