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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve recently started to talk to someone who wants to explore his sub side.
Any ideas for tasks I can set him?
Atm I have him on a no cumming for 5 days and getting him to wear women’s underwear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well done OP .....
you sound as if you have it sorted - speaking as a Bi sexual male who as within last 6 months gone from being Dom top guy , to a switching Sub on occasions, I think there is a fine line between controlling your Sub to over stepping and abusing his/her trust. Be mindful that ultimately you are giving and hopefully receiving pleasure  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for your reply. Everything he has done so far are from his suggestions and when we’ve broken character, he tells me he enjoys it.
He’s looking to do more and I need inspiration! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Princess
You could get him to spend time with weight attached to his nipples or balls.
Also you could get him to train his ass
Then send him to by something of an embarrassing nature so he can feel a degree of humiliation (if that is his thing as there are lots of different flavours to submission)
As long as you both get enjoyment it's going to be positive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Purple Shadow if I had more time I'd fab every one of your pics. Some great BDSM sights and equipment on display
Thanks   "
Your very welcome. Just wish I was in your criteria. |
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Send him shopping for only three items:
A large cucumber
A packet of condoms
A tube of lubrication
Nothing else.
And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.
Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Send him shopping for only three items:
A large cucumber
A packet of condoms
A tube of lubrication
Nothing else.
And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.
Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .
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This reminds me of when I worked in Tescos years ago. A man came through the checkout with a pot of vasaline, some condoms and a Cadbury’s cream egg. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Send him shopping for only three items:
A large cucumber
A packet of condoms
A tube of lubrication
Nothing else.
And he needs to pay for them at a manned checkout.
Ask for a photo of the items and receipt . . .
This reminds me of when I worked in Tescos years ago. A man came through the checkout with a pot of vasaline, some condoms and a Cadbury’s cream egg. "
An online Domme made me and wife eat Cadbury creme eggs out of each others arses once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to him, ask questions, the more you communicate before hand, the less you will have to "break character" for want of a better phrase, find out his limits and more importantly his hard limits, and build scenarios around what you have talked about.
And don't forget after care, it's the best time to debrief your sub about what they did or didn’t enjoy.
You might know all this but the question seems fitting for the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a sub doesn't always have to be about punishing them or pain. "
This I got two loads of washing and ironing done last week, it was difficult watching someone else do my washing but it was kind of worth it, not gonna lie |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
OP rather than accepting random ideas from people on a forum that don't know either of you - might be an idea to find a BDSM questionnaire on-line that you BOTH complete independently and then find mutual interests from that.
Some of the good ones will cover vast areas of BDSM that you may never have thought of and will certainly provide grounds for further discussion between you, as well as ideas around directions to take your play in.
Might also help you to read books like Screw The Roses and SM101 that may help shape your views on the whole BDSM scene |
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