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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anybody (guys) suffer from the nerves and shrinking of the little man when visiting a swingers club? Can you wear a towel in those moments? I have never been to a swingers club and would like someone to take me to one, or me take them? Just a bit bothered as am a grower not a shower. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get some Viagra if nervous? I think from this year you can get it from the pharmacist direct"
Yes, that is an option, so entering the club with a boner sticking out of the top of your trousers is okay hahaha. I was thinking it would be a relaxing place at times when having a drink and chat so thought many guys would let it be flaccid too? |
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If your worried pick a club that you don't need to dress down for. I wouldn't recommend Viagra for nerves as it can hamper rather than help. Plus it may not work if your not able to relax anyway.
Just go and chat in the bar areas.. Don't worry about the sex bit at all.
And nerves are a common thing.. |
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"Does anybody (guys) suffer from the nerves and shrinking of the little man when visiting a swingers club? Can you wear a towel in those moments? I have never been to a swingers club and would like someone to take me to one, or me take them? Just a bit bothered as am a grower not a shower. "
It's normal. Normal, normal, normal. You are human, not robot and the vast majority of men in clubs do not have erections. |
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Most men aren’t erect in clubs so wearing a towel is fine and being in the jacuzzi without an erection is also fine - it’ll give you time to chill and relax and let the nerves go before doing anything
And viagra/sildenafil if you do try it strengthens an erection that would’ve happened anyway - it won’t randomly cause one when you’re just walking it doesn’t work like that! |
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