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Is the site overun with moaners and whingers
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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no... but I do think that a lot of people come here with perceptions and expectations of limitless sexual encounters that greatly exceed the reality of what actually happens in swinging 
and that disappointment is what leads to said "whinging and moaning"......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As Bill Bailey once said "I am an Englishman, and as an Englishman, I crave disappointment"
He also called the Argos catalogue "the laminated book of dreams"
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Ok where do I fit in, Im a Jock wurzel scouser  "
if you think you don't fit in i am a carribean paddy yank who live with cockneys and geordies...
calling the united nations... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As Bill Bailey once said "I am an Englishman, and as an Englishman, I crave disappointment"
He also called the Argos catalogue "the laminated book of dreams"
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And why is it laminated? To catch the tears of joy, lmao!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok where do I fit in, Im a Jock wurzel scouser
if you think you don't fit in i am a carribean paddy yank who live with cockneys and geordies...
calling the united nations... "
And me a ye olde anglo-saxon suffolk racecourse yeomanry groupie with irish, scouse and danish tinges...
but knees up mother brown rolls off the tongue a bit easier _abio I must admit! pmsl
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i say it proves we are more than sexual beings some of us have ideas, and concerns that we can share and more or less get honest opinions from a varied audience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok where do I fit in, Im a Jock wurzel scouser
if you think you don't fit in i am a carribean paddy yank who live with cockneys and geordies...
calling the united nations... "
That has just given me my first coffee moment today  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ok,the moan. After many sexless evenings (i admit) on here. I noticed a few things. 1,couples/fems we would never normaly look at...suddenly appear as the most gorgeous women. So we message them. They get a full inbox of men (1000s of times more than they would get in real life.) SO...then they can afford to say "only men between 35 and 36,exacly 6.0'',green eyes,one tattoo on the left wrist and was born in norway..may message us". So technicaly...its our fault for chasing women/couples we normaly wouldnt even look at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok,the moan. After many sexless evenings (i admit) on here. I noticed a few things. 1,couples/fems we would never normaly look at...suddenly appear as the most gorgeous women. So we message them. They get a full inbox of men (1000s of times more than they would get in real life.) SO...then they can afford to say "only men between 35 and 36,exacly 6.0'',green eyes,one tattoo on the left wrist and was born in norway..may message us". So technicaly...its our fault for chasing women/couples we normaly wouldnt even look at. "
There maybe some truth in that but thinking like that is very negative and many reading what you have put may now think of you and an any hole man.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we're gonna be moaning in about 5 hours time  
Is that after they fail to meet up?
na, this fella always shows and is a diamond
Cool, well hope you have a good one "
Awww thanks, not sure if I may have to depart mid-way  , but Sam will be in very capable hands |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"no... but I do think that a lot of people come here with perceptions and expectations of limitless sexual encounters that greatly exceed the reality of what actually happens in swinging
and that disappointment is what leads to said "whinging and moaning"...... "
Be fair Fab...some wait at least a week before posting a moan. Must be frustrating as you have to wait a week to post! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well i say it proves we are more than sexual beings some of us have ideas, and concerns that we can share and more or less get honest opinions from a varied audience."
Aaah but some DON'T want varied opinions though, they're on an ego massaging exercise and get very tetchy if you don't follow their script.
Amusing to watch at times.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok,the moan. After many sexless evenings (i admit) on here. I noticed a few things. 1,couples/fems we would never normaly look at...suddenly appear as the most gorgeous women. So we message them. They get a full inbox of men (1000s of times more than they would get in real life.) SO...then they can afford to say "only men between 35 and 36,exacly 6.0'',green eyes,one tattoo on the left wrist and was born in norway..may message us". So technicaly...its our fault for chasing women/couples we normaly wouldnt even look at.
There maybe some truth in that but thinking like that is very negative and many reading what you have put may now think of you and an any hole man. "
Sigh...there really are some thoughts best kept to yourself. However, as you're used to sexless nights... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well i say it proves we are more than sexual beings some of us have ideas, and concerns that we can share and more or less get honest opinions from a varied audience.
Aaah but some DON'T want varied opinions though, they're on an ego massaging exercise and get very tetchy if you don't follow their script.
Amusing to watch at times.
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and there are some very big egos to massage on here too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ok,the moan. After many sexless evenings (i admit) on here. I noticed a few things. 1,couples/fems we would never normaly look at...suddenly appear as the most gorgeous women. So we message them. They get a full inbox of men (1000s of times more than they would get in real life.) SO...then they can afford to say "only men between 35 and 36,exacly 6.0'',green eyes,one tattoo on the left wrist and was born in norway..may message us". So technicaly...its our fault for chasing women/couples we normaly wouldnt even look at.
There maybe some truth in that but thinking like that is very negative and many reading what you have put may now think of you and an any hole man.
Sigh...there really are some thoughts best kept to yourself. However, as you're used to sexless nights... "
we have quite a few sexless nights, not really sleeping even , just more like waiting for the morning!!! |
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"ok,the moan. After many sexless evenings (i admit) on here. I noticed a few things. 1,couples/fems we would never normaly look at...suddenly appear as the most gorgeous women. So we message them. They get a full inbox of men (1000s of times more than they would get in real life.) SO...then they can afford to say "only men between 35 and 36,exacly 6.0'',green eyes,one tattoo on the left wrist and was born in norway..may message us". So technicaly...its our fault for chasing women/couples we normaly wouldnt even look at. "
I recon you are on to something there.
I've also mentioned before now the confusion cause by the numbers... the numbers being:
Out there in the normal world when men and women are asked to rate themselves on how attractive the are (on a scale of 1-10), generally men over-rate themselves and women tend to under-rate (there are obviously exceptions - it's just what the research generally shows).
So a guy who thinks he's an 8 is more likely a 6, but will go for a woman who is an 8 who thinks she is a 6 and so a male 6 seems OK.
But places like this can often turn the numbers on their head when females start to believe their own hype.
You can read plenty of comments from women about what a confidence boost this place has been for them.... you guys only have yourselves to blame when a 4 isn't grateful. |
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